Originally Posted by firegoat
In the ‘old days’ Thunder’s Place was all about the 8” x 6” ‘Holy Grail’ penis. The ‘ideal size’ idea came from my signature line, which I’ve had for years - and the more it gets discussed the more folk agree with the size I came up with. It is a size which is on the larger size for most women - still ‘doable’ for tight girls, but big enough for women with more capacious vaginas, and generally filling for the majority of average females. It’s enough to satisfy our desire for an undeniably big penis compared with most of our friends and enough for our girlfriend, partner or wife to be able to brag about.
It’s impressive enough for one night stand confidence. It’s more likely to get a mental response of ‘I want that in me’ than a ‘meh’ or ‘looks painful’ mental response from most women.
It’s suckable without extreme jaw ache. It shouldn’t cause too much soreness for most girls so sex the next day is likely. Anal may still be on the cards with some folk. ‘Quickie’ sex may not be feasible with most women, but neither is a very long warm up period and possibly the need for extra lube that much larger sizes often need.
That’s my rationale for the size in my signature line. Everyone is of course free to choose their size ideal and justify it to themselves however they want. And of course if you have a permanent partner that may well dictate the ideal. But at the end of the day we PE for ourselves not anyone else, so if you prefer the ‘Holy Grail’ to the ideal, then go for it!
Great post Firegoat and your reasoning for the “perfect size” makes a lot of sense to me.
I also agree that we do this for ourselves but that the realities of a good relationship also figure into the mix when the ideal size is discussed.
This applies directly to me. I PE’d from the start primarily for my EQ. For me and me alone. Nobody else. In the process I grew an inch in length and a half inch in girth.
I’m in a relationship, the sex is great, but there’s occasionally a problem with tearing. Not a lot, mind you, but every once in a while. So I’m continuing my PE to maintain EQ and, secondarily, to add some length. Because of my relationship, I’m not consciously trying to add girth. Length isn’t a problem because you can always control the amount that goes in. Not so with girth.
It’s interesting because the tearing started when I hit 5.75” in MSEG, which is slightly above your ideal girth of 5.6” I never had a problem at your ideal girth number, only when I got a bit bigger.
And it’s not a major problem, really, the tearing only happens once every couple of months or so. But I sure don’t want to make it worse by getting any bigger.
Once again, great post.