However, the backside of this is that I can’t feel completely unencumbered to seek my own goals when I am constantly giving advice and consoling others about their sizes, goals, traumas and trying to keep them motivated to start PE to begin with. You can’t tell people that start at 5.5x5.25” about your goals to reach past 9x6” in good conscience. All many guys here see in me is legendary pornstar status. So I tend to silently contemplate my own goals and contemplating public the mentality to reach them and the end game that comes with it. But I seldom speak on the numbers themselves. I don’t want to alienate anyone. I remember the intimidation I used to feel when I would read about The Big Bib gainers or the PE gym guys and part of it was why I wasn’t active in the community for so many years after I left the X4 forum. I don’t want to make myself less approachable or make it to where people don’t know how to deal with me because I have a long history and PE and very large goals and an incredible level experience so that I can seek them. I begin to surmise that this feeling of guilt is likely why most people beyond 8.5x6” are no longer active anymore.
As a newer member at the beginning of my PE journey, I respectfully disagree.
You said “You can’t tell people that start at 5.5x5.25” about your goals to reach past 9x6” in good conscience.”
To me, this is more motivating than anything else.
Why? Because it shows that PE gains are only limited by time, level of commitment, and how in tune one is with their own body.
If you put in the time, have a near obsessive level of commitment, and know your body well enough to switch up your routine, you will gain. Period.
Nothing says this better than the guy who has already gained a ridiculous amount and keeps on gaining.
Keep posting. Share your goals. There is nothing to feel guilty about.
Well, unless you stop posting. Then you would be doing us all a disservice :)
