Hello Everyone!
I am so glad I have found this website/forum! I have finally decided to get a handle on my PreE. I have had my condition for almost 18 years (I’m now 32). I’m married and I now wish that I had taken care of this long ago. Back then however, it was thought that it would get fixed with experience.
The OP has a lot of great information. Most of this makes perfect sense, however I have some questions. Being that guru5311 hasn’t logged in over 1 year I’m not sure if he’ll respond any time soon. So if anyone who has seen progress or anyone with insight could help that would be great!
Here go a few questions I have regarding how to track our progress.
1) I’ve started tracking my edging time. I track two times. One being my overall time (from initial stroke to end stroke). The second time I track is how long it takes me to reach my peak before PONR. My goal is to see the latter number increase. Am I doing this right? Does anyone else track their progress in this way?
2) While edging and I stop before I reach my PONR, is there a time limit on how long I should wait. Meaning, if I wait too long, let’s say 3 minutes will this become counterproductive?
3) What is the “trick” from transitioning edging success to actual sex? I experienced 20 minute edging in the shower success about 2 years ago, but then when I had sex with my wife, it was like NOTHING changed. What is my goal in making our goals transition?
4) For anyone who has overcome PreE, are the results permanent? Meaning If I workout for a year and build up my muscles but then stop suddenly over time I will get weaker. However, if I have tumor and I get surgery and have it removed, I’m most likely “healed”. Which one is edging success like? I’m trying to see if I’ll have be edging every day for the rest of my life in order to keep my progress
5) Lastly, in the OP and also in other comments, stretching and yoga have been mentioned to help increase stamina. What yoga positions or stretches should I be looking to do that specifically target the pelvic floor (or whatever will help with my stamina). I’m assuming stretching my triceps won’t help lol.
I hope I haven’t asked any redundant questions that are answered elsewhere. If so someone please point me to them.
Thank you for reading. I look forward to some replies.