Big Girth - The Downside

No problems here , I have sex everyday!

I haven’t had sex with many girls at all and now I’m at an age where I feel I may never do so with the age range which I prefer. But yeah it’s hard to say if my girth makes things better or worse with having sex with a girl.

I will say this though, that I find it hard to gain and maintain an erection with a girl, and I wonder if this is down to my girth being at it’s width which isn’t allowing enough blood to pump into the volume to get that rock iron erection.

Indeed I also wonder if my girth and volume inherent in this is making it hard for me to gain length gains with PE because of possibly finding it hard to get enough blood into it or for other girth related reasons.

I doubt your girth is affecting your ability to keep an erection. I say this in my experience and my own observation of guys thicker than both of us maintaining rock hard erections. Age may matter but girth pretty much never does.

Thanks. I hope you’re right. My erections with a partner are generally pretty unsolid, but that’s for another thread.

My partner EQ is lower than edging but is much better now that I’ve cut out porn. That’s my first recommendation.

If you get a partner you consider exceptionally hot your erection will be stronger.

Yeah, the primary cause of “ED” is really just “Fat/old chick syndrome”. Go stick a pretty, slim 20 year old girl with a 60 year old man, and I’d bet good money his “ED” would be completely gone and he’d have no need for Viagra. Meanwhile, stick a 20 year old healthy guy with a 60 year old fat woman, and I have a hunch he too would suddenly discover he “has ED”.

Yeah, thno doubt we can all get hard with a young girl who ain’t fat and lazy and bitchy-do-this-do-that. It’s no wonder we walk around high school at full mast. Then in our 40s sink ship.

ED has NOTHING to do with age. When the women stop putting out, and get fat and lazy and bitchy and no-sucky and start acting all your-royal-bitchness, then we get ED.

But go all high school on me and see what happens…

Go figure.

- Saul

When my wife nags me about shit before sex I find that it is hard to get an erection. I can see the logic behind this. Last time I had to run down stairs to get something and by the time I got upstairs she was ready. I was not even after going down on her. There was no time to relax so it took a while for me to get going. I don’t think they realize this.

Is 6 inches where the problems start? What about like 5.5?

For me, once I hit 6.5 inches of mid girth, it became impossible.

Depends on the girl. You’ll still get head at 5.5” but some girl’s jaws will ache a little, And some may be a little sore the day after and not want more sex until they’ve recovered. But many will be fine.

Good question with which I relate.
Currently at 5.6MSEG I have improved my ability to make my girl orgasm a lot - when we started I was measuring about 5 MSEG and it would take her 3~5 minutes to orgasm when in a position she likes, and many times she wouldn’t orgasm at all (if she didn’t after the “magic” 3~5 minutes she would not achieve after ‘em anyway). Now it takes less than 30 seconds and she is orgasming every time.
So, for now things are improving. But it is worth mentioning that she is pretty tall for a woman and, even being a thin person (5 feet 7 inches tall, 120lbs) she is noticeably larger inside than my previous partners - had one that would not be able to be penetrated without a LOT of time, lube and excitation even when I was 4.75MSEG.
Oral sex is still going as normal as always (with her anyway) and even anal sex takes place several times a week with no complains. So I guess it depends on the constitution of your SO AND her dedication to sex as a whole.

My personal goal is cemented 8BPEL and, to reach it, I’ll take as much girth as it comes with (and I gain more girth than length). It is a personal thing, yes. But for now it has enhanced my sex life with my partner.

Regarding those with any level of ED, a larger unity may please our SOs even when not 100% erect. 80% erection sex may become a good thing :)

Being 5.5 MSEG, I find I agree with about half of the original post, which is a logical average. I have never met a Woman I could just enter, say while sleeping.

Charlie Sheen said "don’t be a stingy lover". Andrew Dice Clay said "Life is like sex, the more you put in, the more you get out!, ohhhh" I agree with these ideas.

A majority of Women that are sufficiently turned on and really wanting some dick are going to accommodate at least 6" girth. No, you can’t just throw her down and start pounding away all willy nilly. It might take a lot of foreplay before hand or if the mood is right she might be ready to devour a huge chunk of meat immediately. This thread should be more about her mindset and the ability to arouse her than the girth of your dick I think. (excuse my immature and shameless link

I’m a little over 7EG and i’ve had a fair amount of problems. Problem for me was I didn’t realize I was freakishly big until it was too late. The good news is since I stopped PE my girth has diminished a little. Not much, but it’s creeping closer to the 6’s at least

Not that I’m proud of it, but I use to frequent some “workers” if you will. I had a lot of them turn me away at times.. So it does cause issues