I've cured my premature ejaculation

Saw the doctor this morning and he basically wouldn’t prescribe a SSRI, he said I can try this list of other useless things(all of which I’ve tried before) then maybe come back in a month and even then I doubt he’d subscribe it. Just says it’s not what the drugs are licenced for and that’s that really.

Therefore, if anyone knows of any good sites where things like this have been purchased before, please drop me a PM. :) I’m not going to just forget about this method now thanks to a narrow minded old doctor, who just wanted to feel me up.

And you can’t go to a different doctor?

Well I am not registering with a different surgery, although I guess I could see another there. Fairly sure exactly the same would be said, everyone’s got their head’s up their own arses here. Ordered some stuff online anyway, pretty sick of it all.

And you are aware of the possible side-effects etc? Suicidal thoughts (and even actions) are linked to Paxil - so beware of how you fare during the start phase (first 2-4 weeks or so). Don’t do any start-stop shit, as I’ve stated before I think it’s great that these things exist, but they are not meant to be played with.

What dosage are you planning to go on?

Thanks for your concern with this. I feel I know a fair amount about the side effects, for a start I’ve read all 38 pages of this through a few times, and have checked out a few other sites. I have ordered 10mg and 20mg tabs of paxil, planning to stick the 10mg out for the first 4weeks or so and see what happens, if that seems to have no effect I can try the 20mg tabs.

But you are right, the potential problems mean they shouldn’t be toyed around with and that is not my intention. In fact I still plan to be back at the doctor’s in a months time as mentioned above, and hopefully then knowing that I went ahead without him (I mentioned I might), he can offer more advice on the subject or at least take it seriously.

1. No, I was still taking the pills while I saw my girlfriend.
2. I was on 50mg Kingloft (Sertraline).

But referring to your original post…

Nevertheless, I was on the pill for six weeks, and I still couldn’t get past the two-minute mark.

I think, however, being able to last two minutes was enough for me to practice edging (instead of like 30 seconds, which seemed somewhat silly and pointless to practice edging — having to stop very 20 seconds or so). Still, I thought I would see a much better improvement, but I didn’t.

Also, my biggest question remains (either on the drug or not):
I don’t think my unit goes through a phase of being “medium-aroused”. It is either in its initial arousal stage (right after it gets hard), or it is ready to blow. Any thoughts on this?

Yeah, ok, but I think you should try again, with Paxil this time.

I have the same issue, you’re miles away from cumming, then all of a sudden, it’s imminent! Edging does help you learn to recognise that middle ground. Also maintaining an errection for half an hour, where you are just stimulating yourself enough to stay errect but no more than that, seems to help me get used to spending time in the middle ground.

Dude, I would not recommend you going on Paxil without a doctor coaching you. I would say it’s too dangerous. Just ask for a different doctor at the surgery.
I’m in the UK and the doctor I went to was fine about it. Did you print off the info from the web to support your request? (and I don’t mean pages from this site, I mean medical journals and such)

Yep I did, he didn’t even look at them. He just mentioned various natural ways to get around the problem (yes all tried 1000’s of times before) and funnily enough, even pointed me towards the “non perscription” drug Dapoxetine. I knew the name was familiar when he mentioned it, but little did I know it was the SSRI with a shorter time of effect and still awaiting FDA approval. How very useful.

Maybe I will try another doctor there next week, it was even mentioned that a certain one had quite an interest in this kind of field, although once what I ordered gets here I will start on that, assuming the next doctor will not help either.

Robtor, did you go to see a urologist? If not maybe you try him because they have knowledge in the field of premature ejaculation.

I have had this feeling when over trained from PE, or after masturbating several times in a day, where it seems I can’t get hard, and then get hard just to cum. It seems to be a symptom of ED as well, where guys, who can’t get hard, blow as soon as they do. There must be some biochemical explanation to this, but I don’t know it.

Thanks for the various info, great thread.

I took Paxil (30-40mg) for SAD(social anxiety disorder) excessive shyness years ago. It took away all my libido and an erection was totally outta the question! With mild ED at the time, it killed it down to 0! But I was not shy no more !

I’ve been trying to take my Paxil in 15mg dosages for about the last couple of weeks. Most of the time it ends up being anywhere from 12mgs to 18 mgs depending on how that half of pill splits. Monday night it seemed to do the trick because I was able to go for about 15 minutes or so and really had to try hard to climax. But I was on top for the first time in several encounters so I was able to control speed.

She loves to be on top so the real test will come the next time that happens.

Thanks for the feedback.

This problem existed even before I started PE (the exercise). In fact, this has always been the way my dick behaves.

I have also heard of some extreme case of premature ejaculation where a person would ejaculate even before his penis get hard. That has happened to me a few times. It wasn’t completely flaccid, but maybe around 60% erect or so. You could imagine the embarrassment.

I agree. I didn’t see my regular family doctor for my premature ejaculation. I just searched for an urologist in my area and booked an appointment with him instead.