I've cured my premature ejaculation

how about trying 15mg?

Have you started taking your daily dose in the early evening rather than in the morning? So your peak effectiveness is timed for sex?

I might try to start fragmenting the pills to see what that does. I’ve been taking mine about 3pm.

No, not that I recall - just the positive ones of being more energetic and appetite for life. Sleep was disturbed back then, and is this time too.

One side effect that could be considered negative - my mind is constantly churning with ideas, I have a hard time relaxing and just dropping it.

Would just like to thank the main contributors in this thread, I’ve read through it a few times and have finally decided to print off some of the linked documents and head to the doctors with them tomorrow. I have PE badly and things like edging, even with a fleshlight STU unit haven’t really helped much.

Fingers crossed and I’ll let you know how this goes. The ironic thing is, my PE is making me pretty depressed at the moment so this really kills two birds with one stone. :)

Robtor,

Let us know how it goes. I’m in the same boat as you still and always looking for people with positive results.

A caution:

I kind of stopped taking my Zoloft 50mg abruptly just to kind of change things around. Probably shouldn’t have done that because I gave my body some roller coaster ride. I going back on. The reason why I stopped taking it was because I didn’t want my body to be totally dependant on it. But it’s been a month now so I’m going back on it. Also I usually do a detox every year so… But I had not gone back to my minute man status.

Don’t anti-depressants have all sorts of undesirable side effects apart from lost of sex drive.

Hate to be a Debbie Downer but,

Paxil is highly addictive isnt it? And it has huge side effects and I know a guy who cant get it up because of it and tried to kill himself because it made him suicidal.

Dont really know much about it though

Brad and Wad, you are both correct to be concerned about negative side effects. SSRI’s are potent drugs and there are many undesirable things that could happen from haphazard recreational use. They are designed for people with deppression, not just for guys who want to fuck a little longer. For most guys it probably isn’t worth the risk, and for those with serious P-Ejac problems, it may be worth it, but should be done with a physician’s help.

Also, your concerns have been discussed in depth earlier in this thread.

Addictive is not the right term - there is no diminishing returns on the effect of SSRI’s in the sense of drug use. But you DO alter brain chemistry, and that is no small matter when you go on or when you go off.

Side effects vary a lot from person to person, and also from medicine to medicine.

Maybe you should check more of a 36 page thread before posting, considering half of it is about side effects. ;)

I think it’s something most “normal” people won’t understand, but bad PE really really effects my life at the moment. Imagine the fear of being with a new girl and yet cumming even before penetration, or literally a few seconds later. This makes it awkward to even hang out with females, I’m not a bad looking person and do get offers of intimacy but I have to shy away from them, often with a pathetic excuse. I’ve had 2 long term girlfriends, both of which were virgins which gave me a bit of a chance to get better, as they didn’t have a clue what was going on. Once used to a girl, fine it goes from 0 seconds to 20 or 30 or something.

Fine a lot of this will come from within my head, which is partly the reason I am going to the doctor to try and get an SSRI rather than a dodgy internet site, but I am willing to put up with many of these negative effects just to feel half decent about myself and actually have a reasonable intimate moment with my current object of desire. Small dicks, fat bellies, one leg longer than the other, don’t really come to close to that of major PE in my opinion, and those in a similar situation will agree I’m sure.

That wasn’t a whine post, but maybe helps explain why people such as myself would happily, and are desperate to, sink to such measures as SSRI’s.

Yes SSRI’s are pretty serious drugs. But the dose required for Prem Ejac treatment is less than half of the smallest dose for depression. So the side effects are toned down a lot compared with those experienced by people taking it for depression on much higher doses.

The side effect we use is delayed ejaculation. Those taking it for depression (much higher dose) may not be able to cum at all and may not be able to get an errection either. BUT that is the very side effect that we are looking for. We just want a very thin slice of it, which seems to work quite well.

When I was researching a cure for my prem ejac, I thought what is the opposite of prem ejac. It’s delayed ejac. So I searched for that and found references to it on SSRI help sites and in threads here too.

I concur with KG. I believe hat you should take a small dosage of an SSRI. Go to your urologist not your psychiatrist.

I’m gonna try a combination of 5-HTP and SJW to see if it has any effect. I tried SJW on its own before with no luck but I’ll see how this works. If it doesn’t, then I’ll take the next step to Paxil.

tmar, I’m pretty sure I’ve read posts by people on this forum who have tried that without success. I’m fairly sure it won’t work.

I’d save the time and money if I were you and skip straight to Paxil, which is about as guarenteed as you’ll get to a quick fix.