Don't think I'll ever feel big!

It’s weird how when I started I just wanted to be at least average. But early in I wanted to have a big dick. Not huge but just a big dick. And now I’m only about .25” away from having a 7” NBPEL and really close to 6” EG I still don’t feel big in the least. I still feel as shitty about my size as when I was 6.25” BPEL. I don’t feel comfortable with a girl seeing it. That’s all I want is to feel ok with her seeing my dick and feeling good about it. I feel good about the rest of my body for the most part but not my dick.

Even when I put up the ruler to my body and visualize my dick an extra .50” it doesn’t seem like I would think even that was big. I don’t think I would ever feel ok with it cause I don’t have many more gains available as I’m already about 1” gained. Kind of discouraged. I thought a 7” NBPEL with 6” EG would me feel better about what I have. I just want to be proud of my package. Don’t think that will happen.

Give up porn mate. You are big. Enjoy it.

Just keep raising your goal, maybe one day you will realize how big you are. I have the same feeling as you do except I don’t feel shitty about my size. I just want to be bigger. And after 1.5” gains, I am getting proud of what I have.

PE is kind of funny. We get way to critical about ourselves. I’ve added about an inch of length (7 1/4 BPEL now) and over 1/4 in in girth (5 5/8+ EG now) the past year, yet when I look at my stuff I think it could be bigger. However, my wife (who does not know I practice PE), comments on my size much more than in the past. I did not get into PE to be big, but to be better! As Ben1966 says, just enjoy it.

Same here.

Its called being a nut case! :)
( and I mean that in the best possible way!)

I think every guy in the world would like an extra inch or so, and then some people would either want more just to be greedy or feel as though their penis is “not big”. I think it is all about self confidence. In every part of your life there are things you are not happy with, or you think that things could be better. Some things you are more comfortable with than others, and your dick in as area you are not comfortable with. I think you just have to accept that fact that you may not have the biggest dick in the world, but that you have one that works and it does please your partner!

Like you, I suffer from the same thing, but I am not assamed of letting a girl see my penis. I am 7.25” NBPEL and 5.25” girth give or take. I am also only 5’7” and 120 pounds so it makes my dick “look” a little bigger than it is. I have always been told I have a big dick, BUT I do not think so. I will probably never be satisfied with my penis until it is 8” NBPEL, of course my goal is 9” BPEL. LOL Now although I am not there yet, I do not get down about it or upset with myself or even embarrassed around girls. Man, your dick is not the best part about you. Girls are going to be attracted to you for you….your dick is the bonus!

And when you get top 8nbp you will not be satisfied with that either, it is a curse, not being satisfied with your dick. Keep in mind you already have a porn star size dick. I’m not telling you to stop PE or anything. I’m certainly not going to it is an obsession, a healthy obsession. Proceed then! I can’t say that I have arrived in the state of true satisfaction. But I will tell you this I’m so much more happier than I was before. And there is so much more to be happy about than growing a bigger dick. Find some sort of balance so you don’t get frustrated. Frustration stops gains.

This reminds me of a what a coach once told me regarding athletic performance: be happy, but never be satisfied. The drive to get more size is an asset, not a liability- as long as you don’t get let frustration slow you down. You have already made gains, you know PE works. Check the logs of some big gainers, you will see that additional size is very feasible for you to attain. Keep it up and build your unit to the size you want. Good luck.

I wish I could complain about not feeling big with close to 6” MSEG ahahah. When I get there hopefully I can complain too.

It’s all on your head, thecrow. Once you fix your insecurities it’s gonna be ok. If you don’t… you’ll have a 12 inch rod and still think you’re small.
Size matters mostly to you than to her. if it matters to you…it matters to her… cause an insecure guy will not fuck with passion. Be confident…learn to love and appreciate yourself. If you genuinely love yourself, others will also. Check out Ziggy Marley - True To Myself.

Good luck.

The Crow 19,

Reading your opening statement, it seems appropriate to write the following:

Just as easily as you can think that you will never feel big, you can also think “I feel big!” It’s all in the way you think.

Be your own best friend rather than your own worst enemy.

Congratulations on your good gains! You are Big!

Now: BPEL 7.125" NBPEL 6.6" EG 5.8"

With that combination of stats, you are BIG. I don’t know what the obsession around here is with the number 6" MSEG. Because they claim "Peter North" has that?

With the circle calculator I get

5.8" = 1.84" diameter
6" = 1.91" diameter

Circle And Sphere Calculator

So we are talking about a .07 difference. Do you think a woman could either see or feel that? (Hats off to equine rooster)

You should be proud to show it to a (consenting) woman. She will probably be happy to see it. Or she may say NO WAY THAT IS TOO THICK.

If these thoughts are preventing you from approaching women and being happy, you just have to let them go.

(Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t PE - we all want bigger dicks. But what you have is pretty damn big already)

Why are you psyching yourself out with this defeatist attitude? Where is the rulebook that says you can’t gain much more then 1”. People have gained 3+ inches on this site. But if you don’t think you will gain anymore, you probably won’t. :(

Stay determined man. Chase those gains. And listen to the others, because you are already big. Like what iDare said.

7x6 is pornstar size, I second that. The magical 6” girth, its one of my dreams to accomplish in life.