Join the challenge! Porn detox!

I think there should be “shock” Therapy for people addicted to porn.give them electric shocks when watching porn, and having a woman give them a blow job every time when they see rainbows and fluffy bunny rabbits on TV. This should help desensitize men from porn!

With the exception of five topless pics viewed in the dive, I have been porn free since November 21st! It feels great to not be using women anymore for my own selfish purposes. With God’s help, I intend to remain porn free!

way to go quick beam. I’ve experimented a bit with limited porn viewing the past month, and have to so I’ve decided there is no such thing. Back to 100% porn free for full benefits. :D

It’s been about two months no porn no masturbation for me.

What happened to this thread?!

All of us quit watching porn, found lots of interesting things to do, started having amazing sex and gave up on thunders. :P

I wish it was that easy. But it did surprise me how this thread went from daily updates to no posts in over a month.

dude just stretch! and stop smoking if you smoke!

I’ve been free from porn for almost two months now. I’ve relapsed with two videos about a week ago, but I don’t plan on relapsing again. When I masturbate, I don’t have a death grip, I don’t go fast, and I don’t think of anything, I just focus on the physical sensation of masturbating.

I don’t know if it’s been posted in this forum or not, but those who have ED/watch porn regularly really need to check this website out:

Ever since quitting porn, my urge to have a real human connection, have sex, and get a girlfriend have completely skyrocketed, but I grew up with social anxiety, general anxiety, focusing on my imperfections, and I used to be obese (skinny and fit now) until a couple years ago so my anxiety prevents me from “getting some”.

If you have ED and you have a significant other, I would urge you to quit porn and masturbation for a while (at least two months) and have your partner support you.

If you’re someone who has ED but you don’t have a significant other and have too much anxiety like me to go out and be with a real woman, I would take the porn removal process slow because the withdrawal symptoms will be too great to handle. Just taper it off or stop completely, but regularly masturbate.

The guy on the site advocates quitting all sexual activity and porn for at least 2-3 months, but that only seems plausible for guys who have girlfriends/wives where they can easily have sex if their withdrawal is too great or they know they can get back into sex once their recovery has been fully realized. It’s tough to do that for people who don’t have any emotional and sexual support from a real person because quitting porn will shift your limbic system into wanting a real person BADLY and if you can’t get any (like me), you’ll be in this painful tug of war with your limbic system.

You sound a lt like me Specialities. And your taper approach is spot on. Any sudden withdraw from dopamine stimulating activities will no doubt cause severe withdraw symptoms. They were too great for me to give up porn completely last week. It’s for that very reaon dopamine inhibitors are prescribed to gambeling and smokers to ease the withdraw process. I find B-complex supplements and pumping helps.

Unfortunately I have relapsed hard since quitting last week and shrinkage really got me but I did come up with a way to completely come off porn and survive. The first step is admitting you’re using porn to distract you from other problems. Find out what those are and get to work improving those flaws. What I do is start off by clocking my porn time needed to pe. Then I set a 30min time limit and shave off 5 min each week. As for the subject material, I found you need to ease away from the freaky shit immediately and concentrate only on realistic porn between a man and a woman without disrespecting women or slinging baby gravy on or in her body without looking like he’s raping her. Eventually I stepped away from that and found porn with masturbating women will do the trick for pe but still set a time limit.

(the end of the first video) “Monkey pays (with sweets) to see female monkey bottom (on a screen)”

LOL . And I thought I’ve seen them all …

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That is a very good article on porn use in relationships.

Ok guys, I am back in. I really got into a deep porno hole (huhhuh, he said “hole”) in Oct, Nov, Dec. Here’s what I discovered. I was really under a lot of stress regarding career, family, friends, marriage. There were thing that I felt I had no control over. Everything seemed shitty, and I felt helpless to really change anything. To me it seemed that any positive change I tried to make in those areas was met with resistance. It seemed to me that I was pounding my head against a wall. So I felt miserable, I felt like I had nothing in my life that was pleasurable.

It seemed like the only joy I had in life was when I was by myself stroking my dick. And it was like, “fuck it, I deserve at least one thing that makes me feel good. Bring on the porn”

I think it is good that I can recognize what was going on.

A lot of those things stress things have been resolved or are getting better. I don’t feel so helpless or frustrated anymore. On the other hand, my EQ seems off in the last month or so which is scaring me. I remembered this morning how much better it was when I was not watching porn every day.

I’m gonna have to go the porn site I am a member of and cancel it. I will still have access, but psychologically it feel good to cancel. I’ve got most on my porn on one drive, I am going to pull it out of the computer.

thanks for your report.

he videos are obvious and exactly what happend with me. Im watching porn since im 14(now 27) lol.
Did you see any change with your anxiety levels as I havent got rid of many of mine yet but I see how they are related with porn.?

You see porn and your brain wires it to females and whenever you see a real female your porn circuits come up but as we deal with another person we cant just jack off lol.
porn watching is totaly human but it makes no sense in the bigger picture.

Well, im now on the no porn train too.

I’m still going through withdrawal symptoms, but they’re not as strong as before because my limbic system is getting used to saying goodbye to all those clickable, on-demand women.

It’s pretty fascinating to abstain from porn because you start to ‘correct’ your mind. You start to become more masculine, your voice deepens, your desire to be with a real woman increases, and so on. And if you are a heavy porn user and begin watching gay porn, it’s not because you’re gay, it was just because your limbic system was starting to get desensitized to the usual porn and needed ‘new’ stimulation that it wasn’t used to.

My anxiety has cleared up somewhat, not because it’s just disappearing on it’s own, but because my willpower to eventually find a partner has strengthened enough to the point where it’s having a battle it can actually fight against my anxiety. One day it’ll win and I’ll get some.

great man makes total sense!!!

I often had the experience that when I didnt jacked of to porn for some days that woman started to react to me more. I think they sense if we are a wanker or if we have some valuable sperm to share :D