No More Porn For Me

Drink green tea :D

How does that help?

I don’t know lol but it’s good for ya! Relaxes you, maybe helps with psychological ED.

I dont know you guys, but for me after day 7, my libido just disapears and my erection becames smaller.

I really want to kick my porn habit. I can still say that it’s not interfering with my personal or professional life, but the viewing binges in my free time have been getting worse again and I feel like it’s eroding my soul, if that makes sense. Of course it doesn’t help that I haven’t gotten laid in 3 weeks due to work and some other bad coincidences. Having more or less regular sex with the woman also helps to fight the cravings.

On one hand, I know when to stop watching and get my ass back in gear, but there was a time in my life when I didn’t, and that still scares me. I DO have healthy hobbies, and I know that one step is finding something to do instead whenever the “porning” urge comes along. I just don’t know what that would be yet.

I read this and it sounded so familiar, I will be anywhere on the internet ( mostly here, basically only site I go to these days :D ) and all of a sudden I will get this urge to go load up the newest video of Amy Reid or Tory Lane. I have no idea what to do either to curb this feeling, but recently I just log off the internet almost the exact moment it happens and then go run outside and do push ups on my drive way. I think the neighbors are starting to notice I do this a lot now lol. But it is the only thing that I can think of that will get me away from the computer and punish my mind and body for having those thoughts. Hope you find something to avoid the urge BossaNova.

Good points paulski. I’m calling it quits on porn too due to some of the exact same situations you mentioned. Sometimes it’s difficult but seeing other people do it to helps keep you accountable.

I’m feeling pretty clear headed. One of the nice things about porn detoxing (for me) is that the images of all the porn I’ve watched recently start to gradually fade. During the binge periods, I’ll have images/clips of whatever porn I was watching in my head for at least 24 hours after I stop watching, and if I watch again later that day or the next day it starts all over again. With the break, things start to clear out.

On a separate note, I really need to get laid. The woman and I haven’t had sex in almost a month because she’s usually beat from working (I am as well half the time) and some of the time it’s like the spirit wants to have sex but the flesh doesn’t feel up to it. Also, for the past couple weeks she’s been in a deep funk since her dog died. I don’t blame her, it was pretty much the cutest dog you’ll ever see. I still come close to bawling myself when I think about it. The point being, however, that I can compartmentalize such things (especially after 2 weeks) and it doesn’t diminish my desire to be intimate with her.

(continued) I feel like I’m actually more tired BECAUSE I’m not having sex rather than the other way around.

So today while I was surfing the forum the urge to watch porn kicked in really hard. So I did my usual - logged off and ran to the drive way to do push ups. When I came back in though I was super horny still and was getting an erection. So I figured ok what the hell I will edge for a little. I sat in my front room tally wacking it with no porn for the first time in so long I can’t remember, the weird thing was after 30 minutes of edging I started trying to cum instead. I went for maybe another 30 minutes and just could not cum at all, My dick got so rock hard that I was certain I would but it just never came. I guess I am so rewired sexually from porn that without it or without a girl ( always orgasmed from sex ) I can’t cum anymore… Kind of upset me :(

Have you tried using a fleshlight or other masturbation sleeve? To me, they feel so good you have to do your best not to cum (sometimes within minutes if it’s been a while).

Also, how old are you? I read recently that penis sensitivity declines with age.

Well I don’t have a fleshlight or masturbation sleeve ( not sure what that is, but it sounds self explanatory )

Also I am 19, I still feel almost everything that happens down there so I do not think it is desensitized, maybe just a little but not enough to where it scares me that much, especially because about a month ago ( maybe, it was around there ) I had a back and forth conversation with someone about sensitivity and the ending result was I took about two weeks off of masturbation and focused primarily on my PE and sex with the ex. While having sex I really started to tune into what I could feel down there, at the beginning I never really felt much ( main reason I was worried ) but towards the end of our relationship I was starting to feel spots inside her that I had never noticed on my dick before because they were so subtle. It really got me pretty excited because from what I believe either I am starting to re-sensitize myself or I am just better at being aware to the interactions of my penis ( which either one in my mind is a good thing )

The desensitizing that folks are talking about from too much porn is more mental that physical. If you are wanking a lot then you will lose your mo jo and a couple of days off your good to go. If you have a hard time getting excited when you are with your partner because you have pushed your porn viewing a lot is the desensitizing we are talking about. Some porn detox can help this but the urge to view or purchase porn that pops into you head whenever and has you thinking about your next fix is the addiction settling in that needs to be addressed, if you feel that at all.

Good on you for focusing on what you can feel, physically, with your partner. Our penis’s are not quite a finger tip and if she uses a IUD, that can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable poking the cord with your meatus!

I’m in. I’ve improved but I want to be 100% done.

softcore pictures (no nude) is considerate porn?? :S

I used for my clamp session :S