Big Girth - The Downside

Thanks for the correction!

I’ve read a lot of varying opinions about 6+ girth. Some say over 6 is too much for most women, others say it’s not usually a problem as long as they are warmed up. Maybe it’s just that most women need to be properly excited “vaginal tenting” before taking it, and that is where most of the discomfort and problems come in. Does that make any since? 9 seems a little excessive.

I know for my wife who has pushed out babies au naturel and just looking at my ruler here and judging based on dildo sizes used in the past (no toys used anymore) I’d say about 8” would be really great for her. Can change a lot after babies, but they do have a simple surgery to correct that if things aren’t acceptable any longer. 8” would be great for me but not likely.

I was 6.5 BPEL, 4.5 mid girth in my early twenties and considered it a pencil dick.

My posts describe my PE journey which earnestly began about 2 years ago.

I didn’t accurately measure, didn’t even know what PE was about.

I had brought my girth at that stage to about 5.5 through constriction and ULI’s, only knowing that if you expand it, it will grow.

I would need to revisit my posts to get a more accurate description of events during that timeline.

One thing that comes to mind was while planting my garden last year, some cucumbers were named “straight eights”, and I knew I was about one half inch short of that at the time.

I had visions of ecstasy if I could reach the magic 8.

Same visions apply to my new goal of 10.5.

BJ

I gotta research the constriction and ULI stuff no idea about it I have a lot to learn about PE, looks like you know how to make huge gains.

I disagree. I’ve only recently come to realize that having a 6+ in girth is a big deal. Three decades, there were very few that needed any extra attention so that would be additionally “warmed up” prior to insertion. No grimaces or looks of pain that I can specifically remember and, curiously, very few wide-eyed looks of pleasant surprise.

In proper disclosure, I have always found great joy in foreplay and, though unlikely, maybe I have always warmed my partner up a bit more than the next guy - thus explaining the lack of any obvious discomfort in them. Perhaps it’s even more possible that I haven’t seen looks of pain nor surprise because, as mentioned previously, I had no reason to think that I should be looking for them.

Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that I’d rather have a thinner penis (though I certainly would love to have a slightly longer one). I’m saying that some posts are simply overstating how instantly orgasmic (squirting, can’t-get-enough, screaming, gushing, out-of-body experience, etc.) a woman becomes if partnered with a fellow of such girth.

So, keep pumping, jelqing, and hanging, gentlemen - there’s nothing wrong with striving for more (after all, there’s a reason that I’m here, too). However, as said in another PE forum, “don’t believe the hype.”

Hype what hype.

So I am 9 inches girth and the problem I have is when I urinate in public restrooms the ladies in the bathroom next door go instant orgasmic and start squirting. Worst case is some of them have actually fainted and hit their heads on the bathroom floor.

I know they can’t see my massive girth being in a different bathroom and all, but they must smell it or some sort of 6th sense.

Now the funny thing is my last partner saw my size and swore my girth was at least 18 inches. But you know how women can’t tell size by just eyeballing something.

Oh that hype

Lol

My penis size was always about 6.5”BPEL and 6” base EG, and almost 6” distal neck EG, with a slight dip in girth in between. I was always insecure about this, but noted in my long career of encounters with women, that they considered my penis “big” and now I know why.. It’s the GIRTH. In fact, mine is a little WIDE rather than well-rounded. I wish there were some exercises for THAT issue. But I’ve noticed that women on average take some time and foreplay to accommodate me, but some women had no problem. I suppose in certain cases they were highly aroused, and if they were less aroused then they would seem more like those who found it uncomfortable at first.

But I have to say, in no case, with ANY woman, was there ever a permanent issue with this. If there was an issue at first, then after a period of time it was no longer there. They were able to accommodate without any problem, and they were able to get into the sex more easily than in the first sessions, so that over time it only got better. Think of their situation as being a much milder form of ours, when it comes to genital adaptation. They simply must, over a period of time, adjust to OUR penis, and this is something for which nature has already provided. The vagina is diverse in its dimensions, is not as fixed and rigid (no pun intended) as ours, and its nature IS to accommodate!

In short, women have proven in my experience to adjust VERY well to girth of around 6”, and not to worry! GET THAT GIRTH! I’ve also heard that some women really like that “full feeling”, and no doubt much of that comes from girth. Given that the “tenting” effect of a highly aroused woman’s uterine-vaginal structures involve both a deepening and widening/loosening of the vaginal space, and given that methods of stroking can obviate concerns of soreness (there are many methods), I’d rather have a longer, girthier cock than not, even if the “price to be paid” is a woman’s need to be highly aroused and/or take some time to properly accommodate me.

Excellent post, RoLM.

I can add that my wife is a bit on the small side and had the “too big” guy in college (I believe her).

Point is, she can take my current girth no problem and can take me pumped up to 6 inches of girth as long as we take it slow.

That may be the strongest reason for my quest for 10.5 BPEL.

My wife also had a “BIG GUY” experience.

Jealousy is an evil thing.

BJ

But she hated having sex with him and never came. Again I believe her her. She’s brutally honest.

Many comments by my wife on how much my thicker cock is loved, but that was almost a year ago.

However, my girth is an overall 1” larger since we last had intercourse.
It will be months before we try again due to the slow healing of her injury.

The length did bump the cervix a few times, very anxious for a while.

She thought my testosterone therapy was increasing the size and said I should slow down (lengthwise).

I practice stealth PE.

BJ

Thanks for the post, that gives me hope. I’m sure there is an upper limit to girths that most women can adapt to over time, where that limit is I don’t know. It probably varies from women to woman.

Bones are the limit ;)