Big Girth - The Downside

I saw that chart years ago before I started PE. It shows a girth of 6 to 6.5” as being the preferred. I thought that was ridiculously big. Since then I have worked my way right through that region and am now well above it.

With my present partner 6 to 6.3” was the best sex. She is Caucasian and has had children but via Caesarian section. It was tight and I was long enough not to come out when thrusting but short enough not to hurt. It did take some 20 minutes or so foreplay for her to moisten and relax enough to take the girth without pain.

Once beyond 6.5” girth full penetrative sex became difficult and I had some bad experiences with my glans being inside but fitting too tight to ejaculate.

Other partners I had when younger varied somewhat. One single mother had a young child through normal birth was quite loose with my 5.3” girth. I expect she could have accommodated 6.5” girth easily.

So I agree with the the OP views - there can be a downside.

To add something not yet commented - once you are convinced PE is possible it can become addictive. It takes a while to establish a reliable and workable routine - knowing time and load give steady gains. To me it is very much like continuing puberty. From month-to-month I notice small changes down there. Pumping gives a short term indication of what it is like to be bigger then over time those gains become permanent. From year-to-year I need photos to remind me where I started. Just observing that my hand does not wrap around my cock increases the intensity when I masturbate - I can still shoot like a teenager but not as often.

So be aware it is possible to be too big for a particular partner. And there are issues with women ageing particular as they go through menstruation. So things can change over time. If you want to have normal penetrative sex then err on the undersize of what is pain free now. I cannot go back now so I have lost some of the enjoyment of sex with my partner. On the other hand I am still getting bigger as that is a turn on for me.

That’s actually some really good advice. I’ve read another article that talked about the perfect size… I’m sure everyone has read that article and the chart. 6.5” was the upper limit in girth for the most pleasurable penis.

I’m just over 6” girth and never had a girl complain or get hurt. Some have maybe been verbal while riding ;)

I don’t give a shit how people think about my dick, I just want to look at it every day and see how big it is growing, and do PE all the rest of my life.

I can say the OP is pretty much spot on with his comments. Before PE, I was already quite thick (although I never thought so) at 6 1/2” at the base. Now, I am over 7” girth at the base. My wife always grimaces every time upon penetration, no matter how much foreplay we do. Plus, she always makes comments about how big it is. Truthfully, I don’t consider myself long at 7 1/4” BPEL and I never considered myself thick until I got on here and realized it was. Anyway, the point I wanted to make was that despite the grimacing, she ends with the most intense vaginal orgasms as long as I don’t cum in 30 seconds. It is truly awesome. She often builds up so much fluid inside her that it puffs out a little. When I was younger and much more promiscuous, girls would often make comments. Some I can remember are things like - “this will take some getting used to” or “that is definitely above average” or “that is thick” or “it’s quite large.” And I was only about 6.25” in those days.. So not long at all. And I’m in the minority here, but as far as oral goes, I actually like feeling the teeth. As long as it is lightly feeling them. There have been some painful moments though.

As I’ve posted elsewhere, both on this site and others, I have made substantial gains since I last saw my wife, over six months ago.

Last time she did she loved it at 8.0 BPEL, 5.0 glans, 6.0 mid, 7.0 base.

I am currently at 8.5BPEL, 6.0 glans, 7.0 mid, 8.0 base.

I am hoping there is no issue with the additional girth.

I am still going for 10.5 BPEL, just trying to avoid any more gains in girth.

How can you not see your wife for 6 months….. that’s f**ked up, unless you’ve been in Afghanistan, where you would not have had privacy to PE.

She refused to go with me when I changed jobs many miles away.

I am currently making close to double the salary that I would have had I stayed with her.

Money talks.

If money is more important than your wife… money talks - bullshit walks. Sorry, but (even if I don’t know the finer details) that stinks.

More importantly, how do you expect anyone to believe you gained 1/2” length and 1” girth in 6 months?

In order to prove my successes in PE I have decided to take photos (which I have never done before) of where I am currently.

Once I achieve a good fraction of my next milestone of 10.5 BPEL I will gladly provide all that I can which is today’s before and tomorrow’s after photos and post them for the world to see.

I refrain from any current photo posting because I’m bashful.

Once I hit 9.0 BPEL, hopefully in three months, the postings will be made, future gains will continue to be documented.

I am a very goal driven person and to date have not failed to meet my goals, but have actually exceeded them in relation to girth.

Peace

Bashful? You have taken the photos, and by your claims, you would be one of the biggest guys here. It would be better to start a progress thread, and update it, if you want to ‘prove the pudding’. :shrug:

In his defense; women like money. A lot.

I didn’t read the whole thread, but I figured I’d chime in.. I am talking with a guy whose 7 inches long and he tapers from 1.5 inches wide (4.7 inches) to 2 inches closer to the base of his penis.. I have not had sex with him.. I am scared that he will hurt me. He’s told me that he’s made women cry.. And he’s not 6 inches around.. For me, that’s truly an unfathomable size.. I can’t say how other women would feel, but I know that I’d feel like I was being split open & it would not be a pleasant experience for me.. It just sounds really uncomfortable.

If I use a toy to masturbate with, my toys are 1 inch to 1.25 inches wide.. I have to shop in the “virgin” or “beginner” section at stores and online.. I HAVE tried to get toys that are 1.5 to 2 inches wide & to me they just look so massive.. I can’t even fit them inside of me.. It is extremely painful to try.. I got sore just TRYING to fit them in, so after 6 or 7 attempts, I just stopped.. It just wasn’t going to happen, lol.. Maybe toys are different than an actual human, I don’t know. I don’t have much experience, to be honest.. But for me, 6 inches around would definitely be a very uncomfortable size, to say the least..

When the guy that I’m seeing told me his size, I about died.. My eyes got all big & I didn’t really know what to say. Anything beyond 7 inches long can get uncomfortable (for me, personally).. This guy told me he wants to do PE & get to 8 inches.. I gasped & said “oh my gosh! Are you serious?”.. He laughed.. But he was serious. I really can’t imagine that. I think that guy is already huge.. Let alone some of you fellas! Sheesh! You’d tear me apart! You need to wear signs that say “BEWARE —- I’M HUGE” lmao. Just so ya know, I’m not a petite girl or anything, either. I’m 5’8-ish & 160-ish.. I’ve only had one sex partner, though.. And he was 4 inches long.. I don’t know how big around he was, but by your guys’ standards, he’s not very large, lol.. But jeez. It’s seriously boggling my mind that it’s physically possible to be that big. I just cannot imagine it. I’m not soliciting for pictures or anything, rather simply stating that it’s truly unfathomable to me. Can’t wrap my mind around it.. As my friend would say, some of you guys should be ticketed for assault with a deadly weapon. LOL! :) But you know what?. Good for you. If it helps your confidence and stuff, then rock on. I’m happy for you & proud of you, lol.. Just keep it away from me.. Cause I know I couldn’t handle it. LOL

Coconut, thank you for chiming in.

I think there is a big difference between real and fake. Take my wife for example. A toy as small as 4.5” in circumference is too big for her, while she can take me to the hilt without tons of foreplay (we have kids). Hell, I’ve even pumped up to 6 inches of midshaft girth and she took fine though there was more foreplay. Of course, she is not a fan of dildos so that might factor in.