Seeing this thread topic at the homepage was like a lighthouse in a storm today. I’ve been talking about my bad EQ on my journal, but not getting much feedback. Here is my situation and the confusion that goes with it:
I was very committed to PE last summer. I had been doing it for several months, about 4 days per week. I started with the newbie routine, then slowly added longer stretching sessions, extra jelqing, AV stretches and O bends. At the height of it all last summer I was PEing (on average) 4 days a week, edging 3 days a week at the end of a jelq session, and bed fowfing at night. Despite drinking tons of caffeine and averaging 5 hours of sleep per night, my EQ was great. I would have morning wood, or delayed morning wood (up at 5am, wood at 6am), every day. I got random erections when my body thought it was convenient (right before the gym, work, etc) and my EQ with my girlfriend was great, unless I had PEed immediately before seeing her.
Then I took a big break from PE due to being over-worked, then travelling, no privacy, etc. This went from mid-October 2008 until about April 2009. Finally my life was back on track and I got back into the newbie routine. 2days on, 1 day off, like clock work. After 2 months I had seen the best growth ever, so the only thing I changed was A/V stretches now and then. These saw a drop in EQ, so I cut them back out. Since June my routine is:
10 minute warm-up.
10 minutes of directional stretching.
20 minutes jelqing at 80% with a feather-light grip, 4 second strokes.
10 minute warm-down.
After June I jumped my stroke time to 6 seconds, 200 jelqs. My EQ was bad, so I’ve cut them to 150 jelqs and 4 second strokes. EQ still bad.
My EQ has been bad for months. My flaccid hang is usually incredible and my EG has never grown faster.
But my overall EQ is awful. According to the OP, my score is an “F”. I RARELY get morning wood, never get an erection during the day, and it’s hard for me to get stay hard and get off. So it’s confusing to me. My growth rate has never been better, and my dick has probably never been bigger, but I remember what having great EQ was like, and how it speaks to overall penile health.
The biggest difference between this year and last year is my jelq technique. I used to do 40% to 80% erect, 3 second overhand strokes, and gripped fairly tight. I thought this would get me girth, but it got me nowhere.
Now, I keep my dick at 80% almost the whole time, use a reverse OK grip, and grip very lightly.
You can see my confusion, but if someone sees what I’m doing wrong please jump in. I love the growth rate, but want the penile health as well.
Sorry for the long post, but I just want all the information out there for a proper diagnosis.