How I cured my SEVERE premature ejaculation

Hey Guru.

Got any good pointers for locating/stimulating the prostate? I trided to put a finger up my ass while edging the other day, but it didnt felt good at all. It was actually really painfull, my erection faded and my EQ has been shit ever since.

Wow dude sorry to hear it didn’t go so well. I wouldn’t recommend doing too much at once. When I tried the prostate thing I laid on my back, put my my knees into my chest and went that route. I wasn’t doing anything else.

Trying to locate/stimulate the prostate AND edge at the same time could be overwhelming and won’t allow you to focus on two things at once. Hope this helps and good luck.

I’m still having issues periodically with cumming to quickly… I haven’t been edging like I should. I was kinda hoping it was a mental thing and took a few days off from thinking about anything sex related and PE as well. I tend to always worry about cumming too fast when me and my gf engage sexually, and it happens every time I do that. Maybe I need some hypnosis or something. =)

What up BigD?

I know where you are coming from! I really can’t stress enough how important edging is. Once you become super confident with edging and just KNOW that you can control yourself it will 100 percent transfer over to sex. Remember man, RELAX. :)

Remember your breathing with both edging and sex. I started to notice major results in sex control when I could edge for whatever amount of time and have NO problem stopping withing cumming. Good luck brotha!

Interesting thing happened. I posted earlier about having premature ejaculation in my wet dreams..well last night I had a wet dream but no premature ejaculation for the first time ever! haha weird but something must have changed for this to happen. I put it down to kegels over the past month or so, even though my kegelling has been inconsistent.

Thanks Guru! Heck, I don’t know what the problem is… sometimes sex is hard to get from my chick. My girlfriend is extremely insecure about her body, even though she’s 116 lbs and works out every day, she’s a little hottie to say the least. I’m a hornball, so if we bump up against each other, I’m ready to go!! I think a lot of my problem is I get so worked up to have sex, and she makes me wait till later in the day, or the next day, and I just get too damn excited when the time finally comes. Kinda weird, I’m 34 years old, and should be past this!! I went two years without sex during the last bit of my marriage and the divorce, so I’m gung ho about pussy right now. I’m going to try and just break myself from craving sex all the time and let her be the one to initiate it from now on. Maybe that will reduce the anxiety and help with my problem. We had sex Saturday morning, which was the first time since last weekend… of course, I blew my load too early, because she started moaning and saying “yes” over and over. When she starts makes noises, it’s extremely hard for me not to cum if we haven’t had sex in a week!! But on the flip side, we had sex yesterday and it was great!! She came after like 3 minutes, and it takes so much weight off when you know your girl has been satisfied!! So at least I had the opportunity to redeem my confidence somewhat after the “quickie” with a nice 20 minute session. I even had some size comments which included “felt like you were hitting my ovaries”, which is always nice to hear =) I let her finish me off orally… nothing like laying back and relaxing while a chick slowly sucks you off… it was so good, that my toes went numb when I filled her cheeks. We cleaned up, filled our wine glasses, and then grilled some steaks and chilled on the patio. Couldn’t have asked for a better evening!

Dude AWESOME! I definitely agree that it is the kegels. I think I might have posted earlier in the thread that this also happened to me. Hope all is going well Cruxx, cheers!

BD,

SICK story! Your end goal should be to make that happen EVERY time. :)

Once again man edge, edge, edge and then edge some more. I remember when I got to the point where I could edge by myself for a long time, but still lost control with a girl. Just takes time is all. Stick with it brotha and I KNOW you can do it.

Side note, have you been doing your kegels? I would recommend adding those to your routine since you have been working for a while. Cheers!

Yup, I’ve been doing kegels whenever I’m sitting around and think about it… both normal and reverse, usually just the quick 1 second hold and release, for 50 times. I’ll do that anywhere from 5 to 10 times a day. I just tried kegeling during sex this past weekend, and it seemd to work, but then I got clumbsy in the doggystyle position and hit it one stroke too many… it was embarrasing… I’m surprised she hasn’t kicked me to the curb yet (knock on wood)!! I hope she will give me time to get over it. When we first started dating, the sex was fantastic, but it’s definitely been slipping lately. I’ve got to get some spice back into it, or I’m afraid she’ll move on.

I feel like i am taking the cheats way out. I went to the doctor to ask about Tramadol as it is supposed to be effective in delaying PE if taken a few hours before sex. Hopefully get a prescription in a few weeks once they have found out if its ok to give to me.

I am still trying to incorporate all the ideas learned here but just think that if there’s medication that can help stop this faster then its worth a shot.

Let us know if it works.

I agree!! Give us an update if you try this stuff!! Since I have sinus trouble most of the time during the spring/summer months, I have an excuse to take the sinus meds that contain Phenylephrine HCI. That stuff works great at reducing the urge to cum too fast, and sometimes (for me at least) it makes it really hard to get an orgasm. I definitely want to cum, but I’ll temporarily trade an easy orgasm for the opportunity to continuously grind my girlfriend for longer than 4 minutes straight without having to stop and gather my sensations. Actually, when I finally get that orgasm, it’s usually very intense.

I’d like to add though, for the past three weeks or so, I’ve had much better control of my sensations. I’ve been edging a lot and trying not to cum by masturbating. Thankfully my girlfriend is letting me have “it” three/four times a week now to compensate for the lack of solo orgasms. =D

You guys do realize Tramadol is a strong painkiller and that is an understatement. It pretty much knocks you down pretty soon after you take that.

I didn’t.

Yea i know its a painkiller but people who take it for this use take much larger doses than needed for PE so i don’t think the effect will be as much. People have had success with it and not had any side effects on their dosages. I don’t think its the ultimate solution and it does have its definite drawbacks. I haven’t been back to get a prescription yet though but still think its a good option.