Of course they’ll tell you never to PE again, but I doubt you’d want to do that right now anyway, and risk making it worse. But there is another possibility, between the best and worst, and that is finding out that it’s a correctible problem. Might not be easy, but if you pursue it, you’ve got a good chance. For example, if it did turn out to be a minor leak, there have been a couple of guys on this board who had successful surgery for this, by IV radiologists.
As for telling your parents, you don’t have to tell them about PE, just that you’ve recently developed this problem. In young guys, this problem does seem to be congenital. Steinkill, who was successfully treated, posted this comment from his specialist:
Originally Posted by steinkill
I know most people can’t believe a young person could had a problem like this. But a good doctor would be able to tell. From what my doctor said, sometimes even Doppler tests aren’t really accurate, in my case the test indicated a mild leakage, but when he was operating he was amazed at the thickness of my vein, he actually said he never saw a worst case in his career (he actually specializes in venous leakage and wrote a book about this, not mentioning thousand of operations).So just give it a go man, it can’t hurt, even if you don’t have a 100% recuperation, it’s going to be worth it, trust me, this whole episode was the most frustrating thing that could happen in my life, I’m glad it’s over now.
Edit: I too was worried about causing my venous leakage (using rubber bands, rough PE techniques. Etc). But my doctor said most venous leakage are genetic (family history of varicose veins), in my case the doctor said it looked like I had a double deep dorsal vein (it was actually a thick vein with a huge branch).
So if that’s the case, it could very well happen from sex or masterbation. I think sooner would be better than later, so if at all possible, you may want to consider this option. I wish you luck.