I don’t use a pump for PE, but rather to produce an erection for sex due to ED (severe venous leak). Unfortunately, there is not much help to be had on the ED forums as most folks use other therapies there.
Anyway, I’ve been using a pump successfully for almost a year, but have recently been having persistent bouts of pettechia/bruising on the front left portion of the penis head. My device is an FDA approved one with a vaccuum limit of 10 HG (don’t think I get close to it) and a release button. I go very slow with the pressure increases, and do lots of double pumping (pump and release pressure, pump, etc.). However, no matter what, I cannot produce an erection without the pettechia/bruising. Generally, this goes away in about 2 days.
I do often take viagra with it, which gives me a bit of head start before going in, but I still get the side effects. With the viagra, it takes 5-10 minutes to produce and erection, without it - it’s more like 15-20 minutes (and more side effects). There is a very big size difference between my flaccid and erect penis and/or my penis just leaks a lot of the blood drawn in.
The weird thing is before this I pumped faster/more aggressively, but never got pettechia, but did get a darkening shaft, general irritation and some doughnuts. Now, I just get the pettechia and some slight discomfort (I think I need a high pressure to get a full erection w/ the device).
My girth has expanded quite a bit, and I’ve had to upsize from the smallest of the 3 inserts at the cylinder base to the largest one, and recently did it without any insert. The cylinder is 2 inches wide and I still fill the same length about 1/2 -1 inch to the end. It doesn’t resemble the “packing” pics I’ve seen. Is it possible, the cylinder is not wide enough and it’s difficult for me to produce a full erection (hence high pressure/longer time)
So my questions are, is there anything I can do to produce the erection with the device without getting the pettechia/side effects? Will I do any permanent damage if I pump with the pettechia or persistently develop it when I pump?
This is my last chance for having a sex life (no other therapies work, and will not do an implant) at the age of 31, so I’m obviously a bit concerned about any persistent problems.