Hello, everybody, this is my first post after signing up about a month ago.
Anyway, I found this site because I was searching for natural penis enlargement methods because I am insecure about my size. Just to give you guys an idea my flaccid is an unimpressive 2.5 to 3 inches and my NBPEL is 4.7 inches but my BPEL is 5.5 inches with a 4.3 inches erect girth (sorry for not knowing the abbreviations). Because of this I have removed myself from the dating scene so as to avoid being shamed and emasculated by women (women can be cruel and will discuss your “small” problem with others). It feels terrible to be in your mid-thirties (I am thirty-four) and not have been with a woman at all.
My issues started when I was eleven. I was close to “scoring” with a fourteen year old girl but did not because when she grabbed my junk (I was wearing denim pants) she said she felt nothing and rather than feeling aroused I became anxious and I left her apartment. We tried again, and this time I tried getting an erection but my anxiety got the better of me and I could not get an erection.
With the passing of time I assumed that things would just fall in place and that somehow an attractive woman would fall for me and I would lose my virginity but alas real life is something else. It does not help that women prefer a much larger penis (it is no secret that women prefer something that is between six to seven inches in length with a girth between five to six inches) to mine in both length and girth which contributes to removing myself from dating and from feeling depressed about my situation.
I do realize that I have to work on my low self-esteem but I feel that working on the size of my member that I will give my self-esteem a much needed boost.
I felt very hopeful with the newbie program but I have stumbled upon a problem: I cannot jelq properly. I do the five-minute warm up with a warm towel but it leaves me with a tiny member (like when it is cold), I do the stretches with difficulty (I am uncircumcised), and then I try to manually arouse myself (even visually) but my member just does not respond. I believe that anxiety is the main culprit because I do posses a fear that perhaps I might injure myself or that I am not performing the exercises correctly. Or maybe I am not very comfortable messing around with my junk.
Did anyone experience any erection problems as a newbie when trying to perform jelqs? And has anyone felt any pelvic discomfort after performing the stretches?
Thanks in advance to whoever provides me with useful information. I hope to make PE a part of my life as I feel that I posses both the time and will to perform the exercises when twenty to thirty minutes is not that much when there are people to waste more time sitting on their butts watching television.