Length

I am curious as to what the general consensus is on the perfect length for sex. It seems that most people on this forum almost disregard length past a certain point as it pertains to sexual pleasure. Maybe it’s in my head because I want more girth, but has anyone had experiences with partners who had stronger orgasms as they went past 7 NBP?

I always thought length was a “close” second to girth for a women’s sexual pleasure, but the more I read, the less important it seems for sex, and the more for ego? So what is better a 7.5 NBP X 5.5 or 6.5 NBPX6?

My experience with my increased length gains have been good and bad, if my girlfriend is real horny, and I am going deep with 7.25 NBP it’s pretty exhilarating for her. Much more so than my previous 5.75-6 NBP. Has anyone else found that significantly increased length made sex a lot better, or is truly all about the girth?

I do think a signifficant part of it is psychological. For both men and women, the sensation that it goes in, and in, and IN is more exciting thanit just going in and in, and then out again.

Length: Practical Benefits Above 7 NBEL?

8/8,5 is better.

Yeah, right.

Girth is far more important.

Length is for bros , girth is for hoes, right?

Yours.

Haha thanks chunk. I am grateful for my length.

I know a lot of people say girth is far more important, but a lot of my best sex seems to have come with my length gains, and not as much with my 0.45 inch girth gains. I really agree with those who sort of allude to the fact that it’s almost all psychological, but I also think this is the case with girth, and that we overestimate the ability to hit more nerves/endings with more girth/length. When I really think about it, oral sex is probably more useful for giving a lot of girls orgasms, and being romantic and emotional or alpha depending on the girl is probably even more important than that, so really the penis is just a representation of those alpha like tendencies. Length becomes important if you’re slipping out, or you don’t feel like you can hit it deep enough, and girth becomes important when don’t feel like you’re feeling her up, if your girls pussy and your penis are a good match (you’re just on the brink of being too big), that is a psychological turn on and probably the biggest contributor to a girls sexual pleasure.

The thing is so many girls are different. For every girl that truly bottoms out at 5.5 NBP, there is one who can take in 9 NBP so then it just becomes an odds game.

Depends on the woman. Some may be really tight and not up for much girth and can take a decent amount of length. Others might be pretty shallow only able to take a 5incher but can take a huge girth. I don’t think going over 7NBPEL will enhance the pleasure very dramatically though in the great majority of woman’s cases.

Depends on the person. For some, 6”s in girth is going to be painful. For some, 6.5”s won’t hit the cds but 7.5”s will.

I had a lover that fell into the cds category as I transitioned from just under 7 inches in length to just over. With the shorter length I could only hit the cds with doggy or a total grind of cowgirl. All of 1/3” longer and suddenly I could hit her cds whilst giving her a true jack hammer of a missionary treatment.

I was a bit to chubby for her to start with unless I really worked her over orally first. Fine by me. I got a bit mo’ chubby and the only thing that changed was her orgasms became even more intense!

I really don’t see the point of this thread, other than bragging about our own length… Does anybody think there was/is/will be a consensus about an optimal length? If there was a consensus, would you care about it? We do PE because we want it bigger - period.

There is a good reason to not overrate the importance of length, especially on a forum where there are people with confidence issues. The good old saying that size doesn’t matter as long as you are skilled is still ruling. On the other hand, trying to present extra length as undesirable, going only to annoy you and your partner, is mere hypocrisy. More length allows for larger amplitude of movement, which means more pleasure for both. It prevents slipping out. It makes possible to stimulate deeper points of the vagina. It is psychologically and aesthetically more pleasing for the women and gives better confidence to men.

Of course, there are women that can’t take above average length balls deep (I’m still waiting to meet one :) ). Having spare length, you are in control of how much of it you want to use, depending on the girl.
Since I’m shy of 8” BPEL I had two partners. Both of them love taking me balls deep and not only in missionary… :)

cds, iamaru?

It’s not really to brag, at least for me. I think it’s important to understand when to go over to a full girth routine because if/when I do this, it could make it extremely difficult to continue gaining if I want more length in the future.

I got mine up to 8 recently and it can sometimes hurt my girlfriend. But it’s totally awesome gaining an inch haha

Why do you think this?