Originally Posted by djrobins
Its the deal… I know what your talking about, some here will not understand it. What doesn’t kill you can make you weaker and it can screw up the rest of your life. The best thing to do is to look forward and do your best not to think about it.a-unit - why did your ex want to do this to you?
It started from the beginning. I should have left early because she was moody and would go into quiet episodes where I could barely get a word out of her. I put it down to her being tired or whatever.
Then slowly she would get more vocal about other guy`s dicks and her adventures on holidays in the islands.
She and her friends would go to the strippers occasionally, which upset me, and I asked if she wouldn`t do that and she agreed because she said she didn`t realise it bothered me but now that she knew she said she didn`t need to go.
But she never did stop.
And she never missed the opportunity to go on about brad pitt and how she imagined that he had a big one.
That`s the tip of the iceburg. She was just a controlling bitch who resented everything that wasn`t under her supervision and authority.
My work as a therapist was the final straw.
She believed I was having affairs (like her philandering father) and wouldn`t accept that women, and men, came to counselling for genuine help.
Eventually I tried to comprimise and negotiate with her for what she might feel was a “safe” way to do my work…without the closed door privacy that seemed to threaten her so profoundly.
but I realised that she just wanted me to not be as successful as her and to go back to building decks and basements, which was her idea of work.
So, for the last few years of our relationship I slept on a couch. I couldn`t leave for fear of hurting my children…but they knew we weren`t happy.
So eventually I left and met a woman in my field and we understand eachother`s work and love and trust eachother.
And I met you guys and the techniques to make our dicks bigger.
Awesome.
And never once do I think about her seeing my new dick. that is for my new wife. She deserves it.