Bubs:
Based on Gprent’s excellent thread
Selecting Your Cylinder Size
with a five inch girth, you should be looking at a 1.75" tube. I’m guessing that a nine inch long cylinder should be OK if you’re seven inches BPEL now and aiming for eight, although Gprent suggests two to three inches longer than your current BPEL.
I don’t know of anyone who sells a quality cylinder with a nipple adapter, rather than a female disconnect. You could use your Harbor Freight pump with a male adapter and then use any of a number of quality cylinders from VacuTech, LAPump, and so on. Both VacuTech and LAPump will sell you just the male adapter along with your cylinder purchase, or you can order it directly from McMaster-Carr (part number 5012K251 is $1.30 plus shipping and handling).
If you do that, the male adapter is barbed, so you can use the Harbor Freight pump with your Big Man’s Pump when you choose, and put the adapter in the end of the tube (but not too far, or it won’t come out again…) when you want to use your 1.75" cylinder.
I note, with a quick check online, that the Big Man’s Pump comes with three sleeves to accommodate different girths. I take it that you are using one of those sleeves; you don’t need to tell me which one you are using, but if you’re using the small, I’d definitely go with the 1.75" cylinder. If you’re using the medium, the 2.0" cylinder might work out for you if used with care, but I’d be worried about the potential for getting your balls sucked in. That’s not a pleasant experience.