Stixmanβs Virgin Post
This is my first post. I have been lurking and learning a lot from this site. Back when I was a kid we only had the library, Betamax, VHS tapes, crusty porn mags and trying to see a tit on the scrambled porn channel.
Fining this site is like finding a hidden sex manual under a floor board in the attic. I will be making a donation soon.
Amazing support and ingenuity on this site. I canβt thank everyone enough for saving my dick from injury. I am the all or nothing type and I was headed on a road which would have probably caused a lot of damage and little gains.
I have been learning the lingo and about parts of my penis which I had no idea existed. I am learning more about PI as a guide to listening to my body.
I pumped a little bit in College, over 20 years ago. Aside from that, I jerk off a lot. It got into PE about a month ago. I found an old exercise donut which is mean for grip training. Who know, the same product may have also been marketed as a cock ring. Anyway, a hole to put my dick in, why not. (Trying to respect the request for proper grammar, π.)
Wow, it gives me incredible erections and amazing organisms. I suppose I have been edging with it.
I then purchased a pump. The only one in the store which had a gauge had a 2.5β diameter base. Safety first. I used it a few times. I also bought an anti-turtle/pumping sleeve and felt it did wonders for girth expansion during pumping. I am going to shelf the pump for a bit and focus on the newbie routine. When I resume pumping I will buy a 1.75β cylinder. When I pack it I will move up. Thanks for saving me a ton of money on a Bathmate. I read the advice here and bought a vacuum pressure test kit for bleeding breaks.
I havenβt tried it yet but will in due time.
I also purchased a knock off tension extender and tried it once to get a hang of it. Great tips on this site. Learning about BPFL measurement fluctuations due to pelvic tilt, I came to appreciate that if I put the device on while sitting hunched forward and then stand, I lose tension. Conversely, if I put it on while standing and then sit, the tension increase is appreciated. However, I will bench this device and stick with the newbie routine for now.
I purchased a $500 blow up hot tube a few months ago, prior to getting into PE. How convenient as I understand how heat is our friend. I just did my first newbie routine in the hot tub. Amazing!! I added a few extra stretches which are part of the rotating stretch but also do them in a static fashion (left, right, diagonal upper left, diagonal upper right and why not, straight out. I also do a little of grabbing the shaft in the middle and stretching because I felt the base to mod shaft was very relaxed but the top part of my shaft was still a bit stiff. I also relax the stretches a bit and perform a deep tissue massage to the shaft, ligs and the cord. I am then able to stretch further, especially so on the BTC stretch as I felt as if I could pull my dick up my back, lol.
The tip on olive oil to assist wet jelqing under water was huge. I only had to apply it once for the entire session. When I would wet jelq in my bedroom with water based lube, I had to reapply a few times.
I am going to learn more about reading my PIs and condition my mind that less is more and see how things go for a few months. I can always do more later.
Learning about BP measuring is awesome, instant dick size enhancement, lol. Due to porn, I always felt I was average but on the smaller side. With the advent of the internet, I know know that my flaccid size is at times the same as the average erect size based on some studies. I was surprised.
I am married with 2 kids. I am blessed to have a hot Wife with big lips, small hands, a small waist, big tits and a big ass. Unfortunately, she has 2 autoimmune diseases and is often in pain, hence, not a lot of sex which leads to a lot of time playing with myself. However, learning about LED IR on this site prompted me to research if it could help my Wife with her aliments. There are a few studies which suggest it can and I will be buying a setup for each of us. Fingers crossed. If it helps her, my donations will certainly keep rolling in. If I can, my donations will certainly keep rolling in as well, π. Seriously though, I really hope it helps her, π€.
I am still learning the intricacies not measuring properly. I didnβt document my starting stats or date but I am convinced that I gained a little length from the cock ring while edging. I certainly have EQ gains. The best gains were from sex. Not only was my erection harder and longer but the sensations were astronomical. After I busted my nut from sex, I asked her to blow me. While I didnβt have juice to bust again, I was rock hard and enjoyed the super heightened sensation which was amazing. I honestly do not remember sexual stimulation feeling this good in my 42
Years on this planet.
Staring Size (with some possible gains in these #s):
-BPEL 6.75β
-MSEG 4.9-5.0β
-BSEG 5.0β
-BPFL 4.5-5.25β
-FG 4.5β
-BPFSL 7.1β
Goal Before the New Year
-BPEL 7β
-MSEG 5.2β
-Not being able to shove my erect dick into a toilet paper tube
Long Term Goal
-BPEL 7.5β
-NBPEL 7β
-EG 5.5β
Dream Goal
-Magic 8βx6β NBP but Iβd be ecstatic with BP measurements