My Loss of Gains is Nearly Complete :(

I know it’s been a few months since I’ve been in the forum (my work picks up a lot this time of year), but I said I would update the loss of my gains - the onset of which accelerated after more than 3 years off PE.

Well, the state of my weinie is now so bad that I’m too depressed to take any measurements (especially since I have no possible time to resume PE in the foreseeable future); ergo, what is…is. But I would “guesstimate” that I’ve lost at least 1.5” of EL :( and at least 1” of EG :( :(

Hopefully, I will be able to resume PE before I’ve lost 100% of my gains…maybe some time in the Spring of ‘09.

To make matters worse, I’ve recently met a woman who seems very appealing, but I’ve lost basically ALL of my confidence. It’s tough to want to “present” her with a cock that USED TO BE 1.5” longer and more than 1” thicker around…in fact, it SUCKS!

The only thing that seemed to “remain” are my rock-hard erections (if you’ll recall, mild E.D. is the reason that I first began to PE in Aug. 2002). My erections quickly became like titanium, but I also made gains - which I considered to be a “bonus.”

Well, those gains are just about gone; yet, ironically, my boners are as hard as ever (just a lot smaller now). And, no, I don’t have any explanation for that.

You can’t make the time? Please. You have the time to post here, don’t you?

Ignoring ace’s acerbic and unnecessary comment; Wad I think this is a salutary reminder to us all the importance of post-gain maintenance.

I too stopped active PE about 10 months ago and I too have lost much of my gains and am kicking myself for not making the time for a little regular maintenance. Life can get in the way for us all; it’s easy to by busy, busy and before you know it whole months have gone by.

The good news for you and me Wad is we know PE works and re-gaining lost length / girth should be easier. I think the trick is to schedule PE in with all the other stuff. Make the time and the re-gains will come.

And Wad, as for the new woman, she didn’t know you with your bigger package so she obviously likes you for you, with exactly what you have (hey, a rock-hard boner is a bloody good start). Then you can pop her eyes out over time as the Wad starts to gain again; I mean she’s gonna wonder where the hell it came from!

If that’s not a great incentive I don’t know what is.

Yeah Wad, not even ten minutes a day? How does that happen? How about when you go to the bathroom to piss or the shower?

Damn, I would want to cry.

I thought if you cement your gains they will stay? can’t be true if you lost that many years of work :( .

Loss gains will return quickly : think how you’ll shock that woman when your penis will grow near at naked eye speed!

Seriously, can’t you do neither a minimal amount of PE? Piss-pulls, 5 minutes dry-jelqs or so?

That’s why I always look at PE as apart of my lifestyle just like working out. I will always PE, maybe not to the extent I do now but I will always do “something” to gain/maintain. My father had a saying,”If you ate today you need to workout today”. I can relate that to PE “If you had sex this week you need to PE this week” :)

I can see what your saying but I feel a lot of people wouldn’t do pe unless they knew it was for keeps and people always say the old cement your gains line.

I used an extender (haven’t worn it for 15weeks now) and thankfully I have kept all gains while doing nothing (well I did jelq for 2weeks) it is strange how some exercises appear to be permanent while others don’t.

This is shitty. Good thing they’ll come back quick, anyways i wouldn’t sweat the girl, you don’t need a big dick to have confidence.

Wadzilla, did you gain any weight? You mention EL and not BPEL? I think you should not “guesstimate” and actually measure it, it might just be psychological. For a while I thought I might lose the gains too. I took 1 1/2 years off with barely some stretching when things “turtled” and some manual clamping when I had a nice erection. I didn’t have losses. Did you document your gains when you were at your max? I’ve yet to see anyone post pictures of losses. I’ve been gaining now that I’ve started back on it and somewhat regret that I took the 1 1/2 years off, but maybe in the long run it prepared me for further growth.

The reason I had stopped before was because my significant other was very happy with my size and her vagina length was only 5.2 inches or so long and prolonged sex with my girth and length would start to become uncomfortable. One of the reasons I started back is because I wanted to complete another goal in life, that is I wanted to finally reach 8 inches BPEL instead of sitting at 7.5 for the rest of my life.

I really don’t want to come off sounding mean, but why didn’t you do some maintenance? I’m never going to stop 100%. You probably could have maintained everything just with like 20 or 30 minutes of jelqing every day or every second day don’t you think? Wasn’t less is more actually your theory for better gaining?

Wad,

Pumping with heat might be a way to get those old gains back rather quickly.

wad likes extremes…

Guys who gain 4” from manual work, and guys who have lost it all. He brings you up, then drops you from a cliff. Don’t worry though, everything is backed by scientific data.

Please let us know if your penis starts to become smaller than is was before PE, but for heaven sake, don’t try to stop it…

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Bro, I’m terribly sorry to hear that. I hope that at some point you are able to find the time to resume manual PE. If the time ever comes that I stop trying to make any gains, I’ll definately institute a maintenance PE program.