Penis Size - A realistic view

I am 16 years old and my penis is only 5” will it grow any more? I am worried

Come back in two years, demonaitor. And yes, your penis may keep growing in the meantime.

Oh dude.. You should know this forum is only for only people who are 18+. I don’t know if you can still read this but when I was between 14-16 my dick was 5” But it grew an extra inch and a bit by the time I was 19. Still 5 inches is perfectly normal. Don’t be concerned!

8, I’m going for 10.5.

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God, am I the only guy whose dick stopped growing at 16? I’ve been short changed damnit! LOL

I’m 22 and I’ve actually seen a quarter inch gain over the last year with no PE, so it’s definitely possible to continue growing naturally into your early 20s.

Mine was the same from about 14/15 (until I started hanging :D ), which is about when I stopped growing height wise as well.

This reminds me that old joke: ‘Doc, I have the penis like a 5yo kid’ - ‘Hell! 2 inches?’ - ‘Nope, 2 foots’.

I appreciate these encouraging words and threads such as this. However I am on record as being a long time believer that I am truly small or average at best. Too much physical proof out there that keeps me humble.

wda628,
You have a large unit. Simple as that. It’s big, just not OMG huge. I think most of us here want OMG huge. :)

Your perception, like mine, is warped by porn. It’s been mentioned in the previous 9 pages, but worth mentioning again: If you’re hetero, you’re point of view is likely to be only based off of porn, where they are selected for their big dicks. I’m constantly reminding myself that the big dicks I see in porn are not the norm.

If big dicks were so common, then large size condoms should be sold everywhere. They aren’t. In fact, I’ve noticed over the past few years that the places carrying the large and extra large have decreased in my area. Also the selection for large is usually only the basic condom. Compare that to the selection of the regular size - there are lots of special textures and lubes. Stores that had the extra large don’t anymore. Quite simply stores carry what sells. Factor in some guys will buy/use Magnums for bragging purposes, who have an average size penis.

I’ve been a member for nearly 10 years, and have grown on and off during that time. A long time ago, standard size condoms were fine, and I was a little too small for the Trojan Magnum, which is the only large condom available in my area. Years ago I have grown to where regular size are very tight, and prefer the Magnum. My dick would turn purple like I was wearing a cock ring, and after breaking a few it’s been only Magnums since.

As Stuzilla posted and worth mentioning again, average isn't small - it's average! Taking the results from MrAverage (The Lifestyles survey sta-kool pointed out): If you’re 5-6 inches, and and been with a woman that has been with 10 guys, odds are about 50-50 that she may not have been with a guy that’s 7” or larger. (4.5% are 7.00” or larger). Only when you sleep with a woman that’s been with 20 guys will you get a woman is likely to have had a guy that’s 7” or bigger. This means that she won’t see you as small, she’ll see you as the same size as most guys (average). Only if she is a b**** will she say you’re small, or if you corner her and ask her if she has had bigger.

The beauty is that I think 1” is attainable by anyone who dedicates themselves to it. So anyone should be able to take themselves into the upper end of average (a bit large), or a little above average (aka big). Definitely not what someone would consider small.

I think I might have mentioned it before, but it occurred to me again last night. I was looking at fleshjack.com, the gay store for fleshlight. Basically the same stuff, minus the vagina orifice. Just like they have fleshlight girls, they have fleshjack boys. The each have a mouth and ass sleeve, and a dildo, all made by molding the models anatomy.

Keep in mind, these are gay porn stars. You would expect them all to be hung like horses, but most of them are in a range a lot of TPers would call “not that big.” Not small, for sure, even bigger than average. But of the ones I noticed, nothing like 8x6. (The range (insertable) looked to be from 6 to 7.) These are guys who make a living with their dicks, if 7x5.5 is big enough to make it in porn, it’s big enough to call big.

Nice post you really made a point, but if we men watch porn and want a bigger dick and as you all know women also does watch porn they will want a bigger dick too so thanks to the brain washer porn industry we all want to have more than average

Only with an inexperienced girl who has watched porn would she possibly think an average sized guy is small. Of course after a few different men she’ll realize that most the dudes in porn are there because they have a big dick. I don’t think it’s much different than the fashion/model industry. All women are supposed to be super skinny and hot and the guys muscular with a 6-pack, better than 99% of the population knows that isn’t reality.

Remember that a big dick doesn’t always mean great sex. It’s far more important to be able to last. If you can’t last, you need to practice edging. For myself I never quite put my finger on it, sometimes I don’t last long at all, sometimes a long time. The quickest way I can summarize is that I would generally hold to near PONR, then cool down and go at it again. Sometimes I could go forever afterward and it would be hard to cum, sometimes it would only be a few minutes until I’m at PONR again. Anyways, to the point - It always seemed a disappointment when I blew too quickly. When I lasted longer, many of those times it was great sex. The women had a great time, and I had many that came back for more after a breakup. I started out at the high end of average length wise, about 6” BP, with good girth, about 5.25” or 5.5”.

It is quite true that most straight men base off their size by looking at porn. The locker room comparison is a hit and miss as showers love to show more than growers do. And flaccid size is not the best indicator of a true erection size (although there is a slight correlation). So a typical straight male would think that 7” is not as big as it really is. When in fact, 7” is above-average, meaning a guy with 7” is bigger than at least 60% of all males (if not an even greater number).

Then we have gays and girls who have personally experienced with other males. What I find interesting is that their view is biased as to what they are seeking after. If you ask a size queen, he or she is going to tell you that there are BIG ONES out there. Their reality is somewhat distorted as that’s what they want to go after. And then there are the group where eagles fly with eagles. A typical hung gay male may tend to go after another hung male; even though there are definitely exceptions as to opposite attraction, it is quite common to see gay personal ads of hung guys going after another hung guy.

To me, the reality of true average is very hard to determine. A range of average would be a better description. But even then, I find an average is best described with reference to ethnicity/race. For example, if I were to randomly pick 100 Caucasian males from Britain (just picking any places really), chances are the average would be around 5.5-6.5”. However, there may be more variances within this group—ie. out of 100 Caucasian males, 10 of them are 8”+ and 10 of them are under 4.5”. The range can differ 3-4” apart.

By the same token, if I were to pick 100 Chinese (be very specific here) males, their average penis is likely to range around 4.5-6” or less. Again, there are some Chinese males that are 7”+ and there are also some that are under 4”. The range can easily be 3”+.

However, if I were to compare Caucasians with Chinese Asians, the difference in the averages would be probably 1/2 - 1” (my best guess based on my personal experiences).

Then there is perceptual differences. A typical Chinese Asian male may be around 5’6 - 5’8, so a 5.5” penis may appear to be like 6”+ on him. Whereas a typical Caucasian may be around 5’8-5’10 in height, so the same 5.5” all of sudden appears to be small.

Anyway, I hope I have made my point.