Penis Size - A realistic view

LoL Marinera, when did your penis break and why are you letting strangers fix it? :D

I have got to say this has been an enjoyable thread to read. Stuzilla thanks for starting it.

It is great to have a thread that brings the average size penis back down to a real average size. Based on my reading/research on line I have come to believe the average is 5.9 BPEL x 4.9 MEG, which is pretty close to what this thread has agreed to, I think.

I have to agree that the comments that “I feel small” from 7x5 inch + guys tends to get somewhat annoying. Especially for guys like me that started with 5.5 BPEL x 4.25 MEG, that most would agree is below average. Just had to get that off my chest!

My view that I was below average started from my observations in the locker room at the school gym and so on. I went to school/college when the best you could get was Playboy, Penthouse, etc. No on line porn in the 70’s/80’s, so at least I was not warped by that.

Even though I thought I was below average, I was still trying like hell to get into a girl’s pants every chance I could. Not trying to get laid because of my below average size never crossed my mind, ever. I wanted to enjoy what I was given. When I was lucky, not one woman ever said anything negative about my size, at least to me. From one night stands to yearlong relationships all the feedback was positive. I got some, “you are perfect,” “you feel so good,” etc. I didn’t get any you are “big” either.

I didn’t worry about my size, only what she and I could feel together. I focused on pleasing them and “exploring” their bodies to find their unique erotic places on their body outside of the normal pussy and tits areas that drove them wild. Don’t get me wrong I sometimes enjoy just pounding away like a small porn star as well, but I really liked the exploring and trying different things as much as they would let me get away with. I believe this is what kept most coming back for more. Not the size of my dick, but how I tried to make them feel and how much they saw I enjoyed them and their bodies.

I just want to close with this: Guys don’t worry about your size so much that you are afraid to have fun with what you have. Almost everyone out there has some type of insecurity, get over it, and have fun because life is way too short.

Take care and happy gains,

Hey man, for you and any other guys with this type of psychological ED, I along with some other have been working on a cure, so come on over and join the discussion with some more essays.

For young guys with erection problems - Scienceguy’s method

This post is diamond. I arrived at Thunders with 4.5” BPEL, and am reaching near 5” by just a few hairs at the moment. To me, this is exhilarating. I have long suffered hardcore avoidance behavior due to my penis insecurities, and am now feeling like I might be on the verge of going on the pull. It’s strange to me when I see guys arriving with an average size penis, somehow with insecurities built into their mindset that they are too small. It makes me want to explain to them that I would trade my genitalia position with theirs in a heartbeat, and make something bloody well brilliant of it. It makes me realize how much of it is mentality; I have a pre-concieved idea of where I want to be in life, and in comparison to many others at Thunders, it’s very modest. This suggests to me that we’re all trying to ‘fit the glove’ of a standard we ought to be living up to, but the objectivity of it is always in question. I’m not denying that certain stats may be preferred over others by certain women etc, but so much of our true potential is held back by our limiting beliefs about the world around us.

Ahaha, no I meant looking at it with too much interest. Language barrier.

Here’s a salutary tale about the unforeseen consequences of exaggerating your penis size. ( While I kind of feel sorry for the girl involved, I’m ashamed to admit that I burst out laughing and nearly choked to death on my cuppa.)

http://www.girl saskguys.com/Se … r-ass-this.html

NB. I wanted to post this in a separate thread, but I received a message that I’m not allowed to start new threads. Have I done something wrong?

If not and the mods are in agreement, could one of them move it to a new thread?

The link seems to have stopped working for some reason. Not sure if it’s permanently down, so here’s the text, just in case.

“How do you get a condom out of your ass (this isn\’t fake, I really need help)

I told my boyfriend forever that I didn't want to do anal but he kept on giving me his puppy dog beg face. Eventually I caved. Anyways he likes to wear Trojan magnums. His d*** obviously is not big enough but I play along because it helps his confidence. With sex it's OK, sometimes it gets loose but never has fully come off, unfortunately when we did anal this afternoon, it came off. I don't know what to do, I can't get it out. I don't want to go to the doctor because it's so embarrassing!”

oh ‘fixating’. sorry should have guessed only teasing your english is good!

thanks i’ve bookmarked the thread. i appreciate you looking out.

Ninex, could you give these a read please. Thanks. Forum Guidelines

I believe the cycle theory is very accurate.

I used to have EQ problems (rarely having a full erection during sex) and not last more than 7 minutes for my first 3 months of having sex with my girlfriend, and I knew she was happy with me, but wasn’t loving the sex. Both of my problems were from me worrying that she wouldn’t be satisfied, I wasn’t big enough, etc.

I would look down at my penis and see it as small so I would try very hard to be as erect as possible, and the worry would make me half an inch smaller than I should be. My worries about not pleasing her would turn into me worrying about busting too early, and that would trigger me not being able to go very long as well.

Recently I have accepted that I was born with an average penis (6 inches), that my girlfriend loves me and would not trade me for a guy with a huge penis, and if I enjoy sex she will enjoy it more as well. Now she loves it and asks for it every day, I stay rock hard (6.25 since my first gain (: ) and I can go 20 minutes most of the time. She usually is shaking by the end of it.

I’ve never measured my thickness and don’t plan on it, I would guess i am average, but I look at my dick and believe that it is thick to boost my confidence, I really do appreciate the thickness i have even though I don’t think I am more than 5 at best. Going long and having confidence in bed will please any girl, and there is really no sense in worrying about size.

I 100% believe I will attain a 7 incher within the next year and a half, but even if I don’t I am happy with sex. Since I completely became proud of how I have sex and stopped worrying that I won’t be able to please her as much as a 7 or 8 incher, my sex life has literally become 10 times better for both of us, my gf has commented on it as well.

And i have had my doubts that the average is 6 as well, however my best friend who moved away to VA is the only kid I trust to always be honest in every aspect of life, and when he visited it the summer I told him I am 6" and he said he’s 5 3/4". Any other kid would lie and say they are at least as big as me or bigger, but this kid is 6’6" with a size 15 foot (I know penis size doesn’t correlate directly to this, but when you are as big as he is I can’t imagine having a small penis). So this makes me believe the average a lot easier.

I know it’s just one dude, but he’s the only real life person I would trust to not exaggerate, and hes too huge of a kid (big boned too, but not fat at all) to have anything less than the greater majority of average range.

No. It’s a matter of the number of posts you’ve made. You have to be a member for 14 days and make 30 posts (not start 30 threads) to be able to start threads in forums other than Newbie. You must be a “senior member” (300 posts) to start a thread in the Main Member forum (restricted to PE topics only).

OK. Thanks for that.

One more question though.

Why is the site presenting visitors with the Kinsey penis size and Definitive Penis Size Survey data on the first page and giving such weight to their results? It’s just that these surveys give quite a high figure for average length and girth and - as most here will know - are viewed with a certain amount of scepticism due to their flawed methodology.

I’m a little concerned that without making it clear that there are a number of contemporary surveys that give average size as significantly less, newbies and those that don’t follow the discussions on the subject, might be made to feel a little more insecure than they might otherwise be.

I realise that there is an attempt to make it clear that average size is not a problem for most practical purposes, but I don’t think that’s likely to reassure those who visit a site like this. By definition they are particularly likely to have concerns about their penis size. Any reassurance is likely to be outweighed by the belief that the average size is so large. (I suspect many porn stars are not that much bigger than the Kinsey figures)

Interesting post, but ray, there are those who will skip reading it, as it’s too difficult to read one long solid block of text. I went back and put some paragraph breaks in your post to make it more readable; the original is left as is in the post quoted above for comparison purposes.

Good question. Where are you seeing that exactly? (which URL?)