Is It In Yet????

I’ve added well over an inch in length over the years of on-again, off-again training, but I was always fairly thick. I didn’t measure thickness when I was younger, but I estimate that I have gained no more than .75” in girth. I think my thick quads distort my visual perception of penis size.

AT the age of ten the guys after gym class laughed at me once. Then my first girlfriend made a comment after I dumped her (which, I must add, is normally not very reliable). Since then it has always been a complex for me, the size and girth of my penis. But I thank god or whoever on my bare knees for finding this website. I just hope it will help (just started out for 4 days ;) ).

If you are consistent, it will help. I struggle to understand how someone can be a member here for a year, stating they have a ‘complex’, but without ever actually starting PE?

Yep when I discovered PE I must have be PE’ing within the first hour:) .

I was doing PE on and off. Because now I have a steady girlfriend the pressure is less (of course, as a sweet girlfriend always will say she is just fine with the size). Anyway, the longest I did PE was for over a few weeks and I already felt there was some difference. Anyway, complex might be a big word, especially(?) compared to the other stories I’ve read here. Let’s downgrade it to issue.

Of course the argument that therecouldnt’ be a TP if it wouldn’t work is a satisfying one. If I wouldn’t believe in it I wouldn’t started.

I just read this thread end to end. I can relate to alot of the stuff that has been said. The feelings of insecurity and complete dread in social situations, through to eventually finding thunders (I was literally driving down the street yelling out YESSSSS!).

The pain that I have felt about myself has made me into a better person today, I would never go out of my way to make someone feel insecure and endeavor to be as good to people as I can. I have put on half an inch NBP from 5.7 to 6.2 in the last 3 months and plan on being seven by Christmas. The thing is this extra .5 of an inch and the knowledge that there is something that I can do about this has made me feel confident in myself again.

The turning point for me was passing a guy in the toilet when I went to take a piss, he was known to have a big dick, he obviously waited for me to get to the urinal then came back in. He looked over and I tried to hide it (always been a grower). From this he concluded I had a small dick and went about telling everyone. This rumor spread and eventuated in me being publicly humiliated multiple times, always by guys. I never had a girl ever say anything to me about it. The issue was the way I reacted to the taunts it wrecked me inside I lost all confidence and wanted to crawl under a rock and die. If I had been confident in my reactions I would have been fine.

Now this rumor persists even though I have a perfectly average dick. So my goal is to work hard and turn it into a big one.

Some of those stories I have just read made me feel a little sick, bringing back humiliating memories I want to suppress. The guy who watched his girl of 3 years sleep with another (hung) guy will stay with me for along time. We are here now fellas so it’s time to snatch the win from the jaws of defeat.

Thanks to all vets who have created such a positive culture here, thunder you are a king.

This story just pisses me of on so many levels. I can relate to the last paragraph. Just keep in mind the day your penis will be longer than the other guy. And punch him on the face then. Not just for yourself, but for all the other guys from all the other stories on this forum.

Good luck gaining!

I used my brainz.

Bigger = tighter = greater pressure = orgasm = nice.

Does anyone mind posting the link to the post of the guy who watched his girlfriend of 3 years fuck another (hung) guy?

Sorry if the request his lazy and not politically correct.

I always wanted to have the dick as big as the black porn studs :p when I saw porn when I was younger. Here I am.

bigger-8inchM!

I’ve never been pleased with my size, the most I would say is content. I’ve never had any complaints either. In recent years I just seemed to have notice that although statistically average it seems that most people I’ve been with (not as huge a sample as any survey obviously) seem larger. My current BF says it’s “fine” which to me isn’t a ringing endorsement, but his point is that it works well for him. That should be enough but it’s not. I think the straw that broke the camels back for me to get here was a comment made last week by a guy I did a JO session with (open relationship, don’t accuse me of anything ;) ). Both of us had a great time and I was chatting with the guy online afterward. All the conversation was about how hot it was and what not. In an attempt to complement me he said I should take some pictures and send them to him. I said I was self conscious and not comfortable with that. His reply to that was, “About your dick? Don’t worry, it’s small but it’s hot.” Now mind you 6” isn’t small, but was compared to that guy, and in his defense it was like half to no more than 3/4 up the whole time, but it was just a devastating comment rather that a complement. Up to that point I was having enough issues with thinking I was average, but small was just too much. I guess I’d rather have a “small but hot” dick rather than a “large but boring one” but it just really got to me.

I later told him I was hurt and he apologized and said he didn’t mean it that way. I could have taken the “hot” part and moved on but instead psychologically ignore that (to this day) and just took the small. So for two weeks I’ve been on a tailspin about it. Everyone I talk to about this issue tells me I’m being silly, and quite frankly I know I am. In other partners the guy’s dick doesn’t correlate to how hot I think he or is dick is. Everyone I’ve talked to says the same thing. There is something though that really bothers me about my dick falling on the lower rather than upper side. Is it the idea that someone is going to retell a story about me and say I’m small? Is it that I’m afraid they’ll just think “it’s fine” and deal with it but really wanted something bigger? Is it that you never seem to hear a hot sex story that doesn’t at some point mention how hung the guy is? Is it that even in amateur’s photos online everyone seems to be 7+? Maybe a combination?

Yes. We will all tell you the same thing as well, with one very important difference. This is a pud pulling fraternity. The people that you will meet in these virtual rooms are both more educated and more intelligent than the world at large. Also way more obsessed with the size of their schlongs. We know that our views are faintly delusional, just as you do!

So, is it silly? Neurotic? Perhaps a bit obsessive compulsive? Oh my yes, all of that and more. So what? You are among friends here. More importantly, you are among friends that share your slight mental oddness. ;)

For me it’s more Better EQ then size. I have known about jelqing for almost a decade, done it on and off for years never committing enough for results.

With complete lack of morning and night time wood.. I have told myself it’s time to make this a committed thing. Almost 2 weeks in and I’m having somewhat morning woods again! Praise the jelqing lords!

My story is similar to Dino9x7’s “margarita story”. It wasn’t that it was verbalized that maybe more tool would be better, simply knowing it had reduced about an 1” from my late teen’s early two’s due to gaining weight, and bad lifestyle.

I heard this already. It was one of the causes of why I started to look for ways of making my penis bigger. I think it was the worst thing I ever heard in my life. My girlfriend of 3 years was drunk one day and when she gets drunk sometimes she would be very honest. So this day we were at a party and went to a room and when I went in she said “Come on, put it in” but I was already in. I said ” I’m already in” and she said “God you are small”. But she was very drunk and didn’t realized she said it, I think.

I am not with her anymore, of course. :)