Bathmate pump, Beginner PE, Questions

Thx sta-kool. Good to see you posting again

kingscounty: thanks for the kind words, appreciate it! Great to be back.

Hey guys, loving all the new advice, and thanks for staying on topic.

Did my third session today, I was abit time pressed, so I did a little less jelqing than normal (only by a few minutes).
When I’m using a bathmate, I tend to have enough pressure for it to stick (2-3 good pumps), and I have a little expansion in girth, but not much in length. It usually hovers between 5-5.5” going off the sticker on the actual device. If it gets uncomfortable, I release a little pressure, but I try to keep it in the 5-5.5” range. Towards the end of a 5 minute set, in the last 30 minutes or so, I might up the pressure a little bit. Kinda want to reach the 6” mark, but I try to limit me doing that because I know it’s just me being over eager! Today I did see some more temporary gains after the second set. It seemed a little thicker and fuller, I was flaccid at the time, still haven’t measured my BPEL/NBPEL yet. Seems to be abit shy to the bathmate at the moment lol. But I need to stay flaccid for these few weeks anyway

Hey guys, so remeasured yesterday.

I’m had a 0.2” increase on girth and about a 0.1-0.2” increase in length.

So now I’m 7.2” in length (close to 7.3”) and a 5” in girth. Where as pre-BM I was a 7.0-7.1” in length, and about 4.8” in girth.

Most likely just the temporary gains from using a pump. Almost at my goal already to be honest. I probably have said it before, but for anyone new, I’m not looking for a 9x6 or something.

Ideally, would like something along the lines of 7.5” in NBPEL (BPEL would most likely be close to 8”) and about 5.5” in EG. Figured it’s not too big, but considered fairly well endowed.

No doubt the Bathmate seems to work for temporary gains. I have no idea whether it’s permanent or not, highly doubt it. But doing another session on Wednesday (it’s Tuesday at the moment). I’ll see what happens then.

As long as you make sure to include other exercises and don’t just stick to a static BM routine I don’t think you should have an issue keeping most of your gains.

Congrats on the progress!

Hi, guys.

I bought a x50 size pump, ‘cause people said to me that x50 was for the power and not for the size. In fact a x30 pump would fit good.
But over this, after that I use the pump my penis gains 1 cm in length and circumference, that’s good but it is temporary (3-4 hours I think), also I feel pain on the base even after the use.

Is it possible that since I have to use a x30 pump, the x50 one makes this issue? Also is there the possibility that the earnings will be permanent?

I use the pump everyday since I got it (December 27).

I bought the x40 and used it maybe 5 times. Didnt care for it because of not being able to consistently monitor pressure and the fact that it left bruises on the area where the rim pressed onto my pelvic bone. Plus the x40 was too big i was talked into it at the store where i bought it but i really should have got the x30 like i was planning to. Air pumping feels much better for me.

The reason you pump it all the way down is because the BM is made that way and when fully pumped down is the only way to get a totally correct measurement when in it.

Don’t believe me? Just take your BM, push it towards you until it’s totally pushed down (all the way) and measure with a ruler.

Other than that, won’t say anything more in this thread. Just had to say that and good luck getting mediocre results. Seriously.

Talking about name calling then proceeds to tell someone who’s openly talking about his mental issues to go take his meds. Hypocritical much?

Do you have a problem with people suffering from this type of thing?

Homophobic? Where did you get that? One of my best friends is as gay as they come, I’m everything else than homophobic and love gay people.

Heck, I even gone to gay bars and had the best time of my life. I’ve not with one single word made any type of ‘homophobic’ type of slurs.

If you interpreted it that way it’s all on you. Not trying to be a dick just stating truth. And to top it off I even tried getting a b.j from a bisexual dude once but it did not work very well as I just could not get it up, with me not being gay.

If you actually knew me you would know I’m one of the most open and accepting humans you’ll ever come across.

Sorry, but getting told by one person ‘Bitch, go take your meds’ with me being open and honest about my psychological issues and then being called homophobic for no apparent reason it just ain’t right. But I guess there’s different rules for different people on here, by the looks of it.

Again, sorry, but I just can’t stand obvious hypocrisy. And if I get exiled, temporary exiled or banned for telling my side of things, then so be it.

So to sum up I’ve been called ‘ass clown’, told ‘bitch go take your meds’ and that I’m somehow ‘homophobic’. But that’s all ok, obviously.

I’m basically free game to be called whatever, ain’t I? Guess that’s what I get for being an open and honest guy, as always.

And it ain’t no secret that I struggle with stuff( you guys would most likely too if you’ve been dealt the cards I’ve been dealt in life) and I’ve more than willingly shared and tried my best to give advice if anyone else has or is dealing with something similar as I’m quite empathetic of nature.

Gotta say, I’m honestly laughing to myself here at the open and abundant hypocrisy. This isn’t the first time I’ve witnessed this on here, not by far. And not the first time I’ve been called stuff on here either.

Remember, I’ve been a member on here for over 10 years, previously under another nickname so I’ve seen members come and go and witnessed other more ‘valuable’ members getting away with much more serious stuff than what I did.

I’m well aware I’m far from any ‘favorite’ on here, but again, at least I’m honest and not a hypocrite which I’m proud of. And I’m also well aware I can be a bit much and at times hard to deal with which I’ve probably written on here, several times.

Now I assume it’s time for me to get kicked out once again, simply for being honest. But I for one can’t stand injustice which this is so I speak my mind as no one else seems the least willingly to at least give me the benefit of a doubt.

I’ve been more than civil and courteous towards the members on here like 99% of the time but this thread is what you’ve seem to judge my character and intent by.

So thanks for letting me know I’m the one souring up this whole forum, wasn’t really aware that I’m the only reason this has become such a sour place to be.

Thanks, but no thanks.

Abdiel, no one is slow here. You say what you want, when you want. You’ve made that much clear and there’s plenty you’ve said to multiple members that is far from 1% of the time that you’re not courteous. It isn’t just this thread, or just this week. It is not something new or rare that’s going on.

You can say what you want and obviously it doesn’t matter to you if you get banned. But, all the back-biting and vitriol you cause and attract just isn’t helpful to the forum. The discord seems to follow you around and you don’t seem to do anything to stop it. If it keeps happening, it will continue to do no one else any good.

You can fingerpoint and reference your issues, which you seem to think are relevant and pardon your behavior, but it doesn’t change how off topic threads get when you get riled up. It just isn’t good for any actual discussion.

The only thing that matters is when you start hitting “Quote” and responding to comments, threads go off topic and get nasty. In that way, you’re contributing pretty strongly to souring the forum, far and away right now.

Stop venting in this thread. It’s ruining it. Stop waiting for more attention so you can get on stage and start preaching. You act surprised when people get upset when you call them names and disrespect them, repeatedly and justify the actions you take quite righteously. Then to be more righteous, you start listing when you attract insults and name-calling and toss it back. The cycle is old, tired and trollish. It has no moral high ground, no matter how much you think it does and I’m sure you’ll find a reason to get fired up no matter what anyone says, if they quote one of your comments.

And that is the problem. Stop doing that or stop posting.

I’ve learned in life it takes more energy to harbor anger and resentment towards others. I hope and pray you learn that too. I don’t know what hand anyone on here was dealt nor does anyone here know what I’ve been dealt. Regardless of what I’ve gone thru in life or what I perceive I was dealt, I don’t let it define me as a person.

Instead of going back and forth and continuing to harbor anger and resentment over a bathmate thread how about we all just move forward

I’m sorry, but please, show me where I’ve been so haphazard towards other members on here because I know I haven’t. And if something have come across as that then I do apologize for that as that’s never my intent.

Yes, I got a bit rough regarding a thread I made about some bad lies that’s been spread about me(not on here, but IRL) and that’s the only thread I remember and admit I was too aggressive in. And I also thoroughly explained how much that’s affected my life in a very, very bad way and it’s a situation I wouldn’t wish upon anyone. But this whole thread was months ago but I’m seemingly being judged by that, still. No self pity party here, don’t ever think that because then you’re thoroughly wrong.

I’m honestly a bit shocked to be honest and in disbelief. But please, not trying to be a dick, please, just point out where I’ve been a dickhead towards other members on here as often as you accuse me of because I’m pretty sure I haven’t and I’m the first to apologize if I’ve made a mistake. Maybe not in this thread but in the majority of other posts, I most certainly have.

This is not about me being right but rather a feeling of getting ambushed and accused of things that I both feel like and haven’t seen myself.

So to me this comes of as some people focusing on the few bad responses I’ve made on here, but yes, I do rant and rave at times but it’s not directed at anyone when I do that. What happened to people focusing on the good contributions I’ve made? Not saying I’m all good, far from but I’ve been open and honest about stuff like that.

But it’s all ok, I got other stuff to focus on than being disliked on here. But it’s good to know though, so I don’t waste my time responding to people that just sees me as a dickhead. I’ve slowly learned and realized that being as honest as I pride myself in being rubs the majority(seemingly) the wrong way.

And sure, it would suck a little bit getting banned but it would far from affect me or my life in any way. I’m not feeling the slightest bit of worry about that, nor feeling the slightest sorry for myself, at all. It’s just eye opening and I’m so used to this by now it doesn’t even affect me anymore I just respond because I like writing as I really haven’t got that many people to communicate with. Again, just being honest which seems to be a bad thing.

Wait, what? I don’t hold a grudge nor anger towards anyone on here, I just live in the moment. Where do you get that info from if I may ask? It’s all water under the bridge for me and as soon as I write something on another thread this is totally forgotten until it pops up again in recent posts.

Do you think I sit around focusing only on this? Because you’re sadly mistaken then, Sir. If only you’ve had read a PM I wrote a few minutes ago maybe you would realize this.

I’m in no sort of anger nor resentment mode here, I’ve said it hundreds of times by now I’m just being honest and now it seem like I’m somehow forbidden to respond as well? Can’t I respond without getting told I’m angry and bitter? Or does that only apply to the other members?

You’re doing the exact same thing you say I do, like you’ve done several times in this thread. Just stating facts, that’s all. How other people seemingly perceive my responses are on them, not me.

But hey, I see that no matter how honest and/or factual I am I’m just gonna keep on getting put in a box of being ‘angry, bitter and holding a grudge’ which is so far from the truth it’s laughable. Again, not trying to be a dick, just being honest.