Join the challenge! Porn detox!

That’s easy. Tell the fiancee that you’re sexually frustrated. If she is the perfect wife material, she’ll know what to do. ;P

Well, she’s on the rag. (I understand she could do other stuff, but I don’t like having her service me when I can’t really return it; just a quirk I guess). And I’m not really sexually frustrated per se. The porn has been hardwired into my body for 13 years as a reward mechanism, a pleasure center. It wants to desperately go there, but I’m not letting it. It’s making me a wreck.

Next weekend we’re going to a destination wedding where we should be able to go nuts on each other for a few days without distraction. I guess I just need to make it there in one piece…LOL

Thanks for all your kind words. I don’t know if I can do it, but sure I’ll try.
Thank you, really.

Thanks thestallion.

I know it may sound strange from a guy that has confessed he has failed.
But…stay strong.

When I collapse the first “taste” of the porn was incredible. Extremely exciting.
Two days later I was “disfigured” from porn. My heart was pumping too fast, I yell to my parents…I was a shit. Really, a shit.
Don’t do this.

58days is great. Please, continue. Make yourself an example for me and guys like me that what to see that somebody can resist porn.

I love how this thread is like “Alcoholics Anonymous” but for Porn Addicts.

“YOU CAN DO IT MAN!” lol.

Mayo: I know the consequences may be slightly less drastic, but this is a serious addiction…LOL This is slightly past where I relapsed last summer and I can certainly see why.

Scarsick: You can count on me man, I’ll be here.

That is the exact reason I am doing this. I don’t want to feel how I used to feel before I started the detox. It’s great motivation as long you can remind yourself of it.

About to go into day 56. Lately jelqing has been a dangerzone for me due to much higher EQ.

So true, & that’s what makes it so hard. Porn is a great feeling as it is, but coming but to it after a week off is EXTREMELY exciting. Reminds me of being a little kid. I’m just so incredibly aroused- heart pumps very very fast, sweat a lot etc. Knowing I can access this feeling & not doing it is so, so hard.

This is very very true. If a guy is passionate about something other than sex, it drives attraction because it shows how committed and driven he can be. If he’s good at what he does, it also shows women that he will be successful, and if he’s not good at least they know he’s trying to better himself which is an attractive quality as well.

It also allows the guy to naturally, without playing games or manipulating the situation, be a little harder to get. When your time is already occupied by something else that is actually important to you, you won’t have as much time to just sit around and have sex, which will drive your woman crazy and (IMHO) make her want to have sex with you even more whenever you can. These are not scientific findings, just my reflections from my own experience.

Day 4, I think? I’m actually trying not to keep track as much this time - I want this to be my new lifestyle completely from here on out - no porn at all.

59…

Well done stallion 60 soon!

I have disappointed myself so badly! I just had 2 days of porn for at least 12 hours each day! That is shocking, my girth routine suffered and I wasted the days. The first 2 weeks of detoxing I Had a sticky note on my screen that said porn can cause E.D and the reasons why I don’t want to watch porn, for some reason I deleted it thinking I don’t need it now and this is what happens, I actually forgot about the whole E.D thing. I read a lot of story’s on the net about guys this happened to after years of porn and it scares me.

I feel shitty but good too, Shitty because I did it but good because I just loaded videos up and then thought why are you doing this? I don’t need this and closed everything down, I would never have done that before. OK back at it in the morning.

Petite, I’m not surprised. The brain will do countless, almost sadistic things to get you to rationalize participating in a bad habit. My mind has literally distorted reality and made it seem OK to relapse. You’re not alone my friend. Having said that, that is one hell of a relapse. But it’s ok…re-group, re-focus, and re-abstain. We’re here for you man.

Also, my advice is to pull out all the stops. (Don’t delete sticky’s etc…) This is a war within you and you must do what is necessary to carry out the mission- every alternative is on the table.

This is exactly what feels like is happening!

For instance 2 minutes after I made my last post I realized I had made some bookmarks for videos I found, First I think OK I will delete them then I start convincing myself that I should just leave them there. What the hell!

I was at a point were I was sleeping better, My lifts were improving, I was using My imagination to masturbate. My PE was getting more focus and everything has just went out the window for 2 days.

Amazing how porn can effect everything. If only computers weren’t needed I would find this so much easier. Thing is I was off porn a few weeks there and Realised that I didn’t need it, I can’t even remember how I started again! I honestly can’t?

Sorry, that’s my rant over. No more self pity!

As I said before, everything is on the table for you. You may want to consider parental controls. I know it sounds RIDICULOUS, but it all depends on how bad you want it. There are some free programs out there that block porn and are password protected. There are plenty of loopholes, but it could help if you get turned away by a lifeless program whenever you’re about to collapse. Just sayin…

Some may notice that I’ve had a rough go of it with this streak the past few days. I whipped out one of the ultimate mental games that I read about last summer when I first tried to quit. For some reason it’s more effective this time around, I guess I forgot about it last time.

When I’m feeling like I’m about to relapse, I imagine my fiancee filling up her web browser with tabs of videos- of “hot” guys and having her fuck herself for hours and hours with the same intensity and desire that I feel when I watch porn. Moaning, multiple orgasms- just salivating over these guys, their cocks (bigger/more satisfying than mine), their bodies and whatever else she likes about them. Frankly, it’s absolutely crushing to imagine. Just devastating. But that’s the reality of the situation, just flipped around.

When ever I visualize this as graphically as possible, it makes me hate porn and makes me want to defeat it that much more. For single guys, this may not work well, but for those who want to drop porn and have a SO, this technique is very effective.

I’m in. Reading through this thread and realized I have an addiction. My brain is a tricky devil, wish me luck….