Hi,
I’ve been stalking the threads for about 4 months. I am a 44 year old married (16 years) white male about 6ft tall.
I’ve been inadvertently doing a form PE since puberty in the form of edging: just forcing as much blood into my member as I can, mostly prone. I’ve never been small, though I wouldn’t say I was ever the widest. I remember about 15-16 being happy with 6 1/4 BPEL, but at some point got it to about 6 3/4.
Over the years It would hover around 7, until I was watching porn on my TV and sat on the edge of my bed and in that position I had the biggest erection I had seen until that point in my life, probably a solid 7 1/2. Not bad!
That got me thinking about positions and blood flow, how to visualize and force more in than out.
So, after that I still didn’t gain much as far as EL
But I would occasionally, after very intense edging, get to a point where I looked huge. It was a huge turn on, inevitably leading to an orgasm in my excitement.
These little moments gave hope that I had the potential to cement those freak occurrences as actual gains. I’ve kept the hope, mostly. Especially when for the longest time since early adulthood, I could measure a BPFL of around 8 1/2, though never reach that while erect(perhaps getting close during intense moments.)
Now comes my time perusing this forum: I had tried, unsuccessfully previously, to pump and gave it up. Now, with more knowledge I got a tube that fit my width better, although it was far too long at 12 x 2. Still, I worked it and filled it with girth, and one time got it to my short term goal of 8 1/2 after about 2 months.
Now, I ordered a cheap extender off eBay and have been using that as well. Mostly to stop shrinkage, but I also edge with it occasionally and manage to really get a good girth with that technique. I also got a shorter 9 x 2 tube as a fairly short term solution and just last night got it to about 9 1/8 for the first time cracking the 9 inch barrier.
I use a combo of dry, then wet pumps. During this last time I really pushed it and added some shaving gel into the base to cause back pressure to push me to my goal.
I know it’s a dangerous way to do it, but I’ve grown to know my limits and when to back off.
This is fun and I hope to keep looking for better ways to get past the small hurdles and short term limits. There’s so much in saying having a big mentality, to see someone that has done it helps the faith.
One day I’ll get to 12 inches, girth I feel, will take care of itself, though I expect I’ll be over 7 at that length.
Thanks for reading and hello!
:)