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Welcome to the club, Osmium.
Your current stats are definitely good. Congrats on that.
Stick with the Newbie Routine as long as you’re making progress and see where it takes you.
Good luck.

I’m a new member as well. I believe I join a couple of day’s ago but haven’t introduce myself. I’m currently 8x5/(5.25 when super hard or after taking some pill enhancement pills). I’ve studied a little before joining about PE, learned of course to stick with the beginner’s routine before anything else. I’m satisfied with my length ( wouldn’t mind increasing it fast since not my priority).

My main goal really is increasing my girth since that is the key for pleasuring the women, in this case my girlfriend which means so much to me. Never thought of PE until I came across her and I shall explain why. When first starting out it all goes well until she starts getting really wet. I tend to lose friction due to her arousal stage. Mind you we both get satisfaction and finish with no problems. She’s able to squeeze and I feel the tightness but usually she does so at the end when we finish.

I’m wondering, if I increase say to 6 in of girth will we feel the friction during intercourse or will her arousal just accommodate to the girth regardless?

Welcome, hyper99999. You’ve got some enviable starting stats. Congrats.

It’s impossible to say whether the friction during sex will increase with a significant girth gain. I’d assume that, since you’ll gain it gradually, her ability to accommodate your size will most likely increase, too. No way to know positively, except to do it. And the research side of this project sounds like a great deal of fun.

Good luck.

Interesting question. She is currently turned on by you and it sounds like she is enjoying the synergy. So your desires to be thicker might be only fulfilling your own fetish and not hers, which by the way, is my current condition.

My wife has made it quite clear to me that she does not want anything more than my current size inside of her. To this day she gets turned on and I slip and slide in her, typically at less than 5” girth, although we have coupled when I have been touching 5.5”, no issue for her. While the added girth is fun for me, she pretty much just loves the deal all the same.

Truth is, she just wants me to pound the shit out of her and not look back, which I provide with all my might.

I will say this, it would be tragic in the event that we could not have sex every day because my girth required too much energy for her to accommodate regularly. However, I would not be shocked if she just took it like a champ! Lol.

I do recall one or two gentlemen on Thunders reporting that through PE they got to a size that made what was an otherwise great and regular sex life, not good.

So to answer the original question, she could just accommodate a 6” girth, or not enjoy it as much as your current size. If she is telling you she is more than happy with what you are currently giving her, I would take it at face value, providing anything more is to fulfill your own endeavors.

Everyone is different so just maintain awareness and sensitivity as you proceed in increasing your dimensions.

I will relate my own experience since I started out over two years ago with a girth exactly the same as yours, 5.25”. After nearly two and a half years of PE, I’m now at 5.8” MSEG.

From my experience, the increased girth has resulted in increased friction for me with my girlfriend, whom I’ve been with for about 3 years. The increased friction has caused me to ejaculate a bit faster, which is not necessarily a bad thing in my case. I say that because at the beginning of our relationship, if anything, I had difficulty finishing. After the girth increase that’s no longer the case.

From my girlfriend’s perspective, she was always able to orgasm vaginally but now she does so much more quickly, sometimes within a minute or two of insertion. And now she’s much more likely to have multiples. This has done wonders for my confidence, as you can imagine.

Downsides? Well, over the last six months or so, she’s spotted blood several times after intercourse. I attribute this to her not being sufficiently aroused before starting sex but the first couple of times this happened, she freaked out, understandably. So with a girth of 6”, sufficient foreplay will be mandatory, as it is for me now. It’s kind of a bummer because quickies are pretty much out of the question.

Along the same lines, if my girlfriend isn’t sufficiently turned on, intercourse can be painful for her, sometimes pretty much so. She’s said to me, “Either you’re getting bigger or I’m getting smaller”. She doesn’t know I’m PEing and these changes have happened gradually over more than two years.

Overall, though, our sex life has improved greatly, not only because of my increased size, but also due to better EQ. She seems to truly enjoy the increased size and so do I.

We just have to be a bit more careful before having sex. But I’m pretty sure I’ve about reached my girth limit.

Length, on the other hand, is another story…..

Anyway, I hope this is helpful to you.

Thank you guys for responds, great answers overall. I will continue my journey to gaining my girth and maybe a little more length.

I forgot to mention one of the biggest flaws I also encountered and didn’t notice at the time is alcohol consumption. I’m a rare drinker if I could I can go my whole life without basically. But, my girlfriend likes having drinks every once in a while and I noticed the first times we got off I couldn’t keep up with my erections. After a couple of drinks I start feeling numb on my cheeks and that’s when I know my unit feels numb as well.

Thought I share this experience maybe it might help some of our members out.

That’s a fantastic girth gain. What specifically were you doing to increase girth?

I gain and lose… I was up to 5.2 at one point then back down to 5 flat from 4.9 (could have been fluid retention or something). I’ve been at it about 3 months, but with a set routine for the last 3 weeks, and have been very consistent the last 3 weeks.

I’m wondering if I have a “tough tunica”. I can’t get much expansion when doing horse squeezes.

Can you explain the degree to which you were able to “expand” the tunica?

I gained a little over a half of an inch in girth in less than two years of PEing. My girth has been the same now for maybe the last 9 or 10 months but I’ve been targeting length lately, not girth. And maintaining EQ which is very important to me, especially at my age, 59.

I started out with the Newbie routine and did that for about a year or so, gaining about .25” in girth during that time. Gains stalled so I started experimenting with different, more advanced exercises. For girth, I always did dry jelqs, sometimes as many as 200 during a session. I love doing them, they are my favorite exercise. But now I only do 60 in a session because I’m targeting length right now. The dry jelqing helps get the blood circulating after I do my stretches and also helps with maintaining my EQ.

After the initial gains stopped I added various squeezes, and more specifically horse squeezes, to the dry jelqing I was doing. I would then edge for ten minutes or so at the end of most sessions. I found that after incorporating the horse squeezes and edging I started gaining girth again, to where I am now.

I’ve never used any mechanical devices in my PE training, only manuals. I also Incorporated rest and decon periods along the way which I believe are essential for growth..

That’s pretty much it, hope this helps you on your girth chasing adventure.

Great advice Seneca, this happens to me too, especially measuring daily after PE and then off. But like muscle exercise or trying to lose weight, I noticed fluctuation when measuring daily or close days. I’m going to do this new method.. Toss my measuring tape and buy another one every 3 months or maybe 6 hope to see better results. I’m closing in finishing one month at it.

Oh and by the way, wow, I’m impressed having to accomplish your success at your age, congrats. You lead me into believe its never too late to start. I’m 32 at the moment and thought I was doing PE so late. I’m motivated now to continue on.

Thanks. It’s never too late to start trying to improve your life and I feel like I’ve improved mine significantly with PE.

It’s improved my relationship with my girlfriend, given me back my confidence in the bedroom, I’ve lost 20 pounds, not only to improve my health, but also to reduce my fat pad. I feel healthier and much better about myself now than I did three years ago. And PE had a lot to do with all of that.

So my advice is to stay with it, be patient and consistent and you’ll reach your goals. Remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint.

Good luck.

Hi Gents.

So a bit about me. Up until a year ago, I was about 100 pounds overweight and had what I felt was a laughably small size for me - I’m 6’4 and at the time weighed 300). I never measure the girth, but the length was somewhere around 4.75” to 5”. I was always unsatisfied with my size and learned to compensate in other ways, oral, massage, etc. I never really had any complaints with my partners as I became quite good at pleasing them. But, as a typical male, I wanted to be bigger. Not monster size, but bigger.

Fast forward a year, and I am now down to 200 lbs at 40 years old. I am in the best shape of my life, even better than when I was in high school and was very physical active with sports. I gained over an inch in length due to my penis being withdrawn in layer upon layer of fat. I am now about 6.5” in length and 4.5 in girth. Now, I know that’s not a bad size, and my wife does not complain at all. But we have played around with sleeves and I can tell she really enjoys the feeling of a thicker girth. I already have to be somewhat careful of my positioning because I bottom out in her in particularly rough sessions.

My goal is to of course achieve a thicker penis, but to also increase my erect quality. I don’t have issues getting an erection, but quite often I have problems maintaining it. And it is never as hard as I would like for it to get without using a cock ring. I have been taking testosterone supplements and I have an appointment with a urologist to see if there are any physical issues that need to be taken care of. I know I have low test, but I would imagine that more of my issues are psychological instead of physiological.

Anyway, my goal is to increase my girth to 5.5” or even 6”. I would prefer to be bigger, but I don’t know if that is a reasonable expectation. I expect that I will gain some length in my journey, but I would prefer not to make my wife hurt anymore than I can already cause her.

Thanks for the information you guys have already given me and the support I have seen you give each other. Best of luck to you all in your journeys and I look forward to sharing results with you.

I have a question, when I jelq I finish with a nice plump unit with a slightly puffy urethra pee hole BUT I realize that I also get this puffy looking vein underneath the glans on the sides of the upper shaft about a couple mm from the ring of the glans. It goes away with time but what is that? Should I be concerned? Also goes away with a warm down. It’s always a post jelq session temporary inflated looking vein.

Hi all I’m a newb here. Wondering if anyone can list some of the abbreviations/acronyms used often. Maybe there is a thread that already list them but I couldn’t find it when searching.

Hello fellow newbies, I’m a newbie as well with almost a month in PE. Great stories so far that I’ve heard from beginner’s. Hope we can all accomplish our goals together.