Penis Size - A realistic view

Rhetorically speaking?

Fantastic! Rhetoric through logical argumentation and critical analysis.

Johhny is not 10 is 7… :)

Yeah he himself has said as much.

This should be required reading 101! Kudos brothers!!

I never felt size anxiety with a woman, but there definitely was anxiety in the locker room. When you are a grower and your flaccid resembles a small hobby store turtle you keep the towel nearby. I was average in the beginning of my quest and that is quite small in comparison to my present dimensions. By a volume comparison, I am a good 4 to 5x the volume increase over my start, its a bit incomprehensible when I think back and visualize the two images.

DutyQuest, I can relate to that. You feel like your dick is acting. I looked at an old pic of my flacid when it was turtled. Glad I don’t see that anymore. He shrinks up but can’t pull the rigidness of my meat in like before PE when it was loose meat! haha (so to speak)

Occasionally mine still turtles, but thankfully it mostly hangs fully now, especially as the weather warms up.

I think it might be a challenge on the soccer field this morning though. 9.00 am kick off and barely 40 degrees.

Back to big guys having size anxiety just like the average or short guys- my girlfriend has been with lots of men. I mean LOTS. The horse hung guys have it just like us average guys. There’s always someone bigger. The thing that makes your penis less attractive isn’t its size, it’s your hang ups about its size. The guys who think they’re god’s gift to women are guaranteed to be less than satisfactory. The guys who think they’re “not man enough” to please a woman are going to be right (regardless of how many inches they pack). She wants a man, she wants a cock, not your insecurities. That’s what satisfies. Be a man and she’ll love every inch of your cock. Orgasms sure to follow.

Hahaha!

In a perfect world yes, but some women struggle with the attitude of the confident man, as a man struggles with his own insecurities.

And I assure you that everyone struggles somehow, whether it be their dick, their face, thier bank account or their tits.

Agreed a-unit, but don’t let people confuse confidence, over confidence, and arrogance. Those having trouble with a confident man have other issues that go beyond the size of your penis.

A lady should accept that you have insecurities, just like you should accept that she has hers. No one should be expected to accept you defining who you are by them. Especially yourself.

Still, it’s a complicated business, this man/woman/sex/relationship thing. I’ve just found that making my #1 priority making a woman feel good about herself pays huge dividends, inside and outside the bedroom. I’ve had more sex in the last 8 months than in the last 8 years of my (25 year) marriage and I credit that one habit of mind. It sure as hell isn’t the size of my six inch cock.

Of course I still want a bigger dick, if I didn’t I wouldn’t be here! HA!

Well, its my wedding anniversary and I’m the one paying for dinner, getting flowers and a card..

Making a woman happy is like pissing in the ocean, unless there is some happiness there already, and thats rare.

My wife’s Like a joyful child when things are ok, and its awesome, and I have friends with wives like that too.but.I also know blokes with wives like sharks..

My wife rarely does things to make me happy. She is just a happy person and that thrills me. If she did try to make me happy I would worry.

I know exactly what you mean. When my wife left me for another guy who was unemployed, had less to show for his life, was not as good looking as me (others words, not mine), and didn’t share her “religious values,” it changed my perspective on what making her happy meant. I busted my ass for that woman. I changed my religion. I sacrificed things that were important to me. Never cheated. Never abused, physically or verbally. Always provided. Pissing in the ocean.

So now she’s gone, married to some other poor son of a bitch. That guy already knew what I’ve just figured out, and he wooed my wife away (thank god, poor sucker). Don’t try to make a woman happy. Forget it. You’ll never do it. Make her feel good about herself. Big difference. Ask yourself over and over “Is this going to make her feel good about herself? Is this going to create good feelings inside her?” I’m telling you there’s a huge difference.

You fix the faucet and inside she’s like “It’s about fucking time.” You notice what she’s wearing and call her from work mid day to tell her you like what she has on and it’s gonna rock your world.

Now back to the thread- is you having anxiety about your penis size gonna make her feel good about herself?

It’s probably already been posted, but:
Study: Women like a large penis, the more ample, the more appealing - UPI.com

And

Size does matter: study - ABC News

Confidence can alter the females mental state, but up to a point. A long and thick penis IS going to apply pressure to more nerve endings, and more consistently at all points of "the stroke" than an average or under average penis, and thus will bring greater sexual satisfaction to a female.

There is "average penis length/girth" and then there is "the average penis length/girth that will definitely satisfy the average female despite what we think about it" in my opinion.

As much as I’d like reality to be otherwise.

Yeah it was posted before. Way too many times for what that piece is worth.