My girlfriend and I went dildo shopping again. I asked her point blank, “so which is the hottest for you?” And she pointed to this dildo called the “outlaw” (no, I’m not affiliated with it, but you can check out the actual thing online if you are curious.)
Anyway, we bought it. It’s 9 inches long (I don’t know why it’s advertised at 8. I measured the damn thing myself) and 6.5 girth at the head. It starts to taper to about 6.0-6.2 towards the middle, and then it’s back up to 6.5 at the base again. It really mimicks a dick well too because it’s made of silicone. It “gives” like a real dick would. Some dildos are too hard and have no spongeness to them. Real dicks aren’t like that so it’s a poor measure to compare your size to those kinds of toys.
Ok, so anyway… Her eyes absolutely LIT UP when she saw it. Now back to the bedroom with the thing. When we started to fuck with it, we really had to go slow. I would intermittently fuck her with my 7.75 x 5.7.
Here’s the thing:
We had to go slow with this dildo and she really said it was not so comfortable at the head. But she did say that she liked the feeling of the 6.1ish portion. It was hot to watch it go in her. Even the portion at 6 seems damn thick! I was surprised because I clamp up to 6.2 but this dildo seemed way bigger. I really think that men looking at their own dicks just see it smaller somehow. It’s like we can’t even see our dicks for how big they really are.
Anyway, now I’m not sure I want to be this extra .5 inch if I have to slow down and watch her grimace in occasional pain when we fuck.
I think it’s a double-edged sword: girls get turned on visually by thick, long dicks but you might have to deal with the impracticality of fucking with them. You might get a wincing girl here and there. You might not be able to fuck as fast either. You might get them sore quicker. You might get laid less often!
The gf said she definitely only wants to use the toy once in a while. She maintains that even my girth at 5.7 occasionally delivers some discomfort.
OH! And she also couldn’t take any more than 7-7.5 in length. I could have pushed it, by she was already saying “ouch, stop” by then. I think when you get really thick, you can’t use as much length either.
Anyway, this is something to consider. I would agree that 5.5 could damn well be a perfect girth.
I may adjust my girth goals for 6 instead of 6.5 now. I would hate to get laid less!