Hmm… I’ll try that. I really still don’t have this anal breathing thing down completely. What I do does work… but it just seems really forced. I basically push really hard with the muscles I use to shit… which tends to flex my stomach rather than expanding it as you say.
Originally Posted by bluto
I have been trying this for the past week or so since I am on an injury break from everything else.I think I have been close once or twice to getting at least part of it down. On a couple of occasions I have gotten a very good erection and been on the brink of cumming 4-6 times in the session. I have had good expansion in those sessions, but not what it should have been. I, like others, can’t seem to get the anal breathing thing down nor the rubbing of the spot where the shaft meets the pubic area.
I just tried again right now and I can’t get a good erection for what I think is me putting too much effort into trying to find the sweet spot and trying to figure out the anal breathing thing. This has been my experience more times than not. In fact, the couple of times that I got good wood and expansion, I was not trying to find the spot for the most part or worrying too much about the breathing. I think trying to find the spot is causing me more problems than the anal breathing.
I have also had to stimulate the glans area way more than suggested to keep good wood going. I have been using the fleshlight to get to almost to the point of climax then going without it from there until needed again. Again, this may be in part from me thinking too much about HOW to do it. Oh yeah, and of course I have the porn going the whole time to help.
I think I am going to try to ignore the “how to” part and focus on getting excited and getting good wood and hope to stumble onto the rest for now. Maybe when I get off my injury break soon I will take some V or C to help and maybe I can find the spot and the breathing method then.
Do you need to do the rubbing of the spot and the anal breathing from the beginning, or can you start when you get close to cumming the first time and from then on?
I am just rambling. I guess I don’t really have a point. Just wanted to share my frustrations.
Any suggestions are welcome.
I seem to have the same problems as you have, but through experimentation I seem to have figured most of it out. I also have to stimulate my glans way more than most people seem to have to. Basically I wank off until I get to the point of oragsm. I DON’T start any of the anal breathing or poking of the spot until I get to this point because it doesn’t seem to do anything for me. Once I’m really on the brink I press in that spot and play with it and really try to reverse kegel as hard as I can. This really works and I get good expansion from it. This is the point where the problem comes in though. If I have come too close to the point of orgasming during this process a little bit of cum will have come out (not pre-cum… actual cum)… but I won’t have orgasmed. This will however make it harder for me to get back to the point of orgasming and I will have to wank it again for a few minutes to get back up to that point. If that doesn’t happen then I’ll wait a few seconds before stimulating again… but will have to stimulate my glans again to get back to the point of feeling like I’m going to cum. If I’m really close to orgasming then I can just play with the base and touch my glans with the tip of my fingers to stay at that point… but it’s hard as hell for me to do that without actually orgasming.
I read a few pages back that kazooplayer said that you shouldn’t kegel at all during this exercise. This seems to be true as it seems to make it easier for you to orgasm involuntarily during the ballooning process. I noticed that reverse kegeling really hard when you feel you’re going to cum seems to help fight off cumming because I’m really trying to prevent the first contraction (like kegeling). If you’re on the brink of cumming and you let this contraction happen then you’re screwed, lol… and you’re going to start orgasming.
I don’t know how this works for other people… but like I said… I really have to be on the brink of cumming for the ballooning to work. I have to be really close to orgasming… and once I get to that point I get like a rush of blood into my penis if I’m doing things right… and then I have to do the same thing over again. This kind of sucks because between the end of the expansion and the start of the next feeling of orgasming I’ll lose some of the expansion I just got.
Ok, that’s it for now. If anyone has any questions or comments I would like to hear them.