Painful Sex for my Sweetie: Why Do You And I Want To Be Seven Inches in Girth?

Good to see you, Mr. Happy!

Since I started PE, I’ve gained about 1.1” length and 0.9-1.1” girth. I’ve also discovered the wonders of liquid Cialis! By far, the girth is the bigger contributor to the bulge than the length.

These may not sound like huge gains, but they’ve taken me from a point where I felt I needed to buy pants that accentuated my bulge (just to avoid looking like a micro-dick) to a point where those same pants are a little too revealing.

The jelqing, especially combined with my use of liquid-C, gives me a really stupendous hang. I think things may shrink down a bit once I stop my current round of PE, but right now I’m more than a little self-conscious. I catch myself in the mirror and see a guy with a big dick. It just doesn’t look like me!

My most recent round of PE, started about 3 weeks ago, has gotten me an additional 1/8” or slightly more in length, and just a smidgen in girth. My routine is straight jelqing and stretching. I do about 1/2 hour of each. I stretch every way possible but focus mostly on A and V-stretches. The jelqs are intense—1 to 2 second strokes at high rep rate, with variable erection level. I throw in some good squeezes and try to get super hard before I warm down. Warm down consists of light jelqing, as I let the blood slowly drain from my penis.

You would probably know if you were alienating or offending anyone. If you feel comfortable around other people, can joke around and enjoy their company, then they are probably OK with it.

Like Mr A said, how a big dick is received is largely a matter of how you wear it. If you strut around thinking you’re just so much sexier than other people, you’re bound to elicit a bad reaction. But if you’re oblivious, modest, or generally unintimidating, people may not take notice or care.

Thanks…good overall progress.

Yeah, liquid C in my opinion shows you what your connective tissue size (tunica,ligaments) is without smooth muscle contraction. I’ve come to believe most of the shrinkage is smooth muscle contraction, unless you’ve used enough force to inflame the connective tissues…which I think takes a lot.

I’ve been wearing jeans, not really tight ones, just normal loose fitting jeans and I wear briefs too. I have a pretty decent flaccid hang 5-6” and my dick goes down my pant leg. All in all I have a pretty good bulge, definitely bigger than the average guy, and it’s cleary dick shaped in geometry.

I’m around a lot of people and I catch lots of girls looking, guys too, and some girls I catch looking many times—guys too. It hasn’t seemed to alienate anyone. I seem to be on good terms with those around me. I can’t help enjoying that they’re looking. It seems to me that gals wear low cut tops and tight pants, etc. That doesn’t alienate most guys I know. What’s the difference if I wear a bigger than average flaccid and it shines through a bit?

Ddog

There’s no problem at all if you like it and others don’t seem to mind.

The issue with me is that I’ve always been able to hide my bulge. Now, it’s getting to a point where it’s really hard to do.

To some extent, Levi’s has come to my rescue with 550 Relaxed jeans. They are definitely minimizers! On the other hand, the jeans I usually buy from Costco make it look like I have a softball stuffed down my pants.

I just read this entire thread, I’ve been on travel for awhile. I have stopped any type of girth exercise. I am at 5.8 and was shooting for 5.75 so that I can cement at 5.5 and I think mine looks really huge, but there are sacrifices with large girth. Yes sex is one of them. Some women can take fat ones and some can’t. My wife gets sore even with good foreplay and she can’t use any type of lube because she ends up with yeast infections. I feel teeth during blow jobs and I love to get blown. She says it is to big for her mouth. Let me tell you, when you are my age, 45, and you all of a sudden feel a sharp tooth, you can go limp very quickly. It can seriously ruin the moment, but the goes for her during sex with the girth rubbing her vaginal walls to soreness. My wife is a 44 year old petite women. My goal was 7 X 5.5 which has met and surpassed. Here is the kicker, I stopped girth exercise and only do clamp pulls for only 15 minutes a day, I continue to grow in girth even if I don’t want to. I no longer want a fat dick, I want to have fun again. My goal is now 8 X 5.5 and to stay there.

Congratulations TNT. Its great to reach goals. Tell us more about that feeling of filling your wife up girth wise. That is what we men want and what I felt that Sunday with an engourged dick. What I want is that feeling all the time giving heed to good lube and all the advice I got on this thread. In time, I think my wife will become adjusted to a bigger dick and learn to enjoy it. Its just not going to be the seven inch girth dick I thought I wanted for myself and for my sweetie. That dream is gone.

I weighed the risk of surgery and found them acceptable and cost is relative to one’s income I guess. For me it was inexpensive for others it might be prohibitive. As to more girth the “comments” I have received is what instills in me the desire for even more so sorry Dr. Phil…errr I mean Mravg, but your presumption was wrong.

As to the “monsterous surgically enhanced” nonsense. I was way above average before and there is truly no difference in what method one uses, clamping, jelqing, pumping, surgery whatever so you can let the surgery comments rest as we ALL here are doing what each of us feels is the BEST for THEM to enhance their size.

if you don’t like/want surgery that’s cool but you sound so petty by throwing that little jab in there.

As to do I feel what I have done is positive? Hell yes. Every time I get a positive comment from the woman I am with it makes me happy.

Again I have discussed the girth issue in person with woman and even with a third party who is a member of this site. these are mature, grown, intelligent women who had no reason to lie and certainly not the type to say whatever to make me feel good.

Again of all the men here I am in a unique situation in which I was able to go from over 6 inches girth to over 7 in a short time and was able to ask women their opinions.

As to hundreds of women that was before my surgery. In the last two plus years since my surgery it’s been about 3 dozen different women and about 6 or 7 women who I had dated before.

In reference to mind blowing orgasms I never said it wasn’t possible for average men to make a woman feel good or have orgasms I just was making the point, whether you want to admit it or not, is that that same women most likely would get off even more with a bigger girth penis and AGAIN I have done the experiment so to speak.

I didn’t intend my comment as a little jab. “Monsterous surgically enhanced unit,” was just my way of referring to your dick, the subject of discussion. “Monsterous”, which would be taken as a compliment by most guys if referring to their dick, and also appropriate for 7+” girth, and “surgically enhanced” as a statement of fact.

I don’t give a shit how you got your girth. If you think that surgery is no different than any other method of gaining girth, then you shouldn’t be so sensitive if someone mentions it.

Who wouldn’t like to have a monstrously enhanced unit?

I don’t see how that is a jab. My current length is perfect, I’m bottoming out, hitting the right spots. My wife told me no more length work but do really concentrate on girth.

If surgery was an option for me, if I could afford it, and if I knew it wouldn’t leave me deformed - and would last, not reabsorbing I’d get it done.

Sadly, all I’ve heard about girth surgery, much like PE girth gains, it isn’t permanent. Why start giving her the 7” girth she wants then shrink up again.

Girth gains from PE ARE permanent I don’t know where you’ve gotten that information from. You just have to cement the gains so they aren’t lost.

My wife hurts at 5.5 in girth.

Interesting, I keep reading how girth gains eventually fade away if you stop and don’t at least do maintenance. How about surgical gains? Are they not really reabsorbed eventually?

The feeling of filling up the Wife girth wise is great, but my feeling of her filling pain during the last part of sex is not a good feeling but a feeling of concern for her. I thought my Wife would get adjusted from when I started, but it hasn’t happened. If I can cement at 5.5, I would be happy cause this was just right for both of us. Who would have thought .3 inches would make a difference in the tolerance factor of a vagina during sex.