Glad to be here.

Stretch marks? I have them. I’m black and I’m dressed at the moment but I want to say around the base I see them.

As far as playing it off? Yes, it worked till she tore some weeks later. And it works better on people you see less or seldom…or 3 times then never again.

I guess you’re lucky, because from what I’ve read it’s quite common.

The stretch marks are faint, but I can notice them. Nothing any woman would yet notice or get in a tizzy about. I just don’t want them to get out of control.

I probably don’t have to worry about getting too big, with my starting stats. So I’m sure I wont be causing any kind of vaginal injuries. I’m just curious what your thoughts were, when that happened? On one hand we never want to cause any type of discomfort, pain, or injury to the women we have sex with. I’m sure you felt horrible. On the other hand, there had to be some sense of pride in yourself, knowing you had created something only the most fearless and flexible women could handle.

I don’t see my FWB that often and thought that’s what’s going to tip her off. I’ll just play it by year. I’m sure if asked, I’ll come up with something good. We’re men, we’re good at our reasoning with women. Well, not really all the time. I like the idea of telling her that she’s just arousing me more than ever. A compliment can go a very long way.

Thanks!

Mine aren’t too serious. I highly doubt yours will worsen enough for it to be a vanity issue. I haven’t heard of it being a problem honestly.

The first time it happened, and the times thereafter around the first time years ago I felt horrible. Though that vaginal tearing was an issue of hers, my size was nothing awe-inspiring. Though I thought it may have been at that time (I want to say 6.75x4.9” at that time and medium EQ) it was a lady issue that flared up on her end. However, seeing blood made me feel like a heel, I blamed PE and this starred the rift that drove us apart.

After I actually broke 8” length and got into the upper 5” area for MSEG and started seeing blood it would squick me less and less and the women always would try to get me to ignore it.

My last ex, who I tore early on as I was in a gaining spurt was…happy to have been torn. It was an intense feeling and I’m jaded to blood now BUT STILL CAREFUL. Pride is there but I’m more concerned with being considerate and her own safety not my arousal or anything else.

You’ll think of a good fib. *chuckles*

Yeah, I’m sure it could happen to any one of us guys regardless of size. I’m sure certain lady issues, just having a woman who’s not wet enough, or just having really rough sex could cause tearing from any average guy. Fortunately for me, I’ve never encountered any blood (besides period sex), but I know I would be horrified if I did. The last thing I want to feel is that I hurt a woman in any way.

I’m sorry to hear PE was a contributing factor to the downfall of one of your relationships. What you think would be a positive, turned into a negative. PE can be a great thing, but I have read some of the adverse effects it can have on men as well.

I’m glad you were able to find women who were okay with it and in fact enjoyed it. This was great to learn, because it may happen to me someday and from what you say the best bet is to just play it cool. Yet, I still know I’d be a little freaked out, as I was the first time I had a woman squirt (They neglected to share that detail in school, like so many other things). :chuckle: Anyway, I’ve never experienced a women who didn’t tell me if there was an issue. And if they didn’t, their body language sure said it. As always, communication and paying attention to our partners should be top priorities. If something seems wrong, stop!

And yes, I’ve been able to come up with some good fibs in the past to cover my own ass. Did they believe them? Well I guess being single again and again and again is the answer. And truthfully, I’m much happier this way! :chuckle:

Thanks again!

Still continuing with the standard “Newbie Routine” and edging. I’m having trouble sleeping and I don’t know if it has anything to do with PE. I know after a good edging session, I’m super energized. Could this be why I’m not sleeping? Could it have anything to do with my body adjusting to having full balls? I’ll lay in bed and within a minute I have a flagpole. As much as I love the fact my EQ is strong again, it’s just almost crazy strong. I’m getting erections all the time. Is this normal? Is this maybe from a big boost of testosterone? Whatever it may be, I’ve been up now for 25 hours. I’m going to try to go to sleep again and maybe this time the old snake won’t awaken.

Did the normal routine today. 5 minutes stretching and 200 wet jelqs. Also 30 minutes of edging. I got about 6 hours of sleep last night, which is a lot more than what I have been getting over the last week. My body just feels exhausted and so does my penis. I have been taking recommended 1 day breaks from PE every few days but think maybe I should take the next two off before continuing just for a recoup. I like what I’m seeing and believe a couple of rest days shouldn’t do me any harm. Just as long as I jump right back on track afterward.

Freak-out!!!!

Started my routine, did my stretches and went to wet jelq. My dick would not get hard. I was freaking out. My date this weekend was all that was coming to my mind. How could I ruin it, before it even happens? Luckily, it came back to life. I don’t know what the hell happened, but it certainly put me in panic mode. Lets just say, I decided it would be best to just not jelq today and rest my dick for the rest of the week. Of course periodically checking to see it’s in functioning order for Saturday.

Mental matters most. Relax. I’d take a couple shots, recline and put on an action movie. Vibe out.

You’re right. All this talk about the dead wife, nasty women I’ve fucked, worrying about my PE routine and an unexpected weekend booty call, topped off with the holidays, and everything else going on in my life has probably put my brain in meltdown mode causing a temporary impotence situation. I was freaked out though and was practically in tears. I thought for a second I was done, that my tool was cooked forever. When it finally came to life, I was so relieved.

I am going to pop one back and relax.

Christmas is over and I am proud that with all that has been going on, I was still able to keep a routine schedule in place. At times, it has been rough but I always found some time to fit it in. I’m still on the newbie routine, though I’ve added a little more stretch time and upped my jelqs to about 300 instead of 200. 50 to 100 of my jelqs are now with a jar lifter. I’ve found this to be an amazing tool and have been slowly adding it to my routine. Erections are rock hard and frequent. There is no choice for me but to continue my routine. The quality of my erections alone have made me a firm believer.

As far as the sex I was supposed to have last weekend, it was postponed by a snow storm. UGH!!! I sometimes envy you guys that have wives or girlfriends. The FWB situation can be difficult. It’s nice having something no strings attached, but on the other hand we are like two trains in the night and meeting can be difficult with our jobs, families, and the fact she moved 40 miles away last year. I may be crazy, but no piece of ass is worth my life.

Hope you all had a great holiday.

The problem is you live in Wisconsin. I have driven almost 3 hours for ass. I have flown across the country for ass. I have flown people to me for ass. Though I’ve got a pretty strict 90 minute drive limit for ass now, and I’m living with someone at the time of this post who is as willing as a woman can be. *shrugs*

Gotta set standards. Curing Dry Dick Syndrome has to have some limitations. Been there, done that. Believe me.

Please be careful with the speed of your ramp ups. Right now, as hard as your erections are you can still be slowing your gains. I’d stop ramping up until I see gains. Your routine as is, is more than enough for months to come in my opinion.

So should I continue with the ramped up routine or should I go back to the standard “Newbie Routine”? Just curious that if by regressing my routine after ramping it up it may give me very little results, now?

Your thinking is sound but depends on exactly how long you’ve done the ramped up version you listed. How long have you been at the harder version? How many sessions? I’ll give you my best judgement with your answer.

Just the last week, 4 sessions.