Penis Size - A realistic view

LOL. He actually cried on several occasions when she talked about getting a reduction. I think the phrase she used was “bitter tears of regret and despair.”

Back on topic - 7 inches is a pretty damn big dick.

Seems like my gym locker room is big dick heaven. Every day there is guaranteed to be guys with massive cocks. Seems like 2 out of every 4 guys are hung.

Gravik, do you know about show-ers and grow-ers?

Best explanation of shower vs. grower I have read:

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What’s the average penis size?
by Dr. Petra Boynton
(sorry, no link, no longer on the internet)

Research shows soft (flaccid) penises vary in size much more than erect ones do - and it isn’t possible to predict from a soft cock what It’ll look like when It’s hard.

Some guys don’t change much between flaccid and erect, others do. Sometimes this is referred to as guys being ‘showers’ - they’re big when soft and don’t get much bigger; or ‘growers’ - they’re smaller when soft but then grow a fair bit as they get hard.

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yeah, like does Mandigo’s 5” flaciid indicate a 10.5” erect penis and 5” flaccid is not that uncommon.

I’m new to thunders but not new to PE. I’ve pumped clamped stretched and jelqed for at least a decade and I believe it’s exactly like body building. You get out of it what you invest into it. The gains will come but only through diligence and commitment. Only you can set your goals for length and width for your own reasons When I set mine they did seem quite distant but I eventually met them and set new ones and met them too.

Man I just want to be 7.75 and 5.75 just to see how I feels. I’ve stop watching porn because it feel like a compulsive obsession. 8 x 6 would b tha shit but 7.75 by 5.75 I would b happy and egocentric

Please try to avoid the chat speak and non-PE related acronyms. I’m noticing it in a few of your posts. It makes it difficult for translation to other languages. Thanks! :)

1- A short guy picks-up a prostitute in a bar and they go to hotel. They take off their kit and she looks down at him and tsks “Who do you think you’re gonna satisfy with That?”. He looks up at her and says “ME!”.

2- My favourite, and most uniquely 20Th Century specific saying: There’s not much use having a stretch limo if all you’ve got is a single-standard-car garage to park it in.”

3- As a homosexual, I have seen (up close and personal) many penises that have been massive all the way to tiny. There are super-girth ones all the way down to super-thin ones. Some curve and their masters hate it as well as masters who love it (see around corners with them?). I’ve had biblical fun with just about all in that selection — just making sure I’m clear that “I’VE SEEN” should not register that I’ve actually touched all that I’ve seen.
Does size matter? —- Yes and no. Every time I’ve heard a professional speak on that matter they always say “No; you can still make a baby with even a micro penis.”.. Which, of course make no sense to those asking the question in the first place.
My answer(s):
A— if it’s too-long he won’t get it all in
B— if it’s too-short his deepthroater won’t get what they want
C— if it’s too-thick his playmate won’t be able to get even the glans in his/her mouth
C— if it’s too-thin he might worry about snapping or poking holes in his partner

I feel (in honesty) too-short. I am approximately 5.2-5.4 (1 inch divided by 8) inches in length. My girth of 5.2 is want makes heads (faces, too) turn. Although it still feel smaller on any average day, it’s when I go to a bath house that I am reminded of the variant of sizes and how mine catches so much attention. If an heterosexual is reading this, I will stereotype you by thinking you do not have the same opportunity to see “the real MacCoy” in person; both flaccid and all the way to turgid states, and for that reason alone I would imagine the porn performer is your only real comparable. No, I’m not suggesting you go tub hopping like I’ve done, but maybe what I’ve disclosed from my own experiences will give you a new way of thinking. In my estimates, the average cock is around my length and almost my girth. I’m a tad skinny so maybe it looks bigger on me? Stop beating yourself up. Your partner’s real enjoyment is landing you. Period. REALLY!

And, to finish things off, if you aren’t too-squeamish to read the following:
1— to swallow a penis (deep-throat or throat/skull fuck) (can I say ‘fuck’ on here?) the receiver’s mouth on average is 4.4 inches deep .. A 5-5.4 inch dick will get right in there!!
2— a THIN dick is easier to swallow
3— a short dick can fit entirely in someone’s mouth, and possibly nuts, too.. A long cock cannot as part will be in their neck, and from experience, it’s a royal treat to find a four-inch crank on a very confidant man who whoops and hollers at the joy of being treated so well.

Joe from Guelph Ontario
(Ya, I’m a loudmouth in writing and rather quiet in talking)

Good post Joe, and another example of the gay/bi guys here injecting a little dose of reality into the site. Thanks.

42, thanks for your thoughts … I will look forward to hearing more from you.

I have to say that I don’t think that I have ever set down to invest an hour of reading and posting on Thunder’s without walking away with at least one useful pearl of wisdom.

Joe, women aren’t as pragmatic as you are about sizes, and can be outright cruel to anyone who is “short”, “tiny” or the worst, “needle-dick”.

The young girls are fighting, fighting, fighting to be young, hot and better and more attractive in comparison to their friends and will say the most callous and unguarded things in company for effect.

I know this because I have a particularly aggressive 21 year-old “hottie” step-daughter at home here and I’ve spent some interesting evenings here with my long-suffering wife listening to a gaggle of extremely drunk young girls air their laundry in our kitchen while playing beer pong or duelling shooters.

They are not kind to boys at all.

The magnet on my fridge says “boys lie and they kinda stink”, and the girls believe it.

And as they get older I don’t think they get any better.

We have to PE for ourselves and if a woman takes pleasure in our efforts, well good for them

Otherwise we get caught being needy, and they can smell that a mile off.

The way that women talk among themselves about dick is as serious as the way men talk about their “bitches.” Its one thing to talk, reality is usually a lot different.

I work one on one with women. Lots and lots of women. They tell me more than I really want to hear. Speaking honestly, almost all women will say they vastly prefer a man with a small penis and great confidence over a well hung dude with size anxiety. Size of the penis is like icing on the cake, most women will have a specific preference but its only that.

Also, many men do lie, and they kinda stink. Notice all the threads about how you should never be honest with your significant other about PE. And imagine your wife smells like a lumberjack in August at the end of his shift. You get the idea.

Ah perspective!

I work with professional women and their families, and intimately they tell me way more than I want to hear, but in my work I have to hear it.

The rape fantasies, how they would love to kill their husbands, how the gay men she socializes with are way more fun than her husband and way more sensitive to her feelings, and that she knows she could be the woman for them(!).

And yes, I lie to my wife about PE, and I sure stink after doing the landscaping, building the garage, renovating the attic for my step-son, building the deck so she and my step-daughter can get a tan ( and the extra high fence so the neighbours can’t look over ).

But then I can justify ha half hour soak in the tub!

Now I remember why I hate bigmouth North American women so much.

I hate to generalize like that but it’s been proven to me again and again, time after time.

As far as I’m concerned they can all take a long walk off a short pier.

When it is stated that the formation of a mental representation is analogues to an inductive inference a reification fallacy is committed in my view. Being told to snap out of it might therefor not be an instant remedy for everyone.