Penissizedebate.com messing with me

Let’s take things right back to basics. What are penises for, from an evolutionary point of view? Squirting sperm into a uterus, obviously. Penises have been ‘designed’ by evolution to fit vaginas, so while both organs vary a good deal in size, it would be a bit strange if the average penis wasn’t a good fit for the average vagina. Of course a lot of women are going to prefer dicks that are a bit bigger than average to those that are a bit smaller, but unless you’re talking about a true size queen then the owner of an average-sized dick should be perfectly capable of having mutually enjoyable sex with the owner of an average-sized cunt, providing the said dick works properly.

I remember reading about some big survey about women’s feelings on dick size, and rather than ask about length in inches (which, as I’m sure we all know, most women don’t have a clue about) they asked how women felt about their current or previous partner’s size. About 85% were either “very satisfied” or “satisfied”. And out of the remaining 15%, presumably at least were “unsatisfied” because the dick in question was too big for them to have enjoyable sex. The idea that the average penis is somehow inadequate for most women is ludicrous.

Wow. That’s the dog’s bullocks!

I was going to say that, but the ru beat me to it.

Thanks. (It’s ‘bollocks’, by the way ;) )

Wibble, I saw the same survey. There is a thread somewhere with links to it, If I dig it out I will post the link.

Also saw statistics the the most popular sizes of dildos women buy are in the average penis size range. (It is worth noting that a lot of these 7 and 8 inch dildos have a real insertable length of 6 inches or less.)

Most women are not buying the “Monster Cock” dildos to use on themselves.

Exactly, I’ve often thought this myself. Women usually buy dildos the same size as an average cock or just *slightly* larger. I guess those ridiculous 12" dongs are bought by a) the minority of dyed-in-the-wool size queens, probably gay men as often as straight women; b) couples looking for a humorous novelty, a joke present or whatever and 3) porn studios for the girls to ‘enjoy’ on camera.

Here’s a mention of that survey: http://uk.askme n.com/dating/va … ve_secrets.html

Hen night props!

Ha, yeah, that’s exactly what I was thinking of actually! Along with an inflatable sheep for the groom… :)

Although for you, the equivalent would be an inflatable human woman, right? ;)

That’s just perverted!!! ;)

Wibble here is the blog post on dildo size, and the rampant size anxiety that inexperienced guys have. I have posted it before on thunders, but it is worth repeating.

From Daniel Rose, the author of The Sex God Method.

Does Size Matter?

Does size matter? Yes and no, but mostly no.

There’s myths out there that larger cocks provide better physical stimulation (”hit spots that a smaller dick can’t). This simply isn’t true.

Think about the vibrators and dildos that are sold for women to masturbate with. The vast majority of dildos that are sold are between five and six inches, with proportional girth — the size of an average penis. The twelve inch monster cocks are relegated to the joke section.

You can see then, that a bigger dick doesn’t provide any extra physical stimulation. Otherwise, women would choose larger sized sex toys.

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So then, why is penis size such a frequent insecurity among men? The reason is that it is a vicious cycle among guys who don’t get laid very much. Their only sexual outlet is internet porn, which almost always features guys with freakishly large cocks. Seeing that size is the measure of your worth in the porn world, they begin to think that size is the measure of your worth in the real world too. This causes them to become insecure about their “merely” average sized penis.

When they do have sex with a girl, their insecurities ruin their Immersion. That is, they start to think and worry in bed, instead of just enjoying the experience and being in the moment. This makes them perform poorly in bed.

But, they don’t recognize that the reason why they are performing poorly is because of their insecurities caused by this limiting belief. Instead, they take their sexual failure as evidence that their beliefs about penis size are true.

They then go back and masturbate to porn that stars guys with even bigger dicks, and the vicious cycle continues.

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Would goat-on-sheep action count as interracial, I wonder?

If this were true we could all save a lot of time and effort. Unfortunately it doesn’t seem to be. I’ve been with girls with different sized vaginas. The girls who were tight responded to my thrusts fairly well. The medium girls less, and the loose girls quite minimally. The idea that the fit doesn’t matter is, at least from my life experience, completely unsupportable.
There’s also a lot of stories on these forums from guys who have made gains, especially girth gains, talking about how much their wife/girlfriend response during sex has changed.
Also this post, where a newer member describes the drastic changes that came in the responses of two girls that he is sleeping with, when he put on a "sleeve" taking him artificially from 5.5 x 4.75 (5 at the head) to 8.5 x 6.25
Penis sleeves
I think the idea of size not mattering is proliferated as a mercy thing. Putting the message out that it doesn’t matter will be believed by some guys, whether they are large or small. Then in actual experience with women large guys are likely to hear from a girl comments and compliments about how nice/enjoyable what they have is, while when a girl is with a small guy, most of them won’t be insensitive enough to say "FYI, I’ve had bigger ones, and they felt better". If all that works out then x amount of guys won’t know what it is that they’re lacking. This is probably a good thing, if you believe the popular wisdom that you can’t change your size.
Maybe this post I’m doing is a bad thing, maybe it’s a good thing. Maybe a couple of guys would have just been comforted, if I hadn’t shared what seems to be the truth and what doesn’t, and why it seems that way. Maybe someone will pursue more the self improvement that most of us here think can be done. I don’t really know.

I think the point is that inexperienced guys think unless you have a giant porno dick, you aren’t worth anything and you can’t please a woman. Which as we know is total unmitigated bullshit.

As Rose points out that vicious circle leads to poor performance in bed, maybe psychological impotence.

We see this kind of thinking all the time on thunders. It holds people back in their real lives and it is a huge stupid waste of time.

I hate being devil’s advocate, but what about the CDS or the A-spot? Are those not real pleasure spots then? I’m doing PE so I can hit that spot.