Unknown injury STORY TIME
Back in January I used an extender, I read some information on how to use one by other experienced users on this forum and what I did was basically to stretch my flaccid out to about erect lenght then put the extender on. I had it on for maybe an hour or more but took it off because my glans started feeling cold and I didn’t like that.
After this I had a hard time getting erect and when I did my glans would not fill up properly but stay soft, sometimes the entire penis just felt more loose when erect. Morning wood was also worse off. My penis turtled up and felt slightly hard. One or two days after I used the extender I started feeling like a warm pain/ache in the left underside of my penis pretty far down like by the root and down behind my testicles on the left side.
With time this got better, Glans started filling up and erections got harder, morning wood got better. I went to a doctor who said to take 3 weeks off any sexual activity which I tried to do but fucked up like 3 times and had sex with my girlfriend. I went to another doctor for a follow up after the three weeks, after checking my junk out they said that they can’t see anything wrong and they told me to just live my life and have sex like normal and so I did.
It was fine at first but the more I masturbated and had sex the worse my dick got. I told my girlfriend that the pain was back and my EQ was being affected so we started slowing down and I stopped masturbating and after a little while my dick got better again, better erections and more blood in glans again.
I kept going to doctors for checkups though because like when I pull my penis towards the right side I can feel like this odd stretching feeling on the left, like around the same spot as where the pain is. Every time I went to a doctor though I’m hit with the same answer “nothing seems to be wrong, you don’t have to stop having sex” and I listen to them thinking fuck maybe its all in my head but when I start masturbating and having sex again my EQ starts getting worse and pain comes back.
When I am erect I can feel the pain more if I kegel hard, when I kegel during an erection I can feel something weird on the left underside just by the root pretty much.
So I’ve gone through these damn ups and downs now since then and I feel like the logical conclusion is to just not listen to what the doctors are saying and just leave sexual activity until it improves but I am just worried sometimes that I damaged it permanently. Maybe that is stupid of me considering I have been fully erect several times since the injury but what do I know.
Then bam in march after sex my GF pressed her knee on accident into the root on my penis when getting off of me. I felt some pain and I felt some liquid warm feeling go up my penis/urethra but Nothing came out, the next day I couldn’t see any blood in my urine and it didn’t hurt to pee. Pain came back on the left side and a little worse this time. Morning wood was present but dick was pretty soft at the same time. Erections were less rigid and glans didn’t fill up properly again. This time the pain wasn’t only located to the left underside of the penis but it sort of traveled from there down towards my left sit bone. After some time my morning wood started getting harder and my erections got better. Went to two doctors again after that and told them about what happened and about the feeling of something going up my urethra but he did not seem concerned and again ” just keep having sex like normal”.
Right now after seeing a surgeon a few days ago who squeezed the living shit out of my dick looking for any lumps or scar tissue I’m a little sore just below the glans on the underside of my penis down towards the root. It kinda hurts to press it. Haven’t had sex or masturbated for like 5 days now but I am planning on staying away from that for at least 3 weeks.
Am I making the right call?? I feel fucking confused as shit and lonely as hell.