My Intro

Hey guys, glad to be a part of this forum. Been browsing it randomly but lately I’ve decided to really start attacking this.

I’ve always been average and I’m pretty sick of it, I figure all the guys here and the knowledge is where I can really solve this dilemma.

I’m 6 in long, and 4 1/2 around, so ya, pretty small.

In any case, I’ve started to get in shape, really cutting the fat. That helps me more mentally than anything else.

I’ve got a new girl I’m seeing and every time we’ve had sex I’ve been somewhat alcohol induced and it’s just been an issue for me to get hard to start, I’m used to my ex who would give me head every time and that made it easy for me. So, I think I just need to start training and doing a lot of PE, because I’m positive it’s just a mental sexual anxiety deal. No issues masturbating.

I also purchased an x4 Labs extender, but I only used it off and on, and I think to really get the use out of those, it needs to be 6 hours a day solid. One of my main questions
I suppose is, should I use the extender AFTER doing some jelq routines and stuff like that, it is a muscle after all and I would hate to do some damage to it.

Anyway, as I said, it’s a pleasure to finally be a member and I hope you guys can help me attain my goals of a larger rod and a better sex life, like many of you have done so here.

Tops

Welcome aboard. Live free or die, baby. NH is a great state.

Welcome. You are not small. Average for girth and above average for length.

Great job on cutting the fat. I’m doing the same.

Have you tried not drinking so much next time you’re together? Or going down on her first. Giving my wife oral always makes me rock hard.

Well, we’re not TOGETHER, but we’re only intimate with each other, if you get my meaning.

She only gets touchy freely when she drinks a little bit, so I usually drink with her so she doesn’t feel awkward.

Done it about 3 times, but, before her, I haven’t had sex in about 5 months. So, obviously I went quickly.

When we would foreplay, make out n what have you, I would get hard randomly, but it subsides pretty quickly, probably because we did it for too long. She would feel me up but girls hands have NEVER done anything for me, I don’t know about everyone else, but it’s either the mouth or the vagina for me. I’m the only one who knows how to give myself a proper hand job.

Anyway, all three times, in order to get hard, I’ve pretty much had to just turn her over, and rub it on her ass with my tip until it gets erect, and then go in from there. But, the erections, I don’t know, just not my usual hardness and I can tell because I have yet to get her off, and that is something that bugs me more than anything else. I honestly think the ton of whacking off I’ve done, I just do it too quickly so my dick is trained to bust too quick. I’m looking to do some stamina training to help my confidence, was looking at flesh lights, any experience with those?

Also, in terms of hardness, back in HS I did a lot of drugs, namely Ecstasy, weed, adderall, some hallucinogens and that was about it. But, I know amphetamines are not good for blood flow, so I am also looking on ways to increase that, I figure a proper diet is the best way to start.

How much porn do you watch?

Prob once a day , maybe twice.

Have a porn detox for a month and see if that clears up your problems. Try getting a fleshlight and replacing masturbation with it, while fantasizing instead of watching porn.

I’ll give that a shot, thanks.