JT's Progress Thread, from Day 1.

I’ve seriously thought of that! Too bad I didn’t do that or even write down my measurements at the beginning.

No reason you can’t start now!

BTW, read the directions and reviews before you do it; you only have a couple of minutes before the goo sets up. It helps to have a helper. And maybe some chemical assistance from one of the erectile drugs; lots of guys report sudden “wilt” when the cold goo fills the mold. You can buy more goo - dental alginate - dirt cheap on eBay if you mess it up, or want to make another mold later.

Hey hope everybody had a great weekend. I just wanted to stop by and say, that I tried clamping the other day! I cut a piece of the Total Man sleeve and slid it onto the bottom of my shaft, and then got more and more erect then clamped that sucker. I sat there and edged to keep the expansion for 5 minutes. And I can now see why they do not recommend this to newbies. The feeling is extremely intense and you need to be careful with this shit. But all in all a rewarding and fun experience.

Nice, I had the same idea of using the sleeve from TM instead of the cloth because I had a ton left over lmao. Sounds like clamping is working for you, keep us updated brother!

Alright guys, today I had a nice little session without porn, and got to a MAX EQ reading of 6.5” BPEL. I don’t know if the 5 minutes of clamping for the first time helped on Friday but it feels and looks like it did. It feels thicker in my hands and looks longer. Maybe my mind is playing tricks on me but, maybe it isn’t. I took a superman earlier on, in hopes to snag a proper picture but I just could not get one. Try again next weekend.

Fuck. A bad set of circumstances led me to being severely sleep deprived today and in my state of extreme tiredness I opened the porn up. Ugh. I really felt like I was doing so good. You know what, for some reason this relapse doesn’t feel as bad as the prior ones, I do not know why. Still would have rather done without it but today is a rough day for me.

The gleaming light in this whole journey so far is this. For the first time in YEARS, I am looking down at my dick and being turned on by what I see. Minor gains sure. A 1/4” is making a bigger difference than I thought it would. The veins coming out of it more than they ever have before. The increased blood flow. A much thicker and full semi erect state. I just feel good. It’s been years guys. Since the night one of my exes yelled the words “get that small thing out of here.” But that’s a story for a different day.

Approaching 19cm BPFSL. Life is a god damn rollercoaster but at least we got family, friends, good health, and PE.

Slightly raising the weight this week. I think I might have to do a forced decon starting this friday. I have someone coming to live with me for a week or so. Maybe I will spill the beans about PE to her to see how she reacts. Tough situation.

2.65 lbs cold 3 mins
3.18 lbs cold 3 mins
3.71 lbs cold 3 mins
4.24 lbs heat 30 mins
4.77 lbs heat 30 mins
5.3 lbs cold 10 mins

Now the weight is barely increasing here, but I can still very well feel the stretch in my penis so, I do not see a reason to go crazy.

If she questions why you want more length, tell her to look at the Kama Sutra again. Some of those positions require a monster schlong if you’re going to do more than tickle her labia.

This is where I am coming from. I have spent a lot of time reading a lot of posts and progress reports etc… It seems like the absolute best gains and enjoyment from this process will come from being able to involve your partner. I want that level of openness with her. It’s about opening a new level of vulnerability and allowing us connect on a new deeper level, while hoping it does not backfire.

Had negative PIs today for the first time in a while. Today I was turtled more than usual. Only thing I changed was the weight. Also I started using the sleeves that came with the Total Man hanger and I am getting a much better stretch. I have to say this guy makes some quality stuff. I think this might be relating to the very hard dieting I am currently doing, but not sure. Going to monitor and see how I wake up tomorrow. Morning wood has been lacking too.

Update… I told the girl about PE today. I plan to have her assist me in my clamping routine on the weekend. I am… ecstatic and honestly at a loss for words. Every since I got into PE I knew I would want to have the girl I am seeing intimately involved. I will report back with an update.

As for my negative PIs, today it was much sorted out. I think I was going too heavy during the cold warm up. So I went back to my original cold weights, and increased for the heated and final portions. Much better. I also munched on about 10mg of cialis and started supplementing with Citrulline. Things are good.

Just a word of advice. Just take it slow try not to look obsessed. Do some PE work on the DL. Too much time on yourself might be a turn-off to her. Find that balance it is so worth it. Get her to do some edging with you. Edge solo and mutually. There is so much fun to be had. I am excited for you! You go brother!

Thank you! I appreciate it. I see it in 2 ways here, I could take a decon from hanging while she stays with me, because I am due for one anyways. My plan was just to get her to help me with edging while clamping, so I would only be doing PE 5 to 10 minutes a day when she is here. I think that would be okay.

You might point out it’s a structured program like a gym workout, not just beating on your dick like some kind of nutter. Put your equipment away when you’re done, then engage her in something she’s interested in. You don’t want to cross the line between not hiding it and making her feel like a spare wheel.

If she’s going to help with clamped edging, you might want to have her start with a very light touch instead of a porno style fluff job. At least for me, touching is downright painful past a certain (low) point.

For hanging, she might be interested in watching once, but after that, bo-ringgg. Taking a break might be the reasonable thing to do.

Good luck!