Buckfever's progress report/bananaman story.

We are of similar make up to this end.

My wife laughs at my persistence.

It will always be on the menu and on rare occasions even requested as she knows I crave it.

I’ve pushed and tested enough to know she truly does not naturally enjoy it, so as we are both of equal parts in the chemistry, I tactfully push and am optimistic that through patience, persistence and high degrees tactfulness she will slowly begin to enjoy it.

The long game, like PE.

It’s a serious thing. It defies convention and still takes skill and patience to perform but it’s an entirely different thing than is generally talked about. I can point out fables that you’ll hear about it. But you’ve been there now so now you understand what I said.

Average is about an hour a day, but that includes the days off. If those are excluded it comes to ~ 1:15/day. I’ve clocked 743 hours total. Given the method that I’m doing optimal would be about 2 hour long sessions a day because that’s all the glans can take, also it seems that if I’m not getting ~ 10 sessions a week, progress stalls. Sessions close to an hour seem to work better than multiple shorter sessions. Post session fatigue seems to correlate with times of progress.

4/14/2019

68% @ 30 minutes

Just getting something in to prime things for tomorrow.

4/15/2019

100% @ 9.5 minutes

Low tension @ 6.5 minutes

Ramped up the tension too fast, saw where I’m at, decided to call it and go again later. Broken record need to favor duration and then bring up the tension.

4/15/2019

Low tension @ 60 minutes

Morning showed me what I needed to do, went right for the duration. Could “the surrender” have given me a renewed focus?

4/16/2019

68% max tension @ 24 minutes

Flat out screwed up the attachment at the glans and the discomfort was too much, thought about reloading at a lower tension but someones flight landed last night and I thought I might want to save the EQ for later.

Back to it again tomorrow boys, also starting up the summer prep tomorrow. Took a weight today only need to lose ~ 4 lbs, targeting Memorial day weekend.

4/17/2019

68% @ 62.5 minutes

Well today we got the attachment right and exerted discipline on the tension and got the 62.5 minutes. I’m coming into a time period here where I’ll be on my own for the next 2 weeks except for date night on Saturday, so it was really important to not be overzealous and get things back on track to capitalize on the privacy.

Intimacy continues to reveal new realities and responsibilities. Do not dismiss the writings of those that have gone down this path before. An enhanced instrument does not come without complications and in the heat of passion you can not simply default to baseline and think all will go well. A new set of skills will have to be acquired. I like to think of myself as skilled, but in this new reality, on occasion I am finding myself to be lacking. It is humbling. Pay attention as you go, make sure this is a path you want to continue to travel.

And this notion that it is all good for the woman is foolish. It is both good and bad and it falls entirely on you to make it mostly good. You better want that responsibility because it will be entirely yours.

The other thing I’ve been thinking about is that it is probably a good idea to be modest in your goal and adjust upwards reluctantly. The problem with this endeavor as thoughtfulgold has stated emphatically is that those that gain don’t stop.

It is very, very hard to get off that train once you’re on it.

So you have been pondering your goals then. I would like to hear more on this.

Short term goal was achieved in January and was based on a “restoration” concept. At that point I established a long term goal of adding 1” to the extender and this was based loosely on statistical observations of the upper threshold of what I have seen reached in the extender and to explore whether I would reach a plateau, which I have a curiosity about.

My long term goal has not changed, from this point it is to add 3/4” to the extender and consolidate. I will not go past this as I am running into headwinds already. I am paying attention and I have a little more room that I would like to grab but it’s not much. The problem that I’m running into is that even though I’m running a pure a length program, the girth is responding in kind. That’s what really puts the cap on it is the girth contribution to the volume increase.

You read this stuff but it doesn’t quite mean so much till you experience it.

I have read that stuff few times already and find it captivating that not so many stop right there. Still having capacity to gain and their vision locked to the prize at the end they will go on. I find your thoughts valuable as personally speaking I am not so far either from being in the situation where the ultimate goals should be reconsidered.

One of the other things and I wonder if your findings are similar, but the decision can’t be made on feedback as far as I can tell so far. Women are interesting in that they don’t want to admit that they like something for fear of being regarded in a particular way. Sometimes a protest is feigned to cover such a judgment. You got to take a mountaintop view and parse the nuance. When they softly protest something at the moment but then don’t discourage revisiting an experience, you have to see it for what it is. But functional limits, can be fairly accurately perceived and should not be ignored.

I think maybe another reason why some of us seek valid size statistics, is because what of those naturally endowed at the 95% level? They don’t just say oh well I’m just too big for sex, they learn to deal with it. From a volume standpoint it’s when we start encroaching on these levels that we need to really assess our objectives. And there is clinical documentation that this does cause problems, which I prefer as a basis rather than the anecdotal.

How Big is Too Big? The Girth of Bestselling Insertive Sex Toys to Guide Maximal Neophallus Dimensions

4/18/2019

34% @ 32 minutes

It was one of those mornings where you get an erection when the wind blows and so the attachment was compromised. The cock needs to be emptied, don’t think I can wait till date night on Saturday, we’ll see what I can arrange.

We’ll try and go again later on the extender.

Some of them women are unwilling or incapable of taking it in all entries anyway so the most traditional should be the guide.
When there start to occur complaints or difficulties more than often it should be the time to back off.

Riding around the problems can be the solution as I believe has already started. Being it then precaution as I tend to pre validate candidates if they have given birth or not. In the case having extremely large unit attached to a frame or personality not attractive enough, it would be a problem not having the opportunity to choose.

4/18/2019

Session #2:

Low tension @ 60 minutes

Not sure how smart this was because I have a hook up planned for later, I guess we’ll find out. I had the time.