PE is complicating my life.

I live with my family so I have to stealth PE at night. Even if they knew what I was doing and didn’t care (my parents are very against all of this), they would still be constantly knocking on the bathroom door urging me to hurry up so I PE at night. Even after everyone has gone to bed, I need to wait until they all fall asleep otherwise any noise I made would draw attention to the bathroom. I normally don’t start until 11:30-11:45 and I finish around 1:00-1:30.

I work at a fast food joint. Typically, they have me start work at 11:30 AM. I take the bus. The last bus until 12:47 (which is past the time I start) leaves at 9:12 and so I always have to get up early to go into town. Going to bed at 1:00 and waking up at 7:30 is NOT fun at all. It’s affecting how I work sometimes. There are days that I am fine working on the register but if I try to throw orders together and get them to the customers it can be disastrous sometimes. I make stupid mistakes and I have trouble working quickly. This lack of sleep not only makes me feel like shit but also can seriously affect my job performance.

I don’t know why I’m telling you all of this. Like others have said, this PE community is really the only group of people who understand. You all are the only ones I can really talk to about something like this. I guess I just wanted to vent a little bit. It’s all worth it though as I see my penis get bigger and bigger. I’m not asking for advice or solutions but if anyone wants to comment that’s fine.

No reason why PEing should take you 2 hours. Even one that is not a newbie can finish in 30 minutes.

-5 minutes warm up
-10 minute stretch
-15 minutes jelq
-5 minute warm up

35 minutes for an intermediate routine. How do your sessions go for more than an hour?

5 min warmup
15 min of stretching
5 min warmup
300 jelqs

It can take a lot of time sometimes because I have to wait now and then for my unit to go flaccid before I can continue stretching. Also, I can only do about 20 jelqs before I have to make myself hard again and sometimes that takes a bit.

Try supplements for better erections, I listed some that I take in my progress report (haven’t updated it in a while so it’s probably in the second or third page)

Also I lose my erections a lot easier if I stand rather than sit, so try that if you jelqing standing up.

I jelq sitting.

This is going to sound ridiculous, but my parents have put me on a budget. If I were to order anything online or even buy them at a store, they would be bound to find out and ask WTF I’m doing.

I split my routine in half.

Morning Stretching

Evening Jelqing

That sounds like an idea. Have you ever done stretching immediately before jelqing? If so, did it seem to give more length to work with? I might think about that but I would have to forgo the hot water cup and stretch in a restroom somewhere in town since again doing it at home only invites trouble.

Why do you have to do it in the bathroom? Don’t you have a lock on your bedroom?

I started that split because I was stealth and it was hard to get a single longer block of time.

However I stuck with it, because stretching really fatigues me. So I can’t really jelq right after stretching.

I share a room with my brother which is :BS:

Ouch. That sucks!

I hope there is some time that you have at home where no one else is there.. adults at work/siblings at school…

I always stretch before jelqing, and this causes A. Me to get better expansion and longer post-pe. and B. Makes my routine take an extra 15-20 minutes. I’d call myself intermediate but my routine usually takes an hour when I include 10 minute warm-ups and downs.

I understand the problem of stealth PE, I have to do the same with roommates. Often I’ll find myself up at 2am, knowing I won’t get enough sleep, just to finish PE. Every now and then I say fuck it and just go to sleep. The key for me is to make sure it doesn’t become a habit. The results I’ve had from PE, both physically and psychologically, are totally worth staying up late for a few days. I catch up on sleep on my days off.

Also if you have your own room, you can heat in the bathroom, then PE in your room, then warm-down in the bathroom. Just tell them you showered, then did homework, then had to shave for work. It helps if you shave during your warm-down. Brush teeth, shave, whatever.

How old are you? Maybe it’s time you thought about getting a better job and moving out.

If you don’t want your unit to go flaccid by 20 jelqs, find a piece of your favourite porn star and print it out. Take it to the bathroom and look it at right before you go flaccid. I guarantee an erection! lol

Also, you can use your imagination. Close your eyes and the sky is the limit.

Quickbeam, I’m not in the same boat as you are since I learnt about PE after moving away from my fam’s place, so this might sound odd, but why not just straight out tell them about PE-ing? Honestly, you could save so much time by doing the exercises at a reasonable time and you won’t have to stealth. Because honestly, the way I see it, they could possibly disagree with you doing this, but hell, they’ll get over it. They won’t be coming into your room trying to take your hand away from your unit, right? And just do it when your bro is not there. Or just reserve the bathroom for a bit. Watcha think?