Jelqing leading to premature ejaculation

Hey guys, I’m still relatively new to the whole PE scene, and before beginning anything I decided to try out jelqing.
Problem is, since then I find I now ejaculate a lot quicker during intercourse (once even before it began); what could be the reason?
Most the time when I jelq, I am erect - they vary from several quick holds to a few 10 second ones.
I also use the same action to slow down my ejaculation when edging.

Sorry if this question has been asked before, I tried searching but not much came up.

What am I doing wrong?
Any help is greatly appreciated.

This is because PE exercises are increasing your penis sensitivity. You will need to do some research on ejaculation control. You are definitely not doing anything wrong if your jelqing is making you ejaculate quicker, I imagine your erections are also going through the roof?

Oh I see, thanks for the info!

Oops, I said I did several quick holds and a few 10 second ones - I forgot to add those were kegels.

Another question anyway

The premature ejaculation tends to come quicker too if I kegel - isn’t this the reverse effect?

The exercises are probably just new to you which makes it more of a ‘primer’, say foreplay for foreplay.
Because you’re already energized and excited you’ll blow your load quicker.

It’ll become less after a while when you get used to it.

I have had the same problem I ejaculate much faster now. Never had a problem with this before. Now I must stop moving and kegel allot. Sometimes I get so close to ejaculation that I loose my erection. I kegel as much I can but it doesn’t help. The dick goes flaccid. It’s doesn’t take much work to get it hard again but this is really annoying anyway. When it’s hard it’s hard and it gets hard easy but I hate that I ejaculate much easier.

I’ve had this too. My dick is waaay more sensitive now. It sucks.

Having a more sensitive dick is a good thing!

However, I seriously need to get back into edging - great for learning ejaculatory control.

Second sta-kool, I personally work towards penis sensitivity and whenever I reach a new high (which I have done very recently, described in the thread in my signature) I work towards better control. As much as I wouldn’t say I’m a selfish lover, sex isn’t just about the woman. I want it to feel as good as possible for me too!

This happened to me when I first started. Hang in there, after a while it goes away.

I had that problem when I started too. Unfortunately it only got worse. It wasn’t until I went about 6 months without PE for my ability to dictate when I felt like finishing came back. I have now increased my edging practice, and begun to use a fleshlight to condition myself to a super stimulating sensation in the hope that I can return to my previous ability. So far it’s working.

Why does PEing increase penile sensitivity? You would think it would get less sensitive since the penis gets used to being touched so much

I second that alex553, as far as masturbation goes you are more in control because you’re touching it all the time. Don’t know about sex since I’m single nowadays.

You guys with increasing sensitivity should mention your age. This is very much age dependent. Any such maneuver with our dick (like jelqing, edging) facilitates premature ejaculation. I can spot two reasons, but may be more:
- desire for release builds up already before intercourse
- penis is already tired

Kegeling (allot) during intercourse hoping to delay ejaculation has quite the opposite effect. One long & strong hold at PONR does the trick (if you are very well trained), but kegeling like crazy makes you cum easier!

^+1 to the kegelling thing during intercourse.

Use real short kegels as a surprise pressure tactic which enhances your hard-on for that quick second and send ripples down your mate. However do not overdo kegel as it essentially aids ejaculation, with great pressure though, during intercourse.

As far as premature ejaculation is concerned, if the author is uncut then most probably your glans has become too sensitive. One way to avoid premature ejaculation is to roll your foreskin for few days and let it’s sensitivity go down a bit.

Hope it helps.

That’s a good advice.