Bathmate pump, Beginner PE, Questions

I’m not trying to be right just a little bit fed up of getting told by every damn air pumper(which I’ve tried as well)here that the BM is wrong when I and many others got very good experiences with it.

And I know I’m quite the hot head and often speak/write in that state of mind, will do my best to get better at cooling down a bit before responding.

Too bad about your girl dude, hope you’re doing okay but guess it’ll take some time. Plenty of fish in the sea so to speak.

I didn’t even respond to you but you CHOSE to stick your opinion in it. Did you just expect me to not respond back?

And stop acting like you even know me, fucking besserwisser. HAHAHAHA.

This is inflammatory. It can stop. There is literally no additional reason to keep trying to fan the fire here.

Thanks velhung it’s ok tho I’m not gonna feed him, I’ll take TG’s advice and not flame him or the thread it’s pointless to do especially since I was giving my 100% honest experience. Again the BM has been discussed here at TP too many times I can post pro and cons thru this thread from this site or if people are interested you can use the search button it’s right there.

And I’ll say it again I’m not knocking it, it has its place. I remember when I first started out I was frustrated with all “air pumpers” here that bashed the BM because I was getting amazing temp result….oh wait didn’t I say that a way back, that doesn’t seem like a knock.

Ryan I’m sorry for your shitty day, I’ve had one too, not just shitty but possibly extremely costly so I feel ya. I’m not gonna fan the flame I respect this site too much so if you have any questions you can pm me I’ll give you experience with this or with anything PE related.

Ryan let us make a agreement to update every time we see gains from our BM’s. Not trying to be a dick just wanna show and let people know that one can also gain using a water based pump.

And oh, btw, if you feel the pressure is too much you can also use your BM dry as I’ve read some accounts of people actually doing that as well. Gonna give it a go myself without any water as well just to see what it feels like.

Hope you’re managing ok, it sucks getting totally over a female. Dunno how much you had ‘invested’ in her, but, again; just remember there’s plenty of fish in the sea and maybe even try to see this as a start of something brand new and hopefully even better.

wishing you godspeed in your ‘recovery’ and remember “This too shall pass”. This type of pain is only temporary, thankfully.

I’m over fed by now anyways, got better shit to do than to argue with people on a PE forum all day.

Also, I’ll be the bigger man and apologize for getting a bit overly ‘excited’. If you accept it or not is up to you, I just did what I felt like doing as in apologizing for my ‘enthusiasm’.

No problem I apologize too if it came across a certain way

Thank you for saying so, very much appreciated. And no worries no hard feelings on my part, at all.

The whole girl thing wasn’t a serious relationship, more of a fuck buddy thing. We’re good friends, she was just worried about her developing feelings. So it’s just annoying, I don’t have time to really go out and meet new people every week to satisfy my libido. I’m fond of her, shes a special woman. But she’s not the only special woman, so I’ll just have to deal with it, and see what happens in the future.

But on the plus side, the Bathmate came today! So, I’m literally doing the routine right now. Just finished 5 minutes of stretching, so now doing 10 minutes of jelqing

In the bath now, on the second set. What point am I supposed to know it’s enough pressure? I already have more blood in there, I get to the point where it’s uncomfortable, then I release the pressure until it doesn’t feel so uncomfortable anymore.

That question can only be answered with a system that has a gauge. Without one you’ll guess and hopefully get it sorted out. Less is better until you get a better feel for things.

So finished my first routine with the Bathmate.

Still working out the kinks and little things about it, but hopefully I’ll get a better understanding of it all

Also, Psychologically speaking, I might be abit more bothered about that girl after all. Just couldn’t really get in the mood today. But I have noticed a small increase in my flaccid length. It just felt a little looser, heavier and hung a little lower. Hopefully once I get conditioned, I’ll get alot better results. And once my mood clears up, hopefully, itll really show

Be kind to yourself. It’s okay to have the pain with the girl. It shows you’re human and care about her. So positive things to help ease the pain. Clear your mind and allow yourself to think about her appropriately. Don’t spend too much time obsessing.

The Bathmate pumping will become more clear in time much like the end of the relationship. Take care of yourself.

Second what titleist already said. And you’ll, with proper time and use, get the feel of what’s too much and what’s not.

A few times in the beginning it could almost feel like my unit was about to explode, not in a painful way just in a highly sensitive way but my unit felt really good as in frequent erections and a much fuller hang when I removed the BM. Not even close to getting injured thus far and only positive PI’s.

Believe me when I say you’ll get conditioned and sure enough with time to know what’s what when in the BM.

Now I have absolutely zero issues just pumping out all the water and even re-pump every now and then as there always seems to be a tad more water willing to come out hence lengthening and thickening my unit at the same time.

Just give it some time and remember to do do your manuals as well as those really are the bread and butter of a proper PE routine.

Actually feeling a bit excited on your behalf, lol, and hope you’ll be as satisfied as I still am.

Edit: Forgot to say to use it in a flaccid state to start off with and then after about 4 weeks time you can start going in erect as you’ll be conditioned enough for it by then. At least that’s what I was and have read others done it that way too on PEgym. The BM actually seems to be the preferred pump amongst the PEgym members.

Also, which I forgot to mention there is a thing called BM stretches, which is stretching with your BM on, just Google it and ye shall find out how to do them. But give it at least a month before trying those out, if you should choose to do so. Me, I stick to the regular manual stretches for now but might try out BM stretches in the future.

We’re just friends. We get along really well, so that’d probably explain why she’s worried about developing feelings. It’s happened before, and i squared it away. No reason I can’t do it again

I’ll keep you guys updated over the next week or so. I’ll let you know if i have any questions or any progress