Penis Size - A realistic view

As I have always said. Assumptions about what is big or small will always make the thinker feel small. Everyone should speak to a most trusted female or females and get their insecurities over with.

A nicely put together description of how things are, stu.

That said, I remind all of you perverted dick pullers out there that you should be doing this for your ego and your ego only. The only reason for you to enlarge your dick should be the awesome optics when you stare at yourself in the mirror. Because what good would a bigger penis be for sex? Ejaculating doesn’t get easier that way. ;)

I love misguiding unsuspecting victims.
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Very good post. I spent a decent amount of time being one of those disillusioned guys thinking at 6 inches I was small.

100% natural girth here. 6” MSEG

BEG is 7” girth. That was the last time I measured it, before I got way better EQ as I had psychological ED.

And?

I personally believe that when we have an erection its like when a peacock displays its feathers. For that time we are proud and on display. Obviously after losing the erection there is a feeling of loss. Not only the erection, but everything that the erection represents. Beauty, masculinity, atractiveness, virility, potency, ability and all of this is connected with size because when we are erect we are bigger. I can see how not having it big all the time can have some psychological imlications during the rest of a normal non erect day. Just my 2 cents.

All very wise comments but I will PE until I´m hung like a donkey and feel confident enough to pee at the urinals.

The obsession with size

Funny. The foremost reaons I don’t pee at urinals is that it often happens that the guys at my sides starts fixing my penis; sometimes happened that they make comments too. If you think it is a good thing, you could discover the adverse.

Body dismorphic disorder anyone?

After passing 7” BPEL I didn’t see any actual change when looking. It took looking in the mirror or webcam to really see a difference. I am also a total grower. Even now if it’s cold or something my flaccid can be as short as 1” - yeah really. That’s like about 750% growth potential.

Makes the urinal still embarrassing.

Really great thread! Thanks for kicking it off stuzilla and all your excellent responses ska-kool.

Like a number of other posters, I thought I was a little girthy until I came here :P (I’m still grateful for what I have). Sex always felt really great for my all partners and me and hasn’t changed since coming here though. Shoot I’ve had ex-girlfriends try to have sex with me afterwards just because. I know it has something to do with my length, but I really think it has more to do with how I use it.

My advice for people who don’t feel like the measure up length or girth wise: experiment with different positions and angles at those positions. I’ve found some angles that cause so much pressure and friction that it’s difficult to fit in my unit in. Needless to say those special positions leave my wife sore whether we go fast or slow. In the end, your significant other is going to remember the feeling a lot more than the look of it.

One other thing you should keep in mind. As you worry about things such as your penis size, your woman is also worrying about her waist, her butt, her breasts or something else. We all have our insecurities! :)

I keep meaning to start a thread about recent sexual experiences and the disconnect between my actual size and my previous size, which I’m still used to being. I mentally know 7 inches is big, and it looks pretty big to me, but in my mind MY dick is perfectly average. I was having sex with someone new maybe a month or so ago. He made some comment about my dick, and I answered with “yeah, definitely big enough to get the job done.” He looked at me like I was an idiot and said “You know that’s a big fuckin cock, don’t you?” I was a little shocked, it fit what I know, but not the way I feel. My brain hasn’t fully adjusted yet.

Great idea for a Life, Love and Fantasies thread. I am guessing you would get lots of replies with similar stories.

this thread was a good read, almost everyone has cock insecurity, it must be human nature. biggest thing is to be comfortable with yourself, and realize that 6” really is the average… although not in here, lol.

i’ve never understood why people are nervous at the urinals. in fact, i think it’s hilarious when people purposefully don’t use one because someone would be beside them. i’ve caught people glancing at my dick at the urinal, but never had any comment… that could be a little awkward, lol.

Great post, Stuzilla. Mad Props, you da Man.
This is obviously what brought us here, right..size insecurity, evidenced by all the thoughtful member input.

Wish I could quote and respond to a lot of it-just about every post is a thought that has ran through my mind on more than one occasion.

But instead I’ll just state my own situation..

I have looked at WAY too much porn, and spent WAY too little time putting my dicks into vaginas.
These two facts are directly related. Porn definitely CHANGES you, and your outlook on your own interactions with women. I’d like to hear from ANYONE who begs to differ. That would be difficult, to conjure up how you perceived sexuality and women before getting ‘hooked’ on porn.

Damn. Just realized I started this post with the scope and ambition of an essay..

Let me just say that, I am a ‘longer’ (not necessarily LARGER) guy who has had ED several times with one night stands and I feel its because the sexual stance I’ve been taking for the past…10 years….is one of a voyeur, via porn, rather than an active participant. I feel this has warped my sexuality to the point where I have psychological ED. Haven’t had a girlfriend for a few years and few sexual encounters, and I feel this is because of my own insecurity with my size, which throws up walls between me and the female I may be conversing with.
My length is 8” and my girth is not ‘dismal’.

But you know, can’t remember where I heard it, but, I’ve been using it a lot lately: “it’s not the truth that matters, but the perception of truth that matters.” This is the core of the issue, that our perception has been tainted by watching other men who usually have bigger dicks, banging hot women.
Anyway, my essays always sucked!
But Threads like this have restored a measure of sanity, and Thundersplace.org has certainly helped me deal with the issues and restore lost EQ and maybe even then some? Keep on tuggin’, I mean truckin’…and tuggin’..

Allah akhbar
Que la paz prevalezca..