Do you think showing a bulge is offensive?

I guess in “modern” society there is no such thing as modesty?

Depends on the company you’re in, I’d say. I’m tiny when soft and don’t wear anything tight, so I never get a bulge. My dick exists for my girlfriend’s and my own pleasure only, has no business in other people’s lives, that being said the word ‘offensive’ is highly subjective. People complain about men sitting with their legs apart on the trains, many more people couldn’t care less. I’d just say read the situation, if you want other people to notice it and you’re ready to have them judge you on it, go right ahead.

I think positive attention is pretty damn hot.

Tell me a little about the negative reaction. How does that go? I have only received positive (to my knowledge); never noticed negative.

I totally hear you on the hypocrisy thing, though.

You will be called out that you are aroused. Accused for beeing a pervert.
There are many situations that can be interpreted in many ways with sporting a bulge to your disadvantage.

But its all in the heads of the people funnily. They fullfill their sick fantasies and fears that most “bulge wearers” never would intent.
You just have to be secure about it like if its your left foot. No shame espacialy if its packed up.

Im just the guy having fun with people who have fun with it too and there are plenty around lol. I notice the morals of other people and ahve to live with them somewhat but I dont care so much to adjust myself and my persona to them. I live my morals with the people who share them too primarily.

Sure - modesty is always present. BUT if you’re having to make drastic changes to hide what you have, then I don’t believe that’s reasonable.

For example, if I have a pair of jeans that I like, that fit me well, are long enough and look good (and believe me, finding pants/jeans that fit well being 6’7” is NO easy feat) - and oh by the way they just happen to really accentuate my crotch because of the cut in the groin, then who’s fault is that? Mine? Should I not be allowed to wear what I want because the pants happen to really accentuate my package? I don’t agree with that.

When we (as men) see a woman with a figure that’s attractive to us (whether it be a thin woman, a thicker woman, etc) and she’s wearing those yoga pants that makes us drool because they fit every curve of her ass just right, are we offended by that? Nope. So if a guy wants to wear what he enjoys and it creates a stir around his cock, why is that such a bad thing? Having said that, I’m a firm believer in time and place, meaning there are some things more appropriate than others based on where you are (i.e. really tight fitting, club-style clothing at a place of business like a doctor’s office isn’t appropriate). But I also believe that I shouldn’t have to take the long way around having to hide something I should be proud of.

Guys can be pretty enamored with their junk, much moreso than anyone else is about it. I try to think about it from others’ point of view, not all obviously but most guys (I assume) would rather not have to look at another man’s junk. The line between feeling like you’re looking at a guys junk and just the normal silhouette bulge that can be seen in many men/pants etc is a bit blurry. I have some sweats I wear to the gym that are just made in a way they really show bulge but at the same time they are favs of mine - because of the fit not the bulge. When I wear them to the gym I just pull them down a little more below the waist than usual to reduce the bulge. I feel like it’s just common courtesy. Of course we all want to appear attractive and feel good, but I feel like if you are intentionally bulging you are compensating for something else and teetering on disrespect, and people resist show offs anyhow.

I don’t think it’s offensive, if you do it in the right way. I am going to say that you probably shouldn’t do it at the gym. And I’m saying this as a gay guy, it is rather distracting for me when I’m working out. I understand having some bulge when wearing sweat pants, or exercise shorts. But I don’t like it when some guy blatantly walks around free balling in the free weight area. ;) I’d be more concerned about that booty bulging out. Can’t resist a nice ass on a guy. Haha.

Offensive? Who gives a shit. Offensive is a word for cotton-candy asses who think the world should cater to their every whim. We’re MEN by God, and we’ll do as we see fit.

Now, if someone were to convince me that a natural-appearing bulge were rude in some way, I might reconsider allowing it to,show. (Rude defined as contrary to social norms of conduct and causing unpleasant atmosphere for the majority of people present or a single person at whom an action is directed.) However, simply having my clothing sit in a particular way over my anatomy can hardly cause an unpleasant atmosphere, as the majority of people won’t notice it, and the showing of my bulge isn’t directed at any one person, so a single person who takes umbrage falls under the “offended” cotton-candy-ass heading.

Don’t know. i am a grower so I never had that problem. 4 inches flaccid.

If I’m wearing a suit, I’ll try to de-emphasise the bulge as much as possible, because it’s probably going to be inappropriate in the environments I’m wearing a suit in.

If you see a girl in a yoga leotard, you are going to have a quick ‘camel-toe’ check! If women (and I suspect most men) see a guy in cycling shorts, a wrestling singlet, or a one piece rowing suit, they are going to take a peek, and hope to see something!

So if I’m wearing cycling shorts people are going to look anyway. I’m to going to deliberately emphasise it, but I’m not going to try to hide it either. Might as well give them something to look at. :rolling:

Right!

And if Im flirting with a person Im interested in I will showcase what and who I am to make the fit. Nothing wrong with it.
And everyone else bystanding has still the option to look away or think of something else.
And if I approach a woman which doesnt like me approaching her while sporting a bulge she can still opt out and reject.

Probably not a good idea to sport a healthy bulge if you and your wife/girlfriend are going to her parent’s house for dinner.

There are situations Like fire goat stated that absolutely can be uncomfortable and inappropriate.

Unless you wanna make the in laws jealous hahaha

Well I go along with that it shoouldnt be placed eytra prominently. But a bulge wouldnt be problem and one shouldnt tuck it uncomfortably away..

When one goes with the boob analogy most woman wouldnt probably wear the most revealing top but they wouldnt strap them back to look flatter either.

Mom and dad would have to deal with her having huge boobs.