Ask what ever you want

About 2 months ago. She says she attempted to use them but they would not stay in. I encouraged her again today to start using them so we will see if she does. I hope so, though. Seems like the reviews I read the women had very positive experiences.

Weak pelvic floor , in that comment , jumped out at me. Do you think or anybody else think that in a woman the pelvic floor plays a part in the intensity or ease a woman can have an orgasm?

Maybe I’m using the wrong term, but I equate “weak pelvic floor” to be one part of a loose vagina. In other words, unless you are large enough in girth, there is less friction due to the walls of the vagina not being rubbed by the man’s penis. Now, this may or may not have anything to do with her orgasms. Certain amount of women will never be able to orgasm without some form of friction on the clit. If you are concerned that your wife cannot orgasm from intercourse without her clit being touched, don’t fret it. However, the ben-wa balls can only help her enjoy penetration more.

Weak pelvic floor also has other affects such as incontinence (leaky bladder….ever heard a woman say they peed a little bit when they sneeze?) and long term could cause other issues for a woman.

I guess the phrase ” felt full ” takes more , after my wife had our 2 children naturally. She has used this terminology when trying to describe how penetration felt . But not in the sense that it couldn’t feel fuller , she has only used that phrase a couple of times , never said stop I cant take it no more , ladies try to be so conservative, but I think she wants to be stuffed full, she has alluded to that in her own way , I know that she enjoys sex more when it feels tighter, she has told me that she would of had a cesarean if she had our 2 kids again, she says ” i would not have ruined my junk i would have my original equipment” that’s why she is curious about Ben way balls . I’m rambling , ok anybody else’s wife try them?

Question, is it better to get gains from an extender or a hanger first ? I’m currently still gaining with manuals and extending, but I wanted to know if there was a recommended device to first get the max gains with.

I’m asking that because of what firegoat said about clamping, saying it’s “as a last resort” somehow.

Extender is much gentler than hanging. Use the extender first.

So I should try to get the maximum gains possible with the extender first, and when I plateau I’ll have to switch to a hanger ? Thank you.

In my opinion, that is dependent on your time frame. In your 5th year of extending you might get an 1/8th of an inch in that year. Results are slowing but you won’t know you have maxed gains until you don’t see any results. That could potentially take years.

Instead maybe go with extending and when the results start slowing down to a point of frustration, then maybe switch to something else.

With the idea that you are being consistent with your effort.

So, being very new to PE I’ve being trying to develop the best routine that would work for me. During this process, I’ve been reading as much as I can here on the forums. I stumbled upon a thread regarding edging and premature ejaculation. Here-in comes the question. I can not achieve an erection by masterbation alone. I need either porn or the assistance of my wife. It has me pretty concerned. I assume it’s due to the nasty habit of masterbating with porn that I developed in my 20’s. I am hoping that this can be corrected? I feel it is inhibiting my PE sessions as well as intimate moments with my wife. Any suggestions?

The only way I can masturbate alone or without porn is with an elaborate storyline complete with dialog. It helps to have an overactive imagination. :)

I guess all hope for me is lost then. ☺ In all seriousness though- I am sure it is all psychological and results from using porn as a stimulus. At least that seems to be the logical reason. Unless I have done damage to my member from improper PE. I believe I’ve been going fairly easy. Just minimal stretching (8 - 10 mins, 3 x a week) and low pressure bathmate sessions for 15 minutes, twice a week.

Are you jelqing sykocis? Doing newbie routine ? How long you been married? Have kids?

I think it is something that happens with age. Both lower testosterone levels and previous experience (having seen porn/having had sexual experiences) make it harder to achieve an erection without stimulation. That’s why every porn begins with a blowjob. :)

That’s funny never thought of that but your right. Do you think marinera that for them women its just another walk in the park ? Are they over the thought” oh my god ” i gotta suck his dick?

Hello,

I have a question. I’ve begun with the Newbie Routine yesterday, but I’ve noticed the penis cannot sustain the five minutes of stretching and ten minutes of jelqing afterward. Now I’m thinking about cutting the times and exercises in half (minus the five minutes hot wrap), though I’m actually leaning toward the Linear Newbie Routine as it looks a little more “gentler” if that’s the correct way to describe it.

Would it be better to cut the time and exercises in half of the Newbie Routine, or switch to the Linear Newbie Routine?