How To Reverse Gains?

Default How to reverse girth gains?

I know what you’re thinking: “why the shit would anyone want to reverse their gains?”

When I was around the age of 20 I was very insecure and felt like I needed a bigger dick to validate myself and be more attractive to women. After thousands of jelques, squeezes, time inside tubes, and a damaged vein I managed to gain a quarter inch of girth. (no matter what I did I couldn’t gain length.)

Fast forward many years and I’m married and have long forgotten about any desire for a bigger dick. Wife doesn’t care and I don’t care. But 2 consecutive traumatic life events triggered underlying obsessive compulsive disorder to become symptomatic and ever since then it’s been a struggle to live with intrusive thoughts, worry and anxiety.

I can’t help but think that being on the receiving end of oral would be better if my dick were thinner again considering my wife’s mouth is tiny and even more so I just can’t stand the fact that I permanently altered myself and it makes me feel a lack of control over myself and my life. Ridiculous sounding I know, but that’s ocd for you. So my question is: is there any way I can purposely lose the quarter inch of girth I gained?

Not really. Direct tissue damage could do it but that would be…bad to say the least for function and form of your unit.

You can try repeated exposure to cold and constriction stimuli. But those aren’t guaranteed to work either.

I mean if I could siphon the girth you don’t want, and any length too, I would help but there’s nothing i can really offer.

I was thinking you had recently built yourself some more size and now your girl was having trouble with it. In which case I’d have said simply stop all PE efforts and it will likely slowly return to the size it was over a few months. If it has been there for years, I don’t think there’s much to be done. I’d relax and enjoy having a little extra. Most guys would kill for it.

Are you seeking psych help? I would focus more on the OCD, I don’t think 1/4” would matter much in the external world. It seems it’s your ocd that needs to be reduced—with professional help. I wish you the best.

Thanks. I’m beginning to feel like acceptance is the obvious way to go but that’s reeeaaalllly hard for me. Thanks for the input.

Josh,

Obviously most of us are working to increase our size, but there is an underlying reality for us and it also applies to you.

A larger or smaller penis will not change who we are. It will not increase the value we bring to this world and the relationships that we are in.

It’s our hearts and our souls that bring the value. PE for some personal fetish, PE for fun, but please don’t connect the value of who you are to the dimensions of your penis.

The dimension of our heart is the measure of our being.

Much love my friend, hope you are well.

What’s the dimensions of your heart BPEL?!

Just kidding, that was a great post, I agree completely!

It’s 5.23543777773333, obviously!

Just kidding. In all seriousness, it’s as far into this universe that I can see, that’s the measure of my heart and my soul.

So I just need to open my eyes….

If you dont treat your ocd, wheter you lose the 0.25 or not it wont help.

Some excellent advice. Many sincere thanks 🙏

A chastity belt worn at all times would reduce length and girth.