Girth: My reasoning and Reality
I’m dating again. A nice girl, really seems to suit me. She may be around a while. But…this isn’t a relationship progress column. Her presence brings me to two things.
1. I may have to decline to PE as regularly due to scheduling my time with her and how she likes to stay over.
2. I didn’t realize how much bigger I had gotten since I last had a new partner until our first night last night.
Some of you may remember me posting about more girth here: Why more girth? My reasoning. and how I was after girth regardless of my future partners thoughts on the matter. Well…while my stance is mostly unchanged…
She barely could fit me in doggy style. As in, I had to pop in from behind and barely could get past the tip. (my glans is closing in on 2” wide and 1.75” or a little more in length) Then after pushing as hard as I can (she didn’t tear by some miracle) on every outstroke she squeezed me out and I’d have to do it all over again. Missionarry she could only get me halfway in and it still was a challenge. She enjoyed it but she was clearly struggling.
So while I’m still working on my girth experiment…I have to come to terms with the fact that I’m probably too big for her now. That I do in fact love watching my partners struggle with my size. And that more of this is probably in the future for her. She’s very game about it, she is of the belief she can and will take dick well regardless and loves to please.
But you have to at least consciously make this decision. Do not cop out and say “I didn’t realize how big I was until…” when the signs will be there. You’ll understand the effect your size has on your partners. Do not pretend that you don’t and be attentive so you can be sure what those effects are. Keep getting bigger if you want…but make no excuses on being reckless or inconsiderate. Own the path you take, regardless the fork you pick.