Reflections and Progress: thoughtfulgold

I have it scheduled. My father had it done.

Be that as it may. You are a thoughtful intelligent man, you have a monster cock, you’re good in bed AND you like her. I mean seriously what were you expecting? You might as well be a fucking unicorn.

Interesting you started doing this DIY Coolsculpting right now. For the past few weeks I’ve been researching it, and right as I decided to pull the trigger and spend a ton of money on it, I saw your thread. Now I’m trying the DIY approach too. I started by taking a ziplock and filling it with water, and freezing it. Then I just laid it straight on my fat pad. After about 15 minutes, once the skin was very cold, I placed a thin shirt in between the ziplock and my skin to prevent frostbite. I left it on, with slight pressure from my hand, for 1 hour 45 minutes. Next time I do it I’ll lay one or two weights on top, and go for 2 or 3 hours.

I like ice water cuz it’s above freezing but cold enough for a deep chill without calibration.

I almost spent the cash on it till I saw someone mention DIY and I jumped at it. The coolscuplt tech was cute but not hundreds of dollars to chat cute lol

She really likes me. But I’m nobody’s unicorn. All I can do is wait and see what she does.

I don’t want to take this down a rabbit hole and I don’t deny your premise because it does make a difference and it does have an effect but I don’t think it’s just that. More and more the social narrative is discouraging to men of agency, yet years of evolution have set the hard wiring. It’s a rare deal now for a woman to experience the whole package so it’s quite impactful.

And I do appreciate your humility, but only because I believe it to come from a position of strength. The question we need to answer is: “Are we good or are we afraid?”

Most of us feign goodness when really we’re just afraid of being revealed.

Hey TG, turns out I don’t have a hernia, thanks for your advice though, appreciated!

I was wondering if you’ve ever tried “wrapping for girth” with ace bandages or something, and I mean tight! I can’t find cable clamps anywhere, and hose clamps feel too dangerous for me right now, might get too excited and worked out and not find the good timing to unscrew it with my other hand using a screw driver, do you recommend such a thing?

Ace bandages for what you’re asking about are worthless. They can’t substitute for a clamp. Additionally, if you were set on hose clamps there are some that come with a key attached that don’t require a tool at all. But…it is dangerous and if you don’t have experience I wouldn’t recommend it.

If you need routine advice, start a thread. Your questions, while they are good, aren’t relevant to my progress log and would see more views if they were a standalone topic.

Women want men of agency, when they use their agency for the goals of the women in question. Otherwise the willful and determined man is seen as stubborn and small-minded because he doesn’t agree with the women.

I am not good, I am honest and straight-forward. I have my slices of bad inside of me, I have my own flaws and I’m certainly no saint. But I keep things straight and real. I leave the moral contortions to those who have the luxury for them. I don’t feign good. I know I’m bad. I just do what it is I set out to do.

Morals aside, I’m glad you’re putting that tool to good use my friend. A unit your size, combined with stamina and technique, is apparently a devastating combination to your new lady friend. All I can say is enjoy TG, all the best.

Thank you for the sentiment.

You wouldn’t believe some of the things she’s said. Ego is certainly not starving for love right now.

My size was only the starting point. Working my fingers for a couple hours made her cum till she tapped out. Which is my favorite thing.

The understanding I have of PE is going to net me the penis I desire. I have played the long game on glans calculations and they bore out here: Post sessions on 1-23-2019 LG Hangar/Glans Theory

So my goal of creating a wider and longer glans is in progress. Additionally, bundle hanging is reducing my curve appearance. Also, girth is affected positively by this hanging so I’m just stoked all around. My perfect penis is only a matter of time away now.

Power to change my Destiny was inside all along. I just needed to draw it out.

Good sex is a powerful responsibility. But sometimes you need to exercise it to make sure who you are with understands with whom they are dealing. Doing this knowing the relationship is doomed…may not be as fair to her but it will be the maximum amount of orgasms until the very end of this ride. Just to pay her back for passive aggressiveness.

The gift of spiteful orgasms is double-edged. There is no one motivated like someone for revenge and no one will do it like I do. I had to make this choice. Because being forced or coerced dud not suit me. And I thought she was better than a childish attempt at manipulation.

Lord knows I should be sleeping, but since I’m up.

I guess it’s how you view the passive aggressiveness. I probably don’t get granular enough but for the most part I view it as play - an invitation to exert masculinity. So exerting dominance in such a scenario, is hardly spiteful. Why not frame it as a proud expression of invited masculinity?

And also I would give the benefit of the doubt regarding “childish attempt at manipulation”, when more often than not it’s a hard wired testing of the dominance hierarchy and it’s mostly unconscious They don’t really know what the fuck they’re doing, no need to take it personally, IMO. To me it’s a cue to consider what kind of fun I’m going to have. What selection off the menu I’m going to chose to partake in, LOL.

All that said if she pushes you off, I would ask her if it was too much and if she says she needed to catch her breath, I’d give her a few moments. No reason we can’t ravage a women and remain gentlemen.

You oversimplify without context. I told her my relationship intentions. She regularly drops hints of dissatisfaction without context and baits an argument but backs down to generate guilt. I am not a one-woman man, she is a one-man woman and her antics are to remind me she is this way and doesn’t approve of any relationship with a man who isn’t monogamous.

I view it pretty plainly. It’s pretty straight forward. Everything is not an invitation to show masculinity as an ideal gentleman.