Upon further consideration, and in light of three new circumstances described below, I now am willing to oblige mgus, as best I can, with an introductory post regarding seminal kung fu (SKF), the foundation (IMO) of male tantric sex practice, including a discussion of what mastery of SKF allows. First, a description of the three circumstances that have served to modify my willingness to present this information. Feel free to skip ahead to the SKF discussion.
First, as described in my original reply to mgus:
A consequence of discussing SKF with my friends has uniformly been a diminution in the quality of the friendship, or loss of the friendship entirely. As a result, I’ve become strongly conditioned to not want to discuss this stuff with friends (I’m not a masochist). Fortunately for you all, as far as I can tell, it now appears that I’ve managed to alienate all of my friends here at Thunder’s Place, therefore, I no longer am concerned with losing friends here, that appears to have taken care of itself already.
Second, based on my experience and what I’ve read on this Forum, there is significant confusion regarding orgasms. In order to facilitate clearer communication than would otherwise be possible, please use MY definition of orgasm when considering the content of this post:
Orgasm: an experience of release.
I don’t think there’s much of a basis for argument over my definition, but, of course, I could be wrong. Please let me know of any ideas for ways to better define orgasm.
In any case, onward…Based on my experience, successful edging (IOW, masturbation without ejaculation) will result in the experience of an aborted “conventional” orgasm, where “conventional” means the type of orgasm associated with ejaculation. Because there is no release, there is no orgasm with edging. I’m not saying that the sensation of the aborted orgasm isn’t pleasurable, IMO it is, but, by (my) definition, it isn’t an orgasm. Indeed, in as much as it is an experience of stopping release, it is an anti-orgasm.
What SKF allows for are crown chakra orgasms (CCO). CCO are non-ejaculatory orgasms and are NOT the non-ejaculatory, non-erection requiring orgasms that zaneblue refers to as “prostate orgasms”, which are orgasms, being experiences of release…most readily experienced (for me) via use of an Aneros prostate massager. CCO are different from prostate orgasms in two principle ways, the first being that an erection is required (penis stimulation drives CCOs), and the second is that the sensation of release (i.e. orgasm) is centered at the top of the head (instead of the loins), propagating down one’s body from there in a very distinctive way…it feels like warm honey has been poured over the inside of your head and is running down the inside of your skull. A taste and smell is associated with the CCOs and has been described in this way:
"When your head is filled with sperm energy the excess ching may spontaneously combust with the chi in your higher centers and spill over into the Microcosmic Orbit and flow down through your palate and down the tongue. This will taste different to different people. It’s generally called the Golden Nectar but it can taste like champagne, honey, coconut juice, or fragrance of all kinds of things, or it can simply feel like a warm tingling sensation on your tongue."
from: Taosist Secrets of Love-Cultivating Male Sexual Energy
Golden Nectar is what is released during CCOs. It feels like a warm honey shower on the inside of the skull and usually tastes/smells like magnolia blossoms to me. More below on how SKF facilitates CCOs. But back to the last of those 3 circumstances…
Third, it has been suggested to me (in no uncertain terms) by someone whom I respect that I am withholding information from my fellow members here at Thunder’s Place. He was right. Writing this post represents part of my effort to be more forthcoming with information.
OK, now about SKF and achieving CCOs.
To my knowledge, the only English text that describes the HOW of SKF is Taoist Secrets of Love-Cultivating Male Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia and Michael Winn. IMO, this book is the user MANUAL for SKF practice and as such, is required reading for anyone seeking to master SKF.
SKF is the act of moving “chi” or sexual energy away from one’s genitals in order to remove the energy required to induce ejaculation. “Chi”, being energy, is not destroyed in this process, rather, it is conserved and simply (or not so simply) moved to a different location in the body. Mobilization is initiated by means of, for purposes of clearest understanding, edging. The MANUAL describes terms like “power lock”, “big draw”, etc. Don’t let these terms throw you, it all boils down to a strong BC muscle (pump #2…pump #1 is the heart) and good timing, IOW, edging. SKF takes off is where edging stops. The chi generated by stimulation and “caught” by one’s successful use of good timing and a strong BC muscle (pump #2), IOW, edging, is “handed off” to the “sacral pump” (pump #3), which in turn “hands off” the chi to the “cranial pump” (pump #4). The cranial pump moves chi to the crown (top of one’s head) where, upon sufficient delivery of chi, CCOs spontaneously occur.
I think a hydraulic system is particularly well suited as an analogy for the systematic (referred to as the Microcosmic Orbit (MO) in the MANUAL) that is manipulated in SKF practice. Each pump moves chi along the MO much as pumps move water along in a hydraulic system. When enough chi has been delivered to the crown, it “overflows”, IOW CCO occurs. Once the system is “primed” and because chi transmissivity exists within the MO, each new stroke (and related “in concert” pumping) brings another release of Golden Nectar (orgasm). The appropriate timing of muscle flexing to control the pumps becomes instinctual and automatic…achieved with what amounts to mind control. With practice, it is possible to experience wave after wave of Golden Nectar showers, for tens of minutes, non-stop. It should be noted that an adequate supply of chi is required to prime the system sufficiently to achieve a "full head of sperm energy". For this reason, I generally refrain from ejaculating more than I need to.
I’ll spare you all from a discussion of the meta-physical aspects of CCOs. But they are profound.
As you might well expect, there is much more to all of this, but this post is long enough already and I think I’ve laid out the basic info well.
I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that it took me a little over 10 years to master SKF…solo. Mrs. x and I are still working (year 18) on mastering the sexual energy exchange implicit in dual CCOs.
Thoughts? Comments? Ideas?
xeno