Originally Posted by thinktank
Yesterday was an upsetting day in my PE history. I had popped some V to help with controlled erect bends and to get the maximum engourgement. After a good workout, I measured with about an 80% erection and was elated: Six and an eighth midshaft and six and a quarter at my base. I was as horny as a goat and mentioned it to my sweet wife who suggested we have a quickie. “This one’s for you.” Her response aroused me greatly and after lubing up, I had a wonderful time and assumed all was well. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. I could tell that her vaginal walls felt tight around my pecker but I attributed that to no foreplay, romance or good arousal for her. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.Cleaning up, she said some words that floored me. “You have got to stop that dick exercise stuff. You hurt me like our honeymoon night. You are too big and I’m bleeding.” Boy did I feel like a heel apologizing to her and comforting her. I was personally baffled. This is not how this is supposed to work I thought to myself. I really want to be seven inches in girth was another thought.
Retracing that time in the sack, I could have been as much as six and a quarter mid shaft and six and a half at my base given a very good viagra erection and good arousal. Our lovemaking wasn’t rough. Thirty five years of marriage has taught me something.
So I present my quandary to you. Why do we think seven inches and greater is the gold standard for really being hung in girth? Are there really women out there who appreciate that kind of girth. For me, in a committed, monogamous relationship I have got to rethink everything about my goals. I have alot of work to do communicating with my wife on this man thing in my head about wanting a bigger dick. Above all, I know that quickies in an engourged state with no foreplay are out.
Any advice for me here? Any thought on why we think seven inches and above in girth is better than six inches? Have we abandoned what is generally best for our wives and partners in pursuit of wanting to be king of the hill?
Look lots of guys put all kinds of things on their “penis wish list”…doesn’t mean they can or will get it. I don’t know of more than one or two guys with that kind of girth…most dream of six inches, and few get there.
Obviously when you find a routine that is producing results, the next step is to see how it effects your gal…especially a wife.
I really suspect if you don’t try and get any bigger, and give her a couple weeks with your current girth, she will adapt to it and enjoy it safely…very much. Just a case of you growing a little too fast for her ability to keep up with you, but she definitely can.
After things settle down, and she can comfortably take your girth again…then if you still want more size, I think it should be a decision that you make together…and if she doesn’t want it, then you should probably get another hobby other than making your dick bigger. I know, how about using it on her more often, make up in frequency what you give up in size!!! :)
By the way…great gains!